This step-by-step party timeline can make planning the big event a piece of cake.
4-8 weeks out
Pick a date
Set a budget
Decide on the number of guests
If the party will be held outside your home, select and reserve a location. If you choose an outdoor location, come up with a plan for bad weather.
Let your child help choose the theme
Make a guest list
Book entertainment, if necessary
2-3 weeks out
Fill out and mail invitations
Keep a list of invitees near the phone to track RSVPs
Enlist your child's help to select activities and games for the party
Assemble prizes
Decide on party favors
Plan the menu
If you aren't baking a cake, order one
Ask a relative or babysitter to help out during the festivities
1 week ahead
Decide on the order of activities
Test new games and activities
Make a grocery list
Buy paper plates, napkins, decorations, balloons, party hats, and other supplies
Confirm reservations for entertainment or party location
2-3 days ahead
Call guests who haven't responded
Shop for food, candles for the cake, candy for treat bags or the piñata
Make sure you have fresh batteries and film for the camera
Assemble treat bags
1 day ahead
Clean the party area thoroughly, taking special care to remove any hazardous or fragile objects
Bake or pick up the cake
Order takeout food (such as pizza), if necessary
Discuss party expectations with your children
Practice saying thank you with younger children
4-5 hours before guests arrive
Set the table
Lay out crafts
Inflate balloons
Decorate
Tie balloons to your mailbox or front porch so guests can locate the party easily
Find matches for candles
Make sure you have a pen and paper to record gifts
Have a large trash bag available to dispose of wrapping paper
1 hour before guests arrive
Consider putting pets in an area away from guests. In many cases it works best to keep pets away from overly curious children (who may also be allergic or afraid).
Get your children and yourself dressed
Put food out on the table and candles in the cake
Set up crafts and activities
During the party
Station your child and yourself near the front door to welcome guests
If parents are dropping off children, confirm the pick-up time (and be sure you have a contact number in case of emergency)
Take photos (or designate another adult to do so)
Celebrate!
The day after
Help your child write thank-you notes to party guests