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Education

Reading & Language

Baby Writing Milestones

Baby grasping toyBirth to 6 Months Old
Babies are just learning to use their hands. At first, your baby will not be able to grasp objects by himself, but he will awkwardly grasp a toy placed in his palm. Your 4-to 6-month-old baby can reach for and grasp things he wants. Babies will explore objects by putting them in their mouths.

6 to 12 Months Old
Babies gain more control over their hands. At this age, your baby is able to pass objects from hand to hand and may enjoy ripping and pulling materials. She is able to pick up very small objects using her thumb and forefinger. Babies’ hand movements become more precise, allowing them to feed themselves finger food and place rings on a post.

12 to 18 Months Old
Babies have developed the hand skills necessary for grasping writing tools and making marks on paper. Only at the very end of infancy, at 17 or 18 months, will your baby begin to become interested in writing. You should not expect pictures or even “coloring,” let alone letters, from your baby. By scribbling, your baby explores what he can do with crayons and paper and tries to imitate what he sees older children and parents do.


Encouraging Your Baby to Write

  • Chunky tools are easier for small hands. As your baby learns how to scribble, it is easier for the small muscles in his hands to grasp thicker writing tools. Markers, crayons, chalk, and paintbrushes are all available in special chunky “young child” versions that are ideal for beginners.
  • Use washable materials to save on cleanup. When your baby is learning to scribble, she doesn’t have a lot of control. Provide her with washable crayons, paints, and markers. A plastic smock or an old T-shirt can be used to protect her clothing, and a sheet of plastic or painting tarp can protect the floor. Talk to your baby about trying to keep marks on the intended writing or painting surface, but don’t expect perfection.
  • Use washable materials to save on cleanup. When your baby is learning to scribble, she doesn’t have a lot of control. Provide her with washable crayons, paints, and markers. A plastic smock or an old T-shirt can be used to protect her clothing, and a sheet of plastic or painting tarp can protect the floor. Talk to your baby about trying to keep marks on the intended writing or painting surface, but don’t expect perfection.
  • Talk to your baby about her scribbles. Ask your baby, “What did you write?” or comment on the colors she used. By asking her questions about and commenting on her work, you help her to understand that her marks on paper represent an object or an idea. Express pride in your baby’s work by offering specific comments, such as “You wrote a lot of letters!” or “What a big doggie you drew!”
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  • Julie

     Im a childcare teacher and have a child in my three year old room who has many screaming tantrums.  What can I do with her because her behavior is so disruptive to the others in class. Is it ok to remove her from the room during these times?

    • tara

      how do i stay clam with a 8months old who has a bad temoer i mean bad

      • tara

        meant temper

      • Lynne

        I am not sure an 8 month old can have a bad temper yet. Don’t know what to say. Maybe talk to the pediatrician?

    • Megan

      Start reading up on co-regulation. Sounds like this three-year-old is still learning how to manage her feelings.

    • prof parenting solutions

      It’s ok the remove children from a situation as long as they are not isolated. Remove the child but have another adult present. Then when she is calm let her know that you are glad she was able to calm down and the group looks forward to having her join them again.

  • Mehbabyizagenius

    My daughter has just turned 19 months and can write the number 8 and 6 when asked. Is this normal?

  • Pingu007

    First I didn’t know what Terrible Twos meant but I found out with my 2 boys..It was a difficult time for us, not really knowing what to do..
    It all changed when I read an article on a
    blog and tried the method they talked about.
    Wow, that really opened our eyes. It worked and our boys behave now.

  • The Kid’s Cave

    I cannot agree more with the bigger sized tools. They are easier to grasp and control for those little hands.

  • Tabby

    my daughter is 11 months and just all by herself on purpose colored on a chalk board mainley dots and a few short lines

  • http://www.rookieparenting.com/ Pamela (Rookie Parenting)

    Great article. I’d add that “Address bad behavior” should only be done after the child has completely calmed down. Otherwise, their reasoning power is practically locked up and nothing would get through. Here are more tips on dealing with temper tantrums: http://www.rookieparenting.com/dealing-with-toddler-temper-tantrums/

  • Mrs Hancock

    My 19 mo has just started in this phase. I ask her if she needs a break, she usually nods yes. Then i breathe slowly with her. Once she calms down we figure out what was wrong and i give her simple words to express herself with. Usually works. When it doesnt, i move her to a slightly different location (room), make her safe, and let her go with it for a minute or two. Then we decide thats enough and we go about ohr day.

  • ribeekah

    Far too often, western medicine, whether that medicine is being dispensed in the form of a pill or therapy, relies on the diagnosis that one glove fits all. I observed my daughter make a mess of raising her first child by reading blogs like this one and attempting to implement the well-intentioned advice. By the time that the second child came along, she had seen the errors of her ways by following these blogs. As they say, the proof of the pudding is in the eating. She went back to her tradition with a tweak here and there.
    It has been my observation that temper tantrums are learned in the household and when the child begins to interact with other children who may be in dysfunctional households, the child imitates those behaviors. That’s what temper tantrums are all about. To overcome it, the parents who are trying to establish a caring and loving household ought to reinforce those values when the child gets home. Remind the child of acceptable behaviors via how mommy and daddy behaves. That’s it, plain and simple.

  • yougesh

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