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What Music Should My Child Listen To?

Father and son playing music on turntableA Library of Variety
Whether they’re singing along with Curious George’s theme song or asking you to turn up a popular song on the car radio, children love music. But what kind of music should kids listen to at a young age? Here are some helpful tips on creating an appropriate musical library for your child.

Not Just for Listening
Before you pick the songs, keep in mind that your child benefits from doing more than just listening. To get the full benefits of music, children need to sing, clap and dance along with the tunes. Singing and moving to music tells the brain to make meaning of it, a cognitive process called audiation, explains Lili Levinowitz, cofounder of Music Together and professor of music education at Rowan University of New Jersey.

Audiation in music is like thinking in language. We learn by practicing it, making sounds and essentially training our brains. The brain can only develop its musical comprehension if we tell it to through voicing and dancing, not through simply listening. “We’re isolating ourselves with the earbud,” she says. “My research shows that 50 percent of children enter kindergarten without knowing the difference between singing and speaking.”

As you start to build your child’s music library, focus on interaction with the music that’ll help train your child’s musical ear. Peggy Durbin, a music educator at Kindermusik in Columbia, Md., suggests using bought or homemade instruments to play along. Help your child make music, not just listen to it.

The best musical library for your child includes a wide variety—a mixture of genres you like and music they like. Levinowitz compares music you play to the foods you serve: you don’t want your child eating only mac and cheese, or similarly, listening to the same CD all the time. “Create an ear food buffet,” she says. Your musical menu should consist of songs from your culture and those around the world, as well as music that you love.

“In addition to playing multiple genres of music, parents should play music that they enjoy,” says Eric Rasmussen, chair of early childhood music at the Peabody Institute in Baltimore. “I emphasize classical and jazz especially (that’s my taste), but there is no bad type of music. It’s harder to find appropriate music in some styles than others.”

In order to challenge your child musically, aim for a variety of rhythms and tonalities, or songs that are in different keys. “Play adult quality music,” adds Rasmussen. “It is also best to play music that does not have strident tone quality, that is, music that changes its sound frequently. Orchestral music is best for this. By contrast, most thrash metal bands usually don’t have much contrast from one song to the next, let alone within a song.”

Variety exposes children to more styles, but more important, musical variety may help them learn better. “Children learn through the juxtaposition of difference,” Levinowitz says. “They should be singing those songs in unusual tonalities. Other beneficial actions include singing along or chanting to songs that are in asymmetric meters and not necessarily inherent in the culture.”

Start with the Familiar
When determining how to introduce your child to music, consider the songs you sang growing up and start there. Durbin suggests starting with nursery rhymes put to music before gradually moving into folk songs and classical numbers as the children reach preschool age.

When in doubt, consult the experts. The National Association for Music Education (NAfME, formerly MENC) created a list of 42 songs every American should be able to sing in hopes of uniting more people and communities through song (see below). The list was created in 1995 and has since been expanded; it is a great starting point for a family musical library.

“For ages two to nine, most of these songs are sophisticated,” says Elizabeth Lasko, assistant executive director of NAfME. “Little kids can sing ‘I’ve Been Working on the Railroad’ with ease, but they may have more trouble singing ‘Blue Skies’ by Irving Berlin. The list imitates book form, making it a resource for kids to start with and potentially master by the time they are teenagers.” Parents can also learn these songs with their children, making it a bonding activity to do together.
Rasmussen has a list of songs (see below), some of which are also on the NAFME list, that he uses to teach young children melody and harmony.

As you expand your child’s library, consider adding classical music—especially if the piece tells a story or teaches them about instrumentation. You can try Carnival of the Animals by Camille Saint-Saens or Peter and the Wolf by Sergei Prokofiev, both of which use instruments to represent different animals and characters. The children can learn about specific instruments while learning a story. “A programmed classical piece is going to help children feel comfortable with classical music and get the story at the same time,” Durbin says.

Rasmussen suggests avoiding very long orchestral music, and instead listening to short pieces about four to five minutes in length. He also says that string quartets or other pieces that rely on only one class of instruments are not the best for young children because they may not demand as much of the child’s attention.

“Any music that has strident timbre (or tonal color) will not distract children to listen to it as much as music that shifts in tonal color more frequently,” he says. “String quartets are wonderful, but it is all strings and doesn’t distract a child’s listening as much as an orchestra that has more variety of instruments. The same would go for brass or woodwind groups.”

What Should Be Off Limits?
While many music educators believe there is no such thing as too much music, it’s up to you to decide what, when and how your child will listen to it. Some music educators caution against purchasing mainly “children’s music,” which may be more about the lyrics than the tune, and instead aim for child-friendly music.

“Kids’ CDs that are geared toward children are not necessarily very healthy music for children to be listening to,” Rasmussen says. “They are often poorly produced, sung by children singing as if they are adults, and in major keys only,” he says. Follow this rule: If you think it’s bad, it probably is.
“Music with inappropriate lyrical content should be avoided,” Rasmussen says. “There is no bad style, it’s just harder to find hip hop that is high musical quality and also has appropriate lyrics.”

Parental Guidance Suggested
Although your child may be an expert with your iPod, you may want to be nearby to guide him. “Until you think your child can make good selections, I would recommend supervising what they are listening to,” Durbin says. Sit with your child at the computer and go through iTunes or Pandora to find new songs to add to your developing collection. “As children get older, encourage them to be more independent with their selection of music. In the car, give them a choice of CDs or stations,” Rasmussen says. Then take turns playing music you like. Also, remember to turn off the music and give children the opportunity to sing on their own and practice the songs.

Sharing Music Time
Your child may not like your passion for Pink Floyd, no matter how loudly you sing along, and that’s okay. The point is to give them time with the music they like, and then bring your own music into play. Take them to an outdoor concert so they can see the music in action. The more they hear different types of music, the more expansive their tastes and respect for artists and genres will inevitably be.

“They may find something they like that is particularly awful,” Rasmussen says. When Rasmussen’s daughter discovered a popular music show with kids that was musically horrendous, he allowed her to watch it, but “Daddy and Mommy music time” followed. “I was also open with her at four years old that I didn’t like the show, but that it’s perfectly acceptable for her to like it; I validated her taste, but also told her she might not like some of my music.”

Whether it’s your choice or hers, remember above all to model your love for music. Sing, hum, dance or air guitar to your favorite songs, even if your child doesn’t like them. It doesn’t matter if you can’t sing in tune or dance well, because you are showing them the joy of music.

NAfME List:
Amazing Grace
America the Beautiful
Battle Hymn of the Republic
Blue Skies
De Colores
Danny Boy (Londonderry Air)
Dona Nobis Pacem
Down by the Riverside
Frere Jacques
Give My Regards to Broadway
God Bless America
God Bless the U.S.A.
Green, Green Grass of Home
Havah Nagilah
He’s Got the Whole World in His Hands
Home on the Range
I’ve Been Working on the Railroad
If I Had a Hammer (The Hammer Song)
Let There Be Peace on Earth
Lift Every Voice and Sing
Michael, Row the Boat Ashore
Music Alone Shall Live
My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean
Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin’
Oh! Susanna
Over My Head
Puff the Magic Dragon
Rock-a My Soul
Shalom Chaverim
She’ll Be Comin’ Round the Mountain
Simple Gifts
Sometimes I Feel Like a Motherless Child
Star-Spangled Banner
Swing Low, Sweet Chariot
This Land Is Your Land
This Little Light of Mine

Rasmussen’s List:
All the Pretty Little Horses
Amazing Grace
Ants Go Marching
Aunt Rhody
Bei mir bist du schoen
Comin’ Around the Mountain
Don Gato
Down by the Bay
Erie Canal
Fire Fighter
Itsy Bitsy Spider
Jingle Bells
Joshua Fought the Battle of Jericho
London Bridge
Mary Had a Little Lamb
My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean
Old MacDonald
On Top of Spaghetti
Patsy Ory Ory Aye
Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer
Silent Night
Swing Low, Sweet Chariot
Take Me Out to the Ball Game
There Was an Old Woman All Skin and Bones
This Land Is Your Land
This Little Light of Mine
This Old Man
This Old Hammer (John Henry)
Twinkle Twinkle
Two Little Kitty Cats
When the Saints Go Marching In
Yankee Doodle
You Are My Sunshine

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  • Shirley Kirsten

    Yes, to Carnival of the Animals.. especially the Rachlin Group’s you tubes, Purcell a Young People’s Guide to the Orchestra, Dochanyi Variations on a Nursery Rhyme Vivaldi’s The Seasons, Mozart Variations on Twinkle Twinkle Little Star.

  • Deb

    Some great songs in there! Don’t forget that metal comes in different sub-genres; our girls seem to have inherited our fondness for symphonic metal, among others, along with folk music from around the world (and have never heard a Justin Bieber song, although socially that isn’t ideal for a 10YO LOL).

    Plenty of classical favorites both written for kids (Young Person’ Guide by Britten and Peter and the Wolf come easily to mind) and adults. We also bring the kids to my band concerts (I play in a community band) so they can hear both band music and transcriptions of orchestral works, performed live and not just recorded. :-)

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  • Lizzy Wednesday

    So, what does one do if some of those tunes are ones you absolutely cannot stand? (Personally, I despise ‘You Are My Sunshine’, but can’t put my finger on exactly why. It used to upset me when my mother sang it to my brother Joe when he was an infant, but I don’t really feel like it was a sibling rivalry thing. I just found it to be a very sad song.)

    For the record, I can’t get through ‘Danny Boy’ without sobbing (having
    sung it at the funeral of my high school chorusmaster in 2009 and at
    least one memorial service since then) and ‘Amazing Grace’ solicits
    ‘Star Trek’ film references from my husband, but we did sing to our
    daughter when she was in the NICU – ‘West Virginia’ by John Denver,
    mostly, because she seemed to like it. Once she came home, we used AC/DC’s ‘For Those About to Rock’ as a lullabye on more than one occasion … and Rush’s ‘Spirit of Radio’ and ‘Tom Sawyer’ were surefire selections to calm fussiness. (For this alone, I bless Geddy Lee, as the nerd-rock band from the Great White North has been an absolute lifesaver for us over the past 3 years.)

    I’m fascinated by the
    “world music” selections, though, because while she may not have heard
    ‘Havah Negilah,’ she has heard ‘Shalom Yerushalaiem’ and other
    Hebrew/Israeli folk songs, as well as Eastern European modes through my
    chorus work with my (high school) alumni choir.

    And, despite all that, should I put a bag over my head if my 3-year-old is fascinated by the way I mimic Bebe Neuwirth’s rendition of ‘All That Jazz’?

  • LouisaFinnell

    I think Gilbert & Sullivan’s “A British Tar” should be on the list. It’s funny, it has harmony, and it teaches enunciation even at a rapid pace.

  • Epiphius

    I would add Imagine by John Lennon, Pachelbel’s Canon in D and Somewhere Over the Rainbow- particularly the Louis Armstrong or Israel Kamakawiwoʻole versions. Or even better, both! It’s a great opportunity to talk with kids about a foundational song and variations that different artists have made

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  • Beth

    Being woken up to the classic sounds of Led Zepplin’s Black Dog led my youngest to seek a career in Opera – go figure!

  • Roy

    Hi, thanks for the information you have provided here. I father a 4 year old son who loves to listen to old albums like Cliff Richards, Elvis Presley, George Michael etc. He infacts sings a few nos. quite well and hums them when he’s not listening to any songs. For e.g. one of his fav songs is ‘Wise men say only fools rush in.. the famous Elvis number’ and ‘You are my theme for a dream.. by Cliff Richards’. Now here’s the problem. His kindergarten school teachers oppose me making him to listen to such songs and have advised me to play him only ‘kiddo’ songs, rhymes etc. (if at all required) that are very soothing to tender ears. Their take on that is that the brain of a child of that age is not ‘trained’ or matured enough for songs like that and such songs should be introduced to the children at the right age. Although I was not particularly convinced, I tried (half-heartedly) to follow their orders and stopped playing his fav. songs to my son. He gets very upset at times when he’s not getting to listen the song that he wants to listen to and I feel very bad and guilty. I just wanted to know if what they (his teachers) asked me makes any sense.. Do such songs really have such negative impacts on tender aged kids? Thanks.

    • lonepine

      I think music is a lot like food. There are all kinds of great music and great food out there, and there’s nothing that says that kids will only eat chicken tenders and fish sticks. So I say much more power to you for teaching your son to enjoy great music. A lot of child educators unfortunately are not musicians- they themselves can’t hold a tune, and they underestimate children’s taste in music (and food). After all, you can go around the world and kids learn to sing wonderful folk songs, no thanks to any dumbing down.

  • Vinko Ivo Milić Díaz

    My nephew (8 years and counting) are fan of Big Time Rush. His favourite song are “The BTR song” (Main Title Theme). Of course, he grews up with Curious George!!! Thank you PBS and Happy 45 years!!!

  • sandip

    Great list. How about John Farnham’ You’re the Voice.

  • Dr. Reacto

    The author states “Some music educators caution against purchasing mainly children’s music” and “Kid’s CDs …are not necessarily very healthy music” according to Eric Rasmussen of the Peabody Institute in Baltimore. He emphasizes classical and Jazz. This seems a bit biased.

    The article is titled “What Music Should My Child Listen To?” not “What Music will get my toddler a head start for getting in to Berklee!” The majority of kids, and even adults, that listen to music don’t do it to become better musicians; they do it because they enjoy it. Kids’ music is made for kids, just like kids’ movies are not usually dramas or historical biographies. There is a reason for that.

    The only ones interviewed were in education. How about somebody that makes music for kids like Caspar Babypants or an industry expert like Stefan Shepherd of

    At, only kids’ songs are played. The clear majority were written by artists for kids…to enjoy. Music education is great and unfortunately under-valued in our society, but let’s recognize music for music’s sake. Kids can still reap the cognitive benefits of listening to music, but it doesn’t have to be jazz or classical.

    Thanks for the article.

    • DrRizz

      Jazz and classical music generally have more variety within. Especially timbral variety which is best for children’s music development. I said any music can be good. I said jazz and classical were my taste. I’m not trying to get children into Berklee. You misrepresent my intentions. Kid’s music is often without much musical merit. Can you imagine a child who was only spoken to with a limited vocabulary? Instead of more variety in the vocabulary? You’re right, it doesn’t have to be jazz or classical, but if you don’t listen to jazz or classical, I believe you’re missing out on some of the best music. Why does it last so long? Centuries long. Decades long. Because it has value. If you’re not stimulating the brain with music as complex as some classical and jazz, then you’re missing out on a tremendous opportunity to spark synaptic and neurological development. Would you cut fruits out of your diet? Vegetables? Indian food? Chinese? Italian? French? What would you not want to experience? What do you miss by not having experienced those cuisines or the variety of foods? Think about it. Lili is an expert. I concur with her. I’m an expert, but you can have your opinion, but then what is your opinion based upon, and why was it formed the way it was. I’d be curious to learn. I hope you are also curious to learn why we say the things we do in the article. Kids music OFTEN, not always, is too simple. It OFTEN lacks in expression, dynamics, musicianship, sound quality, and stylistic integrity. And it absolutely lacks in the variety of musical contexts in which children should be exposed. Coltrane didn’t grow up listening to Barney. He grew up around jazz. That had value in his household. You grew up around something else. That had value in yours. Wouldn’t it have been nice to have had many flavors of ice cream all those years rather than just a few? You can better learn something by learning what it’s not. By comparing something to something else. That’s what I’m saying. That’s what Lili is saying too. Compare what you wrote with what I responded. Enjoy the difference. It’ll enhance your position or ours or maybe both.

  • Gustavo The Hamburger

    What about GDFR?

  • David Ciske

    Your child should listen to Kanye West, Eminem, Justin Bieber, Drake, Lil Wayne, Biggie, 2Pac, Britney Spears, Pitbull, Rihanna, Chris Brown, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, Linkin Park, Hollywood Undead, 50 Cent, Snoop Dogg, Akon, etc.

    • Samantha String

      Not my kids! I would never allow that music in my house until they were old enough to deal with sensitive adult themes. But, I know you’re joking:)

  • Samntha Winkler

    My little one is now 8 months old and she loves listening to classic artists like Phil Collins, Sting, Aerosmith, etc. My husband and I found this artist called Amber Vel, although they don’t have all of the songs we want they still have a very good selection. I’ll post the links for parents looking for music so y’all can check it out. Their artist selection varies from Coldplay, to Ed Sheeran, to Phil Collins. I hope this helps:)

  • Samantha String

    I like “The Pikklesticks” music CD for my kids. As far as I know, they are the only animated kids band out there. The characters are super sweet and hip and my kids instantly bonded with them. The music is the highest quality production, amazing singing talent and beautifully produced, family and kid-friendly pop/punk songs. The lyrics are so amazing, and the high-energy music has my kids dancing and singing all the time. Every song is a winner and all very catchy. They were a breath of fresh air in that we purchased so many CDs and downloads that were recommended only to be disappointed with the song quality and in some cases really amateurish singers. We got lucky. Check out The Pikklesticks. One of the few kid’s bands that parents can really appreciate and enjoy:)

  • Saumya Gupta

    Phonics skills can become nearly impossible tasks in a kindergarten or first grade classroom if children have not previously been exposed to loads and loads of sounds.

    In other words, children must be able to play with the sounds of language — make up nonsense words, make all kinds of animal sounds, tell you what words have rhyming sounds, tell you what words begin with the same sound, and more. And they have to be able to do this on a purely auditory level.

    These type of videos help them allot in learning in their growing stage..

  • John Luke

    Definitely the best music for kids is Stuff that Tyler the creator does like Garbage.

  • Анастасия
  • Анастасия

    Moana the best moment and music of Mozart. Awesome video

  • James

    I get it, music can be educational, but most older kids (9-13) would probably not rather sing music unless it’s really their thing. Music is feel-good stuff, not ABC’s and 123s.

  • Ana Kleo
  • Ana Kleo

    My expiriens with classical music

  • Super Janice

    My favourite song is “Row Row Row Your Boat”!

  • Sally Smith

    Don’t get me wrong, I’m no expert on this, but I do think that having your kids listen to metal isn’t that bad. The music is incredibly complicated – some of that guitar work is amazing. I think it also encourages them to get into actually playing music – through my own experiences, I have found that a kid who listens to metal is more likely to play an instrument such as guitar or drums than someone who listens to pop or such. What I’m trying to say is that parents shouldn’t be discouraged from letting their children listen to hard rock or heavy metal – contrary to popular belief, it really isn’t just “noise”.

  • kidsBeat Music

    I’ll suggest something a little different, but very musical and high quality. It’s called “kidsBeat” by Matthew Valcourt. They are nursery rhymes set to really upbeat and fun tunes that adults enjoy, too. Here’s the YouTube link:

  • ll rl

    ‘By contrast, most thrash metal bands usually don’t have much
    contrast from one song to the next, let alone within a song’
    Have you listened to thrash metal ever?

  • Me

    Being 14, I find this horribly stupid. The main artists I listened to when I was 6 or 7 were David Bowie and Queen, followed by several metal artists, and various classic glam rock, and I turned out okay, actually with a fairly good singing voice. And “All Summer Long” is considered “inappropriate” but that didn’t prevent my mom from letting me listen to it. This is purely biased toward certain types of music.

  • Cal

    Being a 14 year old, I’d say Rage Against the Machine, maybe some Black Flag, Minutemen, and definitely Nirvana. Only if you want your child to be smart and be able to question authority.

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