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"Five Good Questions" for Animal Behavior Expert Sarah Wilson.

According to BusinessWeek, Americans spend $41 billion a year on their pets. Dogs and cats are often treated like members of the family - or better. Clearly, our bond with our pets is strong - but why? And why the great divide between "dog people" and "cat people"?

An upcoming episode of Nature - titled, appropriately, "Why We Love Cats and Dogs" -- explores these very questions. One of the show's featured experts is Sarah Wilson, an expert animal behaviorist, renowned dog trainer and popular speaker and author. Wilson also knows a thing or two about human behavior, if her profiles of dog owner personalities are any indication.

This week, Wilson is our guest here at Engage, and is on hand to answer Five Good Questions. Just leave your questions in the comments below and I'll choose five for her to answer; check back next week for her responses.

In the meantime, check out Wilson in action on YouTube:

For more videos like this one, just enter "My Smart Puppy" into the YouTube search bar.

(Rather show off your own dog - or cat? Don't miss Nature's pet photo contest.)

Comments

puppy training

Nice video, I just got a new puppy and was hoping to get some tips on training. After looking at the amount of time and patients required I think I pass and will get a professional to do it.

Older Dog

My dog was housebroken well since he was a puppy. Now at 12 he seems to be developing an incontinence problem and is is impossible to allow him free access around the house any more. I feel terrible. What can I do for him?

older incontinent dog

If you haven't had him examined by a vet, please do that first. It's very important, especially at your dog's advancd age. There may be nothing to be done but confine him and get puppy training pads, but there may well be a medical problem that can be treated.

True for dogs and people - some things break down when we get old, but that doesn't necessarily mean they can't be treated.

Always, always check for medical reasons first. If that's cleared, then you think about behavioral solutions.

Why do cats choose certain people?

I'm a cat magnet. Always have been. Never met one I could say "no" to. Why do so many cats choose to befriend me and frequently learn to do doggie things like fetch for me?

5 good questions for Sarah Wilson

What should you do when your dog, on leash, is approached by another dog who is off leash, in order to avoid encouraging stress or aggression?

Dog / People Aggression

I have a female, 18 month old Lab that is becoming more aggressive as she matures. What is a good technique that I can use to begin to reverse her tendency to charge at dogs and people walking towards us. I feel that her aggression has grown out of fear / insecurity, but I am no longer totally sure of that assessment.

On Becoming an Animal Behavior Expert

How does one go about becoming an Animal Behavior Expert?

I have the same question! I

I have the same question! I would love to learn about how one becomes an expert on animal behavior (particularly dogs). One learns a bit just being around them/taking care of them, but what's the next step?

Careers In Animal Behavior

I just found this which maybe helpful:
http://www.indiana.edu/~animal/help/careers.html

Cat sraying

I have 12 cats and since my oldest alpha cat passed away almost 2 years, I have 2 cats that are spraying. I have tried everything out there that are suppose to help with the spraying and Nothing has worked. Any suggestions?

I had a cat that was

I had a cat that was spraying and my vet put him on the medicine Reconcile, which the label states is a med. for seperation anxiety for dogs. The medicine has done wonders. I started it about 5 months ago and have no spraying. I was at my wits end with this cat and this medicine has been a life saver. Its worth talking to your vet about it. Good luck!

Cat's Claws.

I just adopted a cat and I had a question about her claws. She seems to be preoccupied with licking between the toes of one of her back paws and also bites on one of the middle claws like she's going to pull it out. There's no inflammation and she shows no signs of having problems walking or running.

I was also wondering what flea treatments work best for cats. I put a drop of frontline on her skin between her shoulder blades but she still scratches. Are flea collars better?

Looking like kitty's pulling out claws!

Hello--

I used to have a calico, let's call her Lucy, who used to do just that--excessively clean between her back claws and look look as though she's going to pull the claws themselves out! I don't know why she did that, she did it her entire life, but nothing ever came of it; claws stayed in her little feet, no blood drawn. She lived to be 17.

My feeling is this when it comes to animals: if there's a little blood, investigate and decide if there's something you should do about it. Remember, visits to the vet are stressful. If there's a lot of blood and screaming, get help!

Hope this helps you.

Rebecca

Looking like kitty's pulling out claws!

Cats shed their claws - not the entire claw, but the outer layer. The cat licking and chewing is probably trying to get that layer off.

cats claws

I have 4 cats and one of them licks and pulls at her claws like that as well, I don't think it's a bad thing, (especially if there's no injury), just the way they manicure themselves.
And I have often tried flea drops, but the best effect we got was when we shaved a little patch of fur off first and then put the drops on the bare skin; it didn't get all over he fur and seemed to sink in better and control the fleas (for 4 cats!) Good luck!

Cat's chewing

Cats groom themselves and trimming their nails are part of it. As I understand, cat nails have layers, and biting on them loosening the outer layers and they pull them off. It is perfectly normal. I usually only pay attention to it as a sign that maybe I need to clip their nails soon.

Reply - Cat's Claws

I agree with all of the other comments here, cats do shed their claws and it is not a bad or worrisome behavior, but if she is only favoring one foot, you may want to inspect to ensure she does not have an injury or cut between her toes that she is licking. Good luck with your new cat!

Flea Treatments

I have always had the best luck with either Frontline(R) or Revolution(R) - both are flea protection, but Revolution(R) is also a heartworm preventative.

Before giving a heartworm preventative, have your cat tested to ensure she is not heartworm positive. Make sure you follow the recommended dosage as a small kitten will only take a small dosage versus an adult/heavier cat. Do not give back to back dosages if the fleas do not instantly disappear. The way the chemical works is that it soaks into the fat layer of the animal and if the animal gets fleas and they bite the animal, they will end up ingesting some of the chemical and kill them.

Fleas have a 3-5 day life cycle, and if there are flea eggs on the cat's skin, it may take 5-10 days for all of the fleas to finally disappear. You will also want to treat your home (carpets, furniture, etc.) or the cat may keep getting reinfested.

Cats and Heartworms

I decided to reply to Amanda's advice, but I also want to submit this as a question to Sarah Wilson.

I just lost a beautiful, healthy 5 year old calico cat, supposedly because of heartworms. She walked into the room, threw up, retched a couple more times, and was in a coma and dead within 15 minutes. To say I was traumatized would be an understatement.

I took her little body to the vet and they did some kind of test that indicated she was positive for heartworms. Now I find from the internet that when a cat gets them, it's a death sentence...untreatable, because they die when the worm dies.

I am 52 years old and had cats all my life. I've never heard of cats getting heartworms...never had a vet suggest that I use a preventative, and never had anything like this happen before. Why are people not told about this? As hard as it was on me, suppose it happened in front of a child? It was a painful, ugly death, too...although over with quickly. I'm just so upset that cat owners are not warned of the danger? Is it something that just recently started? Can you discuss this?

Jan

Flea Treatments

I forgot to mention the main subject. I live in South Carolina where the fleas are really bad. Although as a rule it seems like Frontline works better, after several summers, I think the flea population gets immune to a brand. I've found that using Frontline one year, Advantage the next year, and just a good flea collar during the spring and fall seems to help.

But now after the heartworm thing, I will have no choice but to use Advantage Multi. My vet doesn't carry Revolution, although I've seen it online. They told me today that Advantage was gentle enough to use even if the pet already has been exposed to heartworms. The cat is doomed to about 2 years anyway if it has them...but apparently Advantage won't bring on the death of a worm as it only kills the eggs or larvae. At least this is what they said.

Jan

Cat with serious anxiety issues

I have a 11-year-old tortoise shell kitty with a completely antisocial disposition... attacks visitors and cat-sitters... but she loves me. Sometimes little too much. She's on top of me the moment I sit down. I'm 99% sure it's separation anxiety.

I've been giving her Amitryptalene, which seems to be helping, but she's still a freak. And she grooms obsessively and constantly -- her butt is totally bald. (eek!). Nothing's changed in my life for years -- no new pets, new furniture, new anything of importance really. Any ideas on how I can help chill her out? (My friends are kind of scared of her.)

Indoor Cat

Hi,

I have an indoor cat. I adore her and want her to have a good, interesting and fulfilling life, as much as an indoor cat can have. But therein lies the problem. I feel terrible that she is inside all day with nothing to do. After I get home at night, I spend time petting her and going through our little ritual of feeding. I try to play and get her moving, but she is not really interested anymore.

I also let her outside in the front porch area for a few minutes each day, but always supervise her since there are dogs around. I feel terrible that she cannot spend all day or night outside. To combat loneliness, I tried adopting another cat, but that did not go so well. They fought incessantly, to the point where the other cat had to go to a friend.

Is there anything else I can do to supplement her day? In adopting her many years ago I feel responsible for her happiness. Any suggestions would be really helpful.

Thanks!

Julia

Alleviating Cat's Boredom

First of all, stop feeling "terrible that your cat is inside all day with nothing to do." Cats are very adaptive. That's why cats make great pets in small spaces or busy cities.

I assume that your cat is spayed/neutered? Just checking. Cats are much happier and healthier if they are altered.

If at first one cat companion doesn't work, try again. Like people, cats can have definite opinions about who they want to get along with. Try a kitten. Animals will often tolerate a young one of their own species, even if grudgingly.

When introducing another cat (or kitten) to your home, ask a friend to bring the new prospective kitty to your home over the course of several days to visit, taking the kitty back home with them each day. Each time the new kitty comes for a visit, refer to the new visitor as "his cat." In this way your cat won't associate you with the new interloper kitty and it will seem his choice rather than one thrust upon him. Hopefully you have a friend that is willing to take care of the new kitty for a week or so while going through this little ritual.

CATNIP is an excellent ice breaker or exercise stimulant. I enclose my cats' toys in plastic bags along with catnip between play times so that the toys always reek of catnip. Also, you can place catnip directly on the floor and let your beloved little kitty revel in rolling in the stuff. You can always vacuum it up after its effects have worn off.

These are just a few ideas to add variety and fun to your cat's life.

Indoor Cat

I have several cats that remain indoors only. They love to look out of the windows and watch the world go by. (No, they are not longing to be outside!) Try placing a bird feeder outside of a window where kitty can have a ring side seat. If your windows are not easily accessable, try a kitty perch or a window seat to give a better view. A little catnip on a new perch will be sure to attract attention.

Alleviating Cat's Boredom

First of all, stop feeling "terrible that your cat is inside all day with nothing to do." Cats are very adaptive. That's why cats make great pets in small spaces or busy cities.

I assume that your cat is spayed/neutered? Just checking. Cats are much happier and healthier if they are altered.

If at first one cat companion doesn't work, try again. Like people, cats can have definite opinions about who they want to get along with. Try a kitten. Animals will often tolerate a young one of their own species, even if grudgingly.

When introducing another cat (or kitten) to your home, ask a friend to bring the new prospective kitty to your home over the course of several days to visit, taking the kitty back home with them each day. Each time the new kitty comes for a visit, refer to the new visitor as "his cat." In this way your cat won't associate you with the new interloper kitty and it will seem his choice rather than one thrust upon him. Hopefully you have a friend that is willing to take care of the new kitty for a week or so while going through this little ritual.

CATNIP is an excellent ice breaker or exercise stimulant. I enclose my cats' toys in plastic bags along with catnip between play times so that the toys always reek of catnip. Also, you can place catnip directly on the floor and let your beloved little kitty revel in rolling in the stuff. You can always vacuum it up after its effects have worn off.

These are just a few ideas to add variety and fun to your cat's life.

Bored Kitty

I have always been a huge fan of Cesar Millan, since I do have both cats and dogs in my house with dogs, Cesar always says "exercise, discipline, then affection" I don't think this works with cats as they could care less about exercise and discipline. They're going to do what they want to do, no matter what you want!

However, I do agree with him that we as humans like to put human emotions onto our animals. We want them to be "happy" and "fulfilled" - when realistically, they are an animal and they don't understand human emotions. They will take care of themselves and of course they may prefer to be outside - simply so they can fulfill their innate behaviors of hunting for their own food, joining a community with a "pride" structure.

Just because you only have one cat and just because she doesn't want to play does not mean that she is not leading a happy and fulfilling life. Some cats don't like to "play" and they're completely content just laying in the sun and napping! Don't worry about their happiness, they really can take care of themselves!

Thank you to everyone for

Thank you to everyone for the comments on my indoor cat. I too watch Ceasar Milan and agree with him about projecting our human emotions on to our pets. It's funny how I believe this and yet here I was doing exactly that! :))

I plan to get a window birdfeeder - I've tried that in the past and she seemed to like it. I will also attempt a new kitten with the instructions. Quite interesting way to introduce a kitten. Thanks for that advice.

As far as this idea of projecting our own needs and wishes onto our pets, it's a funny thing. I want to respect the life of this creature I have brought into my home, and yet it is difficult for to understand that animals have an entirely different way to relate. I think most of us have a natural tendency to nurture. Pets become the receiver of that love. I don't know if it is a good thing or bad thing. I do know that my cat waits for me to come home and seems to show affection and love. Whether or not that is tied to my giving her food and shelter, I am uncertain. Pets really are a mystery in so many ways. I think we have a lot to learn about how to properly respect them.

Thank you so much for the comments. I appreciate it a lot! Very insightful. :)

Cheers-

Julia

Kitty Boredom

I think our cat is pretty happy indoors alone all day--but she does love human attention. We leave the TV on for her occasionally as she seems to love it--seems to be a good substitute personal attention.

Bad Kitty At Night/Good Kitty During The Day

I have two 6 month old female cats (litter mates from a shelter). They are generally well behaved aside from the odd sofa scratch and frenzied toilet paper attack however one of them is very restless during the night and it's driving me and my boyfriend crazy. Around 3 a.m. she will perform what I call 'the rounds' where she will meow plaintively while perform the most noisy and irritating things she can think of (trying to open the kitchen cupboards, chewing on the lamp shade, scratching the couch and pulling at the mini blinds).

I have tried to 'cat proof' these items and have had a bit of success but I'm concerned as to the reason behind it - is she lonely? hungry, desperate to escape (they are indoor cats)?

I have resorted to getting up and feeding her but I know I'm building a rod for my own back with that one!!

Zoe, One idea, I do this all

Zoe,

One idea, I do this all the time and it works for me. Feed your kitties dinner right before you go to bed, I give mine about 1/4 can of caned food. Usually, when a cat eats a meal that will trigger something in their brain which tells them it's time to groom then sleep. It may take a few nights, but it wouldn't hurt to try.

All three of my cats are in this routine, and with the exception of the occasional noisy mischief, they are all in bed, with us, until the next morning.

Good luck!

Carol

'Bad kitty"'s" Night crazies

This is very common, especially with young cats. As they age, they usually calm down.

But - STOP feeding her in the middle of the night! As you said, you are training her (or she's training you) to make a habit of both the crazy behavior and middle of the night eating. Not what you want.
It will take awhile to break that habit; doesn't take long to set. You will have to learn to ignore her attempts to get you up, and that will be tough. Start on weekends when you can sleep in a little.
The bedtime feeding trick may work, but if it doesn't (she's young), what has worked for me through many kittens is making sure they are exercised well before bedtime. Playtime -vigorous exercise, running, climbing if you have climbable cat furniture) around 8-ish if bedtime is around 10:00 or 10:30 usually works. Too soon before bedtime and they'll just be racing around while you're trying to fall asleep.
If you haven't introduced her to a variety of cat toys and catnip (not all cats react to it, but most do), use them to get your kitten moving. Try to keep it up for at least 15 min. or so. Young cats especialy are full of energy, their sleep cycles are somewhat shorter than ours, and they are basically nocturnal. You have to train her to your cycles. Basically, you want to wear her out, late enough but not so late she's still revved up at your bedtime.
And trust me, after about one year to a year and a half old, the high-energy nearly always settles down.
Question - is she spayed? If not, six months is old enough, and that will settle her down some. The change in some cats is amazing - after spaying, some have to be encouraged to get up and exercise.
Good luck.

Can't They Just Get Along?

I have a 6-year-old female Tuxedo cat Gloria. I've had her for the past three years and we live in an apartment in NY. She's never been outdoors or exposed to other cats.

Recently, I "inherited" another female cat from a friend. Duck is a 16-year-old, very energetic and perky Calico/Tortie cat.

The idea was to keep them from each other for the first few weeks. Duck's litter box and food were kept in my bedroom while I kept Gloria's litter and food the same place it always has been--in the office.

It has been almost two months. They roam the apartment freely, but as soon as they get within a feet of each other, the hissing begins.

I usually sleep with Gloria on the bed with me. But since Duck has her stuff in my bedroom, Gloria has refused to even go in the room. She's more reserved and quiet.

I need help/advice. How do I get these two darlings to get along? I understand they're both very set in their ways, but I would love for both of them to curl up in bed with me. And I'd like to eventually have both their litter and food in one room. Is it ok to have them share a litter box too?

Thanks!

Hissy fits

When my fiancee and I moved in together, we had to make my 2 cats and his 2 cats get along in one house, which went fine except for two of them absolutely cannot stand one another, and hiss and fight like you describe. It's been about 2 years, and I don't think they will EVER get along, but they manage. They all share 3 litter boxes and food dishes, so they HAD to be around one another, plus I used a little child psychology on the mean one which I believe helped her calm down and become less aggressive. In conclusion, they may never be buddies, but after a time they'll learn to cope, just treat each one with equal affection. Kitties can be very jealous.

Gloria and Duck

If they are just hissing at each other, no yowling, no wrestling and scratching, they are actually getting along pretty well for the circumstances.
Actually, two months isn't especially long in the process of cats becoming acquainted. I've brought a number of new cats in when there was an established older cat; usually, but not always, at kitten age.
A couple years ago my ex decided he couldn't keep one of the cats he had "custody" of because he was peeing on things while staring right at my ex. (He had really been quite attached to me, slept on my pillow, followed me around, etc.) Charlie was already about 5 years old, formerly feral. I now had 5 kittens born to a neighbor's cat (loooong story), who were about a year old when Charlie came.
Charlie didn't come out from under the bed for 2 or 3 months! Eventually, he came out, explored the place, and took up a spot on the sofa. He virtually never moved from the sofa. He had been a very active cat who loved to chase and retrieve (!) balls, and he just wouldn't. After a couple more years, he began to move a little farther from his comfort zone, and recently, 4 years after arrival, he has begun to play with balls and catnip toys - jumping off the sofa, grabbing from the sofa, and even running across the floor.
No retrieving, though. Oh well.
I tell you this because cats can take a verrrry long time to adjust to change and to new cats.

One suggestion- gradually move Duck's bowls out of your bedroom. Keeping Gloria's in the familiar place made sense, but putting Duck's things in your bedroom tells Gloria that Duck has taken her place in your affection. Once Duck's things are gone, you may have to go out of your way to invite Gloria back. Call her, roll toys she likes into the bedroom, put a piece of your clothing on the bed. Anything that works.
The rule of thumb for litter boxes is actually one box per cat plus one more. I don't have room for that many, so they do share, but in your case, I would get two litter boxes at least. Get the small ones if there isn't room for two large boxes; the point is that each wants her own. And keep them cleaned often, two or three times a day.
And, oh yes, try to get them to play - catnip toys, soap bubbles, cat dancer type toys - and be sure to play with each separately or both together. Keep trying - sedentary cats may take some time to get off their comfortable spots, but eventually you'll find the irresistible toy for each.
Hope this isn't too long - trying to be helpful.

Thank you

Thank you for all your feedback. It's so helpful to know that I'm not alone in this. I will try slowly moving Duck's bowl into the same room as Gloria's. Very slowly, that is. And I will try to be more patient about it. I know it will take time and I think they've progressed quite a bit since Duck moved in.

I'll keep you posted on the progress. Thanks again.

Cats paws in water

My cat Molly puts her paw into the water bowl while she's drinking--why does she do that?

Watery paws

Some cats just do. The only two I ever had that did that were tuxedo American short hairs and they just HAD to clean their paws in the water every now and then before they drank. Like raccoons.

Wet Paws

Cats cannot see what is right in front of their noses. They rely heavily on their noses to guide them to food and water. They have learned where the water bowl is kept, but they sometimes have to step in to to actually "SEE" where the water level is. (Or that's the story my vet gave me!) Also, in the wild, a cat would step in or "pop" the top of a puddle before drinking out of it in an attept to move any floating debris to get to the water.

A quick fix would be a water fountain that would circulate water continuously. I just try to empty and clean those standard bowls frequently.

Reason for inappropriate cat peeing?

My parents have a very large young neutered cat who has to be kept out of the bedrooms or he will pee on the bed, in suitcases, in laundry baskets, etc. Sometimes he pees on the floor in other rooms, too.

He has been checked by the vet and has no physical issue. There is a clean litter box available at all times, and he is an indoor/outdoor cat.

There are two other neutered male cats in the household. One is very old and docile and the other is young and submissive. Is this peeing meant as a signal to them?

The cat in question is very bonded to my father, who is also a full-time caregiver to my grandmother. Could the cat be protesting a lack of attention?

Sadly my kitty honeybear

Sadly my kitty honeybear passed away in September of 2008 and she is survived by her two sister kitties of the same litter Bubba & Speedy Marie. They are elderly cats and nearly 18 now.
I am wondering if Speedy's sudden positioning of herself as top bed cat *the place Honeybear used to occupy* and taking on many of the behaviors that honeybear was known for.. yet she never did before.... is a type of mourning for her sister or if she is merely sensitive to my loss... and if they even notice her not being there.

i guess i wonder if house cats mourn.?

thank you.

suzanne.

re: cats mourning

While I DO think that pets mourn, consider this story of mine. I adopted Sampson and Delilah as adult cats from different shelters and they became friends. years later I adopted Squeaky, a very young all black kitten. Sampson eventually died. Squeaky and Delilah never really became friends. Squeaky, in fact was affectionately referred to as "the black b- from hell". Neither cat was especially affectionate. One day Delilah disppeared and Squeaky became a little lap cat. We thought she was actually sad that Delilah was gone. I couldn't believe how much she wanted to be around me. 6 days later Delilah showed up. Squeaky once more became her little b....y self. She didn't miss Delilah - she was actually glad Delilah was gone!

re: Sadly my kitty Honeybear

Dear Suzanne,

First of all, I'm sorry to hear of your loss...a friend of 18 years is so hard to say goodbye to.

Though Speedy's immitation of Honeybear's behaviors may be linked to her own mourning, or a desire to comfort you in yours, it also may point to the re-organization of the social heirarchy in your pet family. Even though cats are not pack animals like dogs, when they live together in one household they do each assume a position of dominance or submissiveness toward the other feline family members. It sounds like Honeybear had formerly established herself as the "alpha-cat" in your household, enjoying the privilege of sleeping on your bed, etc. In the absence of Honeybear, the social heirarchy re-organizes, and one of the remaining cats claims the alpha-cat position.

Cat chewing off belly fur?

Our cat has been chewing off her belly and hind leg fur now for more than a year. Angel is a tiger cat who is about 8 years old and are not sure why it started when it did. We had been in our house for 2 years before she started and as far as I can remember, nothing changed in our habits. She is overweight and wonder if it has something to do with that, like a thyroid problem. We are going to take her to our new vet because our old vet said it is nothing to worry about after he looked at it. There is no blood but some of the areas (around her ni99les, it wouldn't let me type the word) look chaffed. It just seems like obsessive grooming because she does it while we are around her. Or maybe it is allergies. Can allergies develop later in life?

Any thoughts?

Bully fur

Chuck -

My cat does the same thing. It started just this past year but has moved up to his leg now. He just licks off most of the hair and it appears as if someone has shaved his belly perfectly as well as his outer legs. My vet told me that it was allergies but I'm not sure that's the case anymore.

Please let me know what you find out as well. I'm worried I'm going to have a hairless cat come summertime!

Best,
Pamela

hair-removing kitty

I'm the person who posted about the cat with anxiety earlier... my cat has the same problem, only it's with her tummy (her formerly deliciously fluffy white tummy!), and primarily her butt. Her butt is completely bald at this point. The vet kept trying to pin it on allergies, but I've changed foods, etc. I think it might be an anxiety issue with your cat. Try playing relaxation music when you're not around, and figure out what kinds of toys interest her to play when you're not there. Those things seemed to help my cat somewhat (tho' she's sooo neurotic, i think there's little chance of a complete cure at this point)

change of habit

I have a large table next to my dog house and my dog would always go out on the table to look around or lay down and lounge. All of a sudden you cannot get him out on the table? He shows no signs of injury, cuts scraps or pain. He will not go out on the table any more. I have gone out on the table and I have place all kinds of treats and toys on the table. He will not go on the table. He is 7 years old and a solid 95 pound bull terrier mix.

Separation Anxiety

I have a ten month old male mixed hound that is a wonderful pet other than he tends to bark when i leave our condo. I've gotten complaints from 'neighbors' and hope this will subside over time. In the meantime, someone recommended a bark collar but I'm not totally comfortable with that. What are your thoughts about the collar and/or do you have other suggestions? I have tried training him by leaving for short times, then rewarding him for being quiet, increasing the time slowly, but it has not worked!

Thank you,

Charles

perfect 15 mos old puppy for work

Hi,
I have a very well trained and happy puppy who will do a lot on command. How do I get her into tv, print, etc.? Where do I begin? She loves the camera, will allow you to dress her up, put shoes, sunglasses, winter coats on her, etc. I think it would be fun. Please let me know.
Thanks
New Jersey

What can I say to people who

What can I say to people who really want to meet my (admittedly cute) dog when we are out on training walks and it's not the right time to "Say Hi"? These are the same people who tell me, "It's OK for your little dog to jump on me. I love dogs." :) Thanks for hosting these questions and I'm looking forward to the Nature special!

Eating Feces

My 8 month old yellow male (neutered) Lab has a taste for our other Lab's feces. No matter what we do (remonstrating, giving anti-feces pills to our other Lab, sprinkling other Lab's food with msg), he goes for the feces. It's disgusting to us, but he doesn't seem to be sick over it. He's been doing this for about three months now and I'm not sure it'll ever stop. Any suggestions?

eating feces

My dachshund has been eating his OWN feces for about 6 months now. We'll take him outside and he won't "go" and then 10 minutes later he will potty inside and if we don't catch it, it's gone. I belong to a Dachshund rescue group and have emailed repeatedly about this. Suggestions were to try crushed pineapple mixed in with his food, crushed pineapple and shredded zucchini mixed in with his food, canned pumpkin (plain, NOT pie mix), meat tenderizer, and finally Forbid (from the vet and EXPENSIVE, but similar to meat tenderizer). LOL. NONE of these worked! Finally someone said "change his food" and "change his food regularly". Said they may eat their feces because there is something missing in their diet. So, I'm changing his food around at every meal. So far he still sometimes eats his feces. But, if it makes you feel better (it did me), folks in my group said this is not necessarily unhealthy. Disgusting to us, yes, but as long as it's his/her own or your other dog's and you know they don't have worms or other parasites, then your dog is probably ok. They said pick up the feces as soon as you can after they "go" - don't give them the opportunity to eat it. A search on the Internet said "don't let your dog get into this habit as it is quite difficult to break". Yep, it is.

Eating feces

My dachsund used to do this, only it was with the cat's feces (even after they'd been coated with cat litter). I read that this is a perfectly normal occurrence with dogs, and although it's disgusting to us, it has no adverse effect on the dog (assuming that the other animal is healthy, and not infected with worms, etc.).

Commando Cats

I've never seen anyone ask, or answer, this question.

When I take my dog on a walk two of my cats follow....or at least follow in a cat like way. I will walk the dog along the path and the cats skittle from bush to tree to rock in a commando-like fashion, one takes cover while the other one dashes to the next tree. I've had two separate groups of cats do this, each group lived with me several years apart so it's not a "learned" behavior. It was/is with two different dogs.
It's also a regular behavior, in each case the cats do/did it with each walk.

Thanks.

Dog aggression

My dog is now 6 years old. She was great with other dogs, but has grown to be more fearful of them. Many trainers have written her off because of her age, saying this can't be reversed. I would love to have my playful puppy back. I hate that we can't go on walks or hang out with others who have dogs because I'm afraid of how Sadie will behave. Is it too late for her? If not, what can I start doing now to reverse this behavior. Thanks so much!

Toilet trained cat

I have a cat that is toilet trained, and she goes #1 totally normal, sitting on the seat, but about a year after she was trained, she started going #2 in a very strange way. She crawls into the bowl - butt up in the air, and lets gravity work - most of the time it falls in between her legs, and into the bowl, but occasionally a piece will land on the seat.

I have asked another behaviorist about this a couple of years ago and he said he had never heard of it and had no clue. My concern is her putting her feet in the toilet bowl itself - I don't want her to get sick. Is there any way to get her to start going #2 the "normal" way again? And, should I be concerned over the fact that she is putting her feet in the toilet bowl to go #2? I don't mind having to occasionally flick a piece back in the bowl, and we clean the toilet about every other week, but it would be nice to be able to get her to start going the regular way again.

Thanks in advance for your help
Jen

Dog to dog aggression in the household

My f. poochon (Punkin) arrived first in a new house I'm living in. She is 11 now. Then a year later we brought in a pug, about 4. Her name is Moo Shu or just "Moosh". Punkin seemed OK for several weeks but then started to attack...not just a bite, but a fight to kill. We had to pry her mouth of Moosh's throat to save her life!. This aggression is continuing. The only time they can be together is on a walk, when they walk side by side as if nothing ever happened.

I have an electric collar on Punkin and jolt her when she starts to attack. It stops the attack itself but not the inclination. Moosh is now equally aggressive toward Punkin after those previous attacks. She will not submit to Punkin.

We have a third dog (all are rescues), a male terripoo, age about 5, who is fine with the two females.

Any ideas for stopping the aggression?

Getting all my Dogs to Get Along with One Another

In the past year I have gotten four dogs - all rescues that I couldn't say no to adopting. The oldest is 12, and she has the hardest time getting along with the other 2 females, one a four yr old shepard chow mix, and a 2 yr old Great Dane St Bernard mix. The 2 yr old and 4 yrd old occasionally get into as well. They all have plenty of food, toys and chewies - I free feed with bowls of water and food around the house which always have fresh water and food. There are plenty of chewies but they always seem to want the one the other dog is chewing, even if I have just given them each a new one. They all get individually attention, walks and alone time and plenty of running and playing at the dog park and in a large fenced yard and at camp. Is it just getting them all together in a new environment in a short span of time? They actually do very well most of the day but it seems once or twice a day there is a spat. Like siblings.

see above story

Interesting that your problems, as mine, revolve around female dogs. My "attack dog" is an otherwise sweet 11 year old female. My male has no issues with the females. All are rescued.

I'm hoping an expert will comment on my situation. I take the two little girls out for walks every day TOGETHER, side by side, rubbing each other the entire way. No problems. Then we get back home, Punkin goes for Moo Shu as soon as we go through the door, as if someone had thrown the "Dr. Jeckyl-Mrs Hyde" switch, transforming her into a beast of prey!

I think it's at least partly an issue of female-to-female dominance and jealousy of any attention given to an "intruder" into her established territory. The "dark side of estrogen", so to speak. It happens in the back yard too. We can't let them out together. Punkin claims the entire house and yard as her fiefdom. But Punkin has always had a dominant mode, which I realize looking back, but didn't pick up on till Moo Shu came along.

In a dog sitting, with other dogs, she didn't fight them but imposed her will on them.
She picked out each dog's toy, gave it to the other dog, and would not let this dog get another toy. She is 12# and the other dogs were over 100# in some cases. We thought it was funny, and it is, but it has a "dark side". Some trainers have told me that females are like that in general with other females and some won't train two females together.

We are Cesar Millan "Dog Whisperer" disciples, have all his books and his TV dvds, and have tried the "submission" techniques that seemed to work in some of his cases. Not with Punkin. At least, not the way we did it.

I'm hoping someone will have a way to get Punkin to accept Moo Shu as a "buddy". Good luck with your problem, and if you get insight into mine, let me know.

Was my dog psychic?

There was a period in my dogs life when he was very tuned into me. Caleb would start running to the door waging his tail, and my family would say "Tom is on his way home". Within 3 minutes or so, I would drive in. I worked on a farm, so the time of my return would vary. My truck was no louder than any others out there, and he would react when I was at least two miles away. Is this common? Was my dog psychic, or did he just have real good hearing?

Cat skin problems - stress related

I have a question. I have had my adult cat for nearly 5 years. (He is almost 7 years old). At the beginning of this year, I got a 6 month-old male kitten. I got him to give my first cat companionship and did a lot of research to find out what type of cat would most likely be least threatening (male kitten). As soon as the kitten arrive, my cat began to get skin problems. The vet has tested for fungal infection, but I haven't yet received any results. There continue to be more and more patches of skin missing and red then crusted over (scabbed) skin patches. I first thought he was getting scratched from rough-housing with the kitten, but the vet thought it could be a fungal infection (the kitten has nothing, though). Could this be something stress-related from having to adjust to the kitten coming into his territory?
-Concerned Mom

How to control my "alpha dog" when she's actually a "beta dog"?

I have two shih tzu, Marshmallow & Loki. They're both female, similar size and same age. Marshmallow has assumed the dominate role but she's very insecure. She gets to do everything first. However, sometime she goes crazy. Every so often she would get aggressive with Loki. But Loki doen't seem to be affected. She just pretend like nothing is happening and ignore Marshmallow's bullying. I'm wondering if Loki is actually the alpha dog. In any case, Loki has been sleep barking lately. Which is cute but odd. I don't want Loki to be traumatized nor do I want to physically handled Marshmallow when she acts out. What's the best way to handle this situation.

Leash aggression

When my older dog, who helped raise my younger dog, passed away, it took me two years to replace him (my heart was broken). Before he died, my younger dog, Sofia, was happy, loved other dogs and happily played and met any dog without incident.

Even before I adopted another rescue dog, she became aggressive to other dogs, including elderly dogs, any dogs! It has made walking her a nightmare.

What can I do to teach her that I don't need THAT much protection? She is now 7. She has been Boss Dog with the new dog for almost two years now (and is a very benevolent dominant dog, she's very good with him).

Desensitizing Dogs

My 4 year old GSD has developed a deep fear and reaction to the sound of gunshots. (My neighbor target practices) She shakes, wines, paces and refuses even her favorite treats. I have tried "ignoring" her fear and get her to go for a walk, I have tried some of her training commands such as sit, leave it, down, etc...she seems deaf to my words.
This can not be healthy for her. She does not respond fearfully to thunder, loud noise or firecrackers...only the sound of gun fire. Please give some suggestions for a way I can help her.

Peeing in the house

Hi! I have a 2 year old dog who is potty trained, but pees in the house when I'm away! He has potty pads & knows what they're for (I want to make sure he CAN go if I'm at work and he needs to), but he just pees on certain things (like the box I have glass that needs to be recycled in). I take him out frequently and on runs or hikes as well! He never does this when I'm home so I can "catch him in the act" and I really don't want to have to keep him in a crate for hours when I'm at work!

Is there anything I can do?

dog to dog aggression over food

I adopted a beautiful 2 year old flat coated retriever 6 months ago. She is fine when I put my hands in her food bowl but becomes growly when another dog approaches. I'm worried as my son has a new boxer puppy that is curious and playful. Of course I would never feed them in close proximity but still would like to know if there is anything I can do to alleviate this behavior.
thank you so very much!

accidents?

I own 2 dogs, both were my foster dogs that I adopted. The first I got Oct 3, the second Oct 12. I had not had any real problems with the second dog until recently. He has been peeing and pooping in the house, sometimes after you let him out. We do have a third foster dog right now. Do you think this could be due to him? I am getting very frustrated and would welcome any suggestions. I have tried belly banding him, tethering him to me in the house so he can't sneak off, rewarding him after going outside. I just don't know what to do. I know our rescue dogs go through a lot, losing their families, coming from mills, etc. Do you think it might be too much for him to handle? Thank you for any advice

2 crazy kitties!! :)

i have 2 kitties that are survivors of Hurricane Katrina. they are almost 4 years old. they were 6 months old when they were found swimming in the flood waters. they are brother & sister named Elvis & Priscilla. Elvis has this crazy obsession with paper napkins or paper towels. he is always trying to get one & if he can, he will eat it. both kitties are also into eating/licking plastic grocery bags. i have gotten really good at hiding all of these things & also not bringing them into the house. i'm just wondering if anyone else is having the same problem & if there is a way to get them to stop. or is there an underlying factor - do they need more fiber??? luckily nothing has happened with either kitty's health & they are very lively & active buddies. i'd appreciate any input. >'o'<

Dog Trouble

My question is, my dog is house broken but he has a problem with wanting to mark INSIDE the home. I have never been able to stop this since he apparently does it when we are not home. Now when we leave we have to leave him in the kitchen area and he will still mark/tinkle by the stove! IS there anything to be done or just accept that I have to keep a lot of areas blocked off and limit him to only one room when I am not home? (When I work 12hr days I have a sitter who takes him with her for 8 hours of that day so he is not alone ALL day!)
I am not the kind of person who doesn't mind that smell. I am extremely neat and as a matter of fact had to take the carpet out of one room and replace it with flooring because he had peed so much in that room (where his dog bed is, always on the edge of the dog bed). It is disgusting and I want to make sure I try everything before I throw in the towel, because I do not want to live in a stinky house. Last week he even marked the couch right where my husband had taken a nap earlier!
Please help, I don't have TV or cable so I will not be able to get help through TV. I look forward to the answers!
Thanks.

aggressive dog

I adopted a 1 year old neutered male Maltese. Most of the time he's very sweet, but when he gets very excited (like to go out or when one of us leaves the house), he goes to nip (major ouch). How can we curb this behavior?

My dog loves metal

My dog will chew on anything metal. He almost seems to go out of his way to find it too. Is there something lacking in his diet? What would cause this. He gets into staples, chew on zippers, etc, etc.

Question About Treats

Hello Sarah, I wanted to know if you believe there is a difference between "treats" and "food" in the mind of the dog?

"Food" seems like a "1st order psychological necessity" for survival, like air, water. The terminal behavior for predation / hunting pulsion is "food".

"Treats", seem more like edible candy or chocolate cake. Even tho "food" can be used as "treats", "treats" seem to be more of a "social interaction". Like a ball or tug toy (5th order necessity), is "artificial", not necessary for survival, but can be psychologically elevated to a "2nd order necessity" through frustration, like cigarettes, sex, or gambling, or other vices / addictions.

Also I question that a dog can predate / dispatch, without eating object as "food", but I question if this is really a "1st order necessity"? Is this really "social play" a "4th order necessity", if the dog "chases" the prey object, may even kill it and leave it on the ground. Is this or is this not "hunting" even tho the dog does not use the prey item as "food".

I am considering that if we withhold food for 24 hours and "cover the necessity" on a contingency of behavior, then we are using "food" in training as a 1st order necessity.

If we are feeding the dog by hand throughout day for behavior, it is "treats".

This distinction seems like a "fine line", but can make a considerable difference in the technique chosen to train with.

What is your insight?

Thank you
(one of your silent admirers from the California seminars)

Tom De luca III
Pawlite Companion Dog Training Services
California

Clash between dog and boyfriend

When my dad died two and a half years ago, I took in his dog, Jimmy, who my dad had adopted three years earlier from a shelter. (Jimmy had been mistreated by his previous owner.) I brought Jimmy back home and upon first sight, Jimmy and my boyfriend didn't get along. He is the only person who Jimmy reacts to this way. He is excited when he meets new people and wants to play with them. He has never growled at anyone other than my boyfriend. At the same time, Jimmy is incredibly attached to me and he prefers my company over anyone else's. When my boyfriend comes over, Jimmy runs in a panic alternatively growling and cowering, shivering and pacing. Jimmy recently reached out and nipped at my boyfriend when he tried to let him outside when I was out of town. This has caused tremendous stress between us. But I can't even imagine giving up Jimmy. I talked with a worker at the SPCA who told me that because Jimmy has shown aggressive behavior and because he's a pit mix, they wouldn't take him in for adoption. She told me that they would have him euthanized if they were to take him. I can't even fathom having him put down. He's a perfectly sweet healthy dog in every other way. While I have suggested that we work together with a trainer, my boyfriend does not believe that Jimmy can change this behavior. He feels that Jimmy was traumatized by someone and has been damaged beyond repair. Do you believe this is true? Have you been able to turn these kinds of dog/person conflicts around?

Loved the show. Are there

Loved the show. Are there any shelters in the Los Angeles or Ventura areas of California that use the "purple, Orange, Green" method of catagorizing dog types?

Couch potato dog?

I used to have a miniature dachshund, who was a devoted couch potato just like me. She always was content to just lie there and keep me company, only leaving to go outside through her doggy door. When I had to leave, she was sorry to see me go, and happy upon my return, but did not have separation anxiety. Anyway, she died at age 14 (on Christmas day; what a present!!!), and since, I've inherited 3 cats (once 4, but one broke his back and had to be euthanized (on New Year's Day--what is it with pets and holidays?), which I promised my dying mother I'd take care of. They're now 14 (litter mates), and when they go, I'd like to get another mini dachshund. Does anyone know of another breed that's like me, a couch potato, who might fit, in case I can't find a dachshund? Thanks.

Dog nibbling

My dog Duncan is a 2 yr. old Golden-Aussie mix. He's very sweet and outgoing, and just the most loving dog you can imagine. I grew up with Goldens and he fits the personality to the letter. One behaviour though, is interesting and something I've not observed in any dog before - he nibbles gently with his front teeth vs. licking to give me kisses. He will lick other peoples' faces, but rarely licks me, preferring to nibble the top or sides of my head. Its clearly affection, but what on earth does this stem from? (We are what you would define as Soul mates!)

Cat Aggression

We have this cat since it was 5 weeks old (told it was at least 6 weeks old when we got it). He will be 2 years old at the end of March. He likes to bite, especially me. If I walk by, he will start biting my foot/ankle and then grab my leg and hang on. He also bites my hand and forearm. If I have a toy to play with him and and make it go up and down, he ignores the toy and attacks my hand. On the occasions when he sleeps with me, he will suddenly bite my face while I'm asleep. He does this to my husband but on a limited basis. Any suggestions on what to do to stop/limit this? Thanks.

We have a 22 month old

We have a 22 month old Malamute. She has pretty much pulled out all the landscaping in the yard as well as chewed on our kitchen table and chairs. In Oct. we brought home a second year old Samoyed- Husky mix from the kennel where he was left (he was there from July until Oct) in the hopes he would keep her company. She continues to have jealousy issues, growling at him when he comes around when I am there. She tries not to let him get close to me. Is there anything we can do to make her less jealous?

About the Dogology types,

About the Dogology types, can you talk about how a new dog person can move through the different types? I feel like I'm changing between all the types because I'm learning so much. Somedays I feel like a SoulMate, when everything is going smoothly and sometimes I feel like an Expert when things _aren't_! Thanks!

Dogology Question

I consider myself a highly analytical person. I've always enjoyed and done well at academic pursuits. I would describe myself as very cerebral -- always in my head. My parent describes me as very serious. Given that, I expected to be rated as a Thinker. Instead, I came up almost completely as a Feeler (pretty evenly spread amongst those three types.) How do you explain this difference? How can I use this information - knowing that I am fairly intellectual but apparently mostly emotional with my dogs?

Nine types question and cats

I find the description of the nine personality types of dog owners fascinating. How much do you think they transfer to cat owners and, in your experience, how do cats respond relationally to the different types of owners? I also wonder if the common complaint that "cats are aloof" comes from a certain personality type of person. Thank you!

Dogology - How to use?

I thoroughly enjoyed watching Why We Love Cats and Dogs. It was a great show! In the show you mention the 9 personality you discuss in your book Dogology. Other than being a good read (which it is!) how do you imagine people will use the information offered in Dogology? How is knowing our personality type helpful? What was your main purpose in writing this book?

Question for Sarah Wilson- Dogology Types

Hi,

I'm a dog trainer and I am having a problem motivating/communicating with one of my clients.

She is a lovely woman who sent her pup to me for Boarding & Training. The dog has been back in the home for approx 4 months and the owners have successfully untrained this pup in just about every aspect of her life except housebreaking. Everytime I ask the female owner how things are going she says, " I love her she's perfect". (The husband works alot and is pretty much out of the picture training-wise).

This pup who had previously been trained to sit for attention and to NOT jump up on people has been leaping into her owner's lap from 8 or 9 feet away, which the owner said was "adorable". However, now the pup is launching into her owner's head when she's seated or laying down, leaping onto and standing on counters and tables. All of which doesn't seem to actually bother the owner until/unless she is actually hurt by something the pup does. To the owner, everything this pup does is adorable, funny or isn't she the greatest!

However, pup is now with me for "refresher" training for a week because the owner's friends have commented on the dog's behavior in negative way. And I think the owner has been embarrassed by that. But, without the owner's partipation, the dog is going to revert to her same bad behavior.

So here's the question, what Dogology type do you think this woman is (I'm thinking soulmate)? And what do you think the best approach would be to instill in her the need to set some boundaries and limits for this dog? I'm afraid I'm going to return her puppy to her with instructions (again) for maintaining the pup's behavior and they will be ignored (again). Oh, this same owner has equated discipline with being harsh and unloving in conversation with me previously.

I'm hoping that both you and your Dogology types can help me access this woman in order to motivate her to participate in this young pup's training. Thank you.

Love dogs to death don't like people very much.

Hello Ms. wilson, my question is; Am I crazy for feeling i like my dogs more than i do people?. Perhaps it is a little exagerating to put it that way but, i have very few friends with whom i feel very comfortable and i can spend a fair amount of time and very rarely will choose them over my dogs. Overall i find people way too complicated, i always feel that interacting with them it's like a game of chezz, with my two dogs i don't have to play any role i just am myself, anticipated thanks for your time.
Sicerely,
Irma G.

my cat pees on my shoulder or in my lap when she jumps up to be

I don't understand why my cat pees on my shoulder or in my lap when she sits next to me. She's only 5 years old and happy- healthy. There is another cat in the house but all is well there. This same cat doesn't use her litter box. I have two litter boxes. Still won't use either one.
Frustrated.

Obsessive Owners

I love animals but I have a bone to pick with people who own lots of animals and do not take care of them. A few years ago, I moved into a beautiful lakefront community and the guy who moved in across the street bought a beagle for his young daughter. He took it inside for a few minutes every day and then put it outside to howl all day long and night. Why own animals unless you want to treat them like companions? I don't get it!

Dogs and Cats

I have to admit, growing up I liked cats a lot more than dogs. Cats are cuter to me and dogs used to scare me (I had a few run ins with some unfriendly ones). The problem is that we discovered that my asthma was triggered by cat allergies. Now we have a little dog, a papillon. He is a small and cute. In fact, some people think he looks a little like a cat. So I have the best of both worlds for me.

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