A question from Karen Crosby,
Charlotte, NC:
Ever since my husband and I graduated college seven years ago we have been trying to pay off our credit cards (that, at the time, companies were throwing at us). We are nearly done but this has also left us with a huge chunk of student loans to pay off. As a result we have bad credit and still more debt. Would it have been wiser to file bankruptcy or did we do the right thing? We have one friend who filed bankruptcy and this didn't seem to affect his credit as badly as our late payments.
Financial Advisor Dave Ramsey responds :
No, Karen. You did the right thing. Many times if we are in a bad marriage and we have a fight with our spouse we look at our divorced friends and think, don't they have it made. In reality there is another set of scars and another story that we do not understand, such is the case with your friend who filed bankruptcy and apparently "has it better." They do not have it better. Bankruptcy is not a fun process, and no, your credit is not worse than his after you have paid your bills late over a period of several years. I know you have struggled through this, but not only have you done the right thing to repay your debt, but you have also grown in character and stature as you have done it. Keep up the hard work.
The American Bankers Association responds :
First, and foremost, you should be commended for doing the honorable thing. You signed documents that promised you would repay your debts and you are doing that. Congratulations.
Bankruptcy wouldn't have been the best answer for you. 1. Students loans are not discharged under bankruptcy. So, you would still be responsible for those payments. 2. Bankruptcy stays on your record for at least seven years. That means you would have had trouble getting a mortgage or other type of loan without a cosigner or collateral.
You may want to look into a consolidation loan to help you manage the number of bills you're paying. The rate on a consolidation loan may be less that the rates on some of your current cards and you'll get one bill each month rather than several.
Ask each of the credit bureaus to attach an explanatory letter to your credit report. That way you can explain your reasons for late payments or other problems and emphasize the fact that you didn't file for bankruptcy.
Here are the toll-free numbers for the three major credit bureaus: Experian 800-682-7654, TransUnion 800-851-2674, Equifax 800-685-1111.
You are to be commended, not for getting into trouble, but for working your way out of it.
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