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Topic: readiness for school?
Posted By: kirsta
Date: 07 Jul 2000 9:14 PM

What is the ideal age for entering primary education? My son will be 4yrs of age when he starts school in August. However, as he is only 4weeks from the cut-off date for entry to school, should I defer him until next year when he will be 5 yrs. I personally feel that although he is a clever little boy, I am not wholly convinced that he will be emotionally ready for formal education. What do you think? (Any advice will be appreciated).
Responses:



Subject: Ready For School
From: Shannan
Date: 08 Aug 2000 5:05 PM

If I were you, I'd wait until the next year. I'd rather know for sure he was ready rather than send him in too early and have him be tramitized!


Subject: Ready For School
From: Shannan
Date: 08 Aug 2000 5:05 PM

If I were you, I'd wait until the next year. I'd rather know for sure he was ready rather than send him in too early and have him be tramitized!


Subject: ready for school
From: kirsta
Date: 09 Sep 2000 9:16 PM

Dear Shannon, thanks, you hit the nail on the head! My biggest fear was that he wouldn't cope and be overwhelmed with the experience. I've decided not to send him this year, and let him enjoy being '4' for a while longer.


Subject: Entering school
From: Heather
Date: 08 Aug 2000 5:38 PM

I am a kindergarten teacher, and speaking from experience, I think a child is much more productive and receptive to learning when he or she is comfortable in the surroundings. If a parent senses that a child is "not ready" when there is an age issue then the best thing to do is give that child time. It won't hurt to wait and it will help your son immensely in the long run. The opportunity to mature will only make your son more comfortable with the whole school process.


Subject: entering school
From: Kirsta
Date: 09 Sep 2000 9:08 PM

Dear Heather, thanks for your advice. I thought you may be interested to know that (after much deliberation!) I have decided not to send my son to school this year. I felt that waiting a year will increase his confidence and maturity and next year he will be more 'ready' for formal education.