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Kids' Great Gift Expectations - More Tips from Financial Pros

posted by Dana Bate, Field Producer at 3:29 PM on 11/28/08

Photo of Dana BateNot all of the advice given by financial experts Janet Bodnar and Pam Shortal made it into my story tonight. Here are some other tips they gave that didn’t make it to air but could still be useful to many families:

  • Be Age Appropriate. A 3-year-old isn’t going to remember what the holidays were like last year, so you don’t need to explain to him or her that things are going to be different this year. For all intents and purposes, you are starting out fresh. A teenager, however, has probably already heard or read about the downturn in the economy, so you can be more candid about your financial situation. Teenagers who are applying to college will likely understand the future financial strain college tuition will bring. Nevertheless, as Janet Bodnar puts it, “You don’t have to give them chapter and verse of all your finances.”

  • Ask Your Kids to Contribute. If there is a gift your child wants that is far beyond what you can or will spend, ask them to contribute a percentage of the cost. Those in middle school and high school can find a host of ways to pick up extra cash (babysitting, raking leaves, etc). Teach them the value of saving and have them pony up some of the money for pricey gifts.
  • Have Your Kids Volunteer. Nothing underscores how fortunate you are like volunteering to help those who are truly in need. Spend a morning or afternoon with your child volunteering at a local soup kitchen or shelter, and that Xbox probably won’t seem so essential.
  • Narrow the Recipient Pool. Instead of buying small gifts for all of your nieces, nephews and cousins, have everyone pull a name from a hat and buy just one gift for the person you’ve drawn. That way, you probably spend less overall, but can get something much nicer for that one person.
Do you think any of these options – here, or in my story – would work in your household? How are you managing your children’s expectations this holiday season?

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