From taking their first steps to learning how to read, children gain self-confidence as they master new skills. This gives them the courage to continue to explore and expand their abilities. Two-year-olds may use phrases such as "Me do it!" or "Do it myself!" to exert independence. They will often make a mess as they learn to feed themselves soup with a spoon, apply toothpaste to a toothbrush, or "clean" their room, but they will develop valuable skills as they practice new tasks and recognize their progress.
Emotions & Self-Awareness “I Can Do It:” Building Your Two-Year-Old’s Self-Confidence
Help grow your child's confidence with the strategies below:
Stay alert to the cues your children are sending you that they are ready to feed themselves, brush their own hair, or climb into the car seat by themselves. Responding positively to these first steps will build a foundation for raising a capable and responsible young person. Allow children a chance to struggle, fuss, even cry before rushing to their sides and fixing the situation. Kids build self-confidence as they work on a problem until they figure it out.
Practice, Practice, Practice
In order for children to develop resiliency, they will need oodles of practice time. As parents, we need to step out of the way and allow our children to make mistakes and encourage them to keep trying. If your two-year-old made his lunch for the first time (after many failed attempts and with jelly all over the floor), pause for a moment and celebrate. This is progress! Acknowledge it and move forward to the next thing.
Go for the Goal!
Achieving a goal can build self-confidence. Help your child set and work towards a goal by creating "I Can" statements.Do This Activity
Never Do for a Child What a Child Can Do for Themselves
Identify what tasks your children are capable of handling and let them do these. If she can put on her coat, let her. If he can put on his shoes independently, let him. Resist the urge to step in and make the process quicker. Instead, try to build in time for kids to complete the tasks.
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Cookie Monster loves alphabet soup! Your child can make simple words from noodle letters and sound them out with Cookie Monster in this click-along game.