Topic: How to handle other child who attack my child Posted By: HI Date: 07 Jul 2001 8:17 AM
I have 3 years old son. Sometimes I see a child pushing my son in the
playground or pull his ear at school. In other occasion, some other
child take my son toy from him without asking. What should I do when I
see those cases? And what should I teach my son to prevent these cases?
Is there a book that discussed about these cases? Please help me. Thank
you!
Responses:
Subject: How to handle other children who attack your child From: Suzanne Date: 11 Nov 2001 7:41 PM
Talk to your child about what happened (e.g., "did you like it when
that boy took your toy?"). If it bothers him, tell him to say "no" or
"that's mine" or "it is my turn now". Role play at home to practice.
If he does it on his own during a real incident, praise him by saying,
"I was really proud of you". Overall give him the message that he can
and should stick up for himself. Also, if he is assertive with you,
you should praise him as well, by saying something like, "I'm glad you
told me; or thanks for letting me know how you feel". If he is in
preschool, let his teacher in on what you are trying to teach him, so
she can reinforce him at school. Good luck!
