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Topic: Homework
Posted By: Heather
Date: 04 Apr 2000 9:30 PM

I don't know about you, but homework time at my house usually ends on a negative note. How do you deal with homework at your house? Do you have any tried and true tips to pass along? What sort of schedule works best? Where is homework usually completed? How much time is spent on it? I'd love to hear from you!
Responses:



Subject: homework
From: Theresa
Date: 08 Aug 2000 12:05 AM

Find a quiet area with few distractions where your child can be comfortable. Ask him/her where he thinks would be a good spot. Forget homework right after school, kids need to burn off some energy before hitting the books again. Maybe after dinner/dishes when everyone is more relaxed, you included (for when you check homework). As far as a time limit, only what is necessary to get the job done correctly. My parents forced me to study two hours every night and by the time I got to high school, I hated school. Ask your child some of these questions. After all, it's his success or failure and it depends on him ultimately, not you.


Subject: Homework
From: Mutti
Date: 10 Oct 2002 11:00 AM

I think we'll give that idea a try everthing else fails....


Subject: homework
From: Yvonne
Date: 05 May 2002 10:42 PM

Hello,I have three children. My oldest child is in the 1st grade. My husband and I own a business and work full-time jobs. Children are getting more homework these days. I like to do homework with my child as soon as I get home from work. Children are more alert in the early afternoon. I like to have all homework completed by 7:30 pm. This gives me time to cook and eat dinner and have the kids to bed at a decent time.


Subject: Homework
From: Mom
Date: 04 Apr 2002 9:20 AM

Homework is done about a 1/2 hr after school. This allows the children to get a snack, get organized and get it over with so that the rest of the day is free. One of my children did not agree with this proceedure for a long time. I explained to "Queenie" that she will do better in school if she completes her homework but I failed badly. I even let her take her "hits" when she didn't do her homework hoping that would demonstrate my point, but that didn't work. She just got depressed and said she felt she was stupid. Then by some miracle she actually sat down one day and studied with my help. The next day she got an excellent score on her test and she felt wonderful. I reminded her that when she didn't put in an effort she did not succeed, but when she did......... and the light came on. Haven't had a problem since. My other child has a daydreaming problem. He'd daydream all the time if nobody talked to him. He's bright. His imagination is amazing but it slows his progress way down and it's hard for him to change subjects quickly. I became a little concerned and had him tested for A.D.D. There's no defecit what-so-ever so I'm still working on that one so if there's any advice out there, I'm all ears.