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Raising Three Boys

Posted by Kristen on October 4, 2010 at 8:50 AM in Raising Boys
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As the three boys fell out of the car (literally), I glanced to the other side of the "parking lot" at the pumpkin field. A father was walking with three blond brothers down the road. They seemed to be ahead of us by a couple of years. The boys were maybe 3, 5 and 7. As my children screamed (apparently one had rolled under the car and his brothers weren't letting him out), the father with the three boys fielded three different conversations. I tried to get his attention to give him a conspiratorial nod, but he was too focused on maintaining three conversations at once.


You see, when you have three boys that are relatively close in age, you always notice other people with the same. I imagine this happens with every family, grasping similarities and giving others with the same family make up some form of solitary sign. We don't see a lot of families of three boys, but it's not uncommon for me to have a mom come up to me in the store and say, "I have three boys too and now they are grown up. It's possible." This usually happens when I have kids climbing out of the cart on both sides and a less-than-cheery baby screaming because his method of escape is being hindered by the seat belt.


I don't know why I am continually surprised by raising boys. Mason spent the better part of the afternoon at the field attempting to climb out the front of the wagon. This would make you believe that what he really wanted was to walk with his brothers. Not really. He really just wanted to continually climb in and out of the wagon. When he did walk, he was obsessed with the rotten apples that had fallen from the trees. He spent an hour trying to pick up all the rotten apples and put them in the basket. If only he felt such passion about toys in his room at clean up time.


Things picked up for Mason considerably when his brothers graciously showed him that an even better option for rotten apples was to throw them at each other. I looked around the crowded fall locale and not one little girl was throwing apples. Come to think of it, no one else was throwing apples. I sighed and looked at their father. He looked back at me and laughed. I guess this is just the way it is when you have three boys.


Amber writes...

I have one of each, and there are definite differences that I'm noticing.

And I love that other moms of 3 boys who have "been there, done that" offer you encouragement. That's so totally awesome.

Manic Mommy writes...

Or even when you have three boys that are not all siblings. My two, plus my nephew (ages 7,6,and 5)decided that a fun way to pass the time at a family party was to take the pumpkins on the front porch and smash them. We'll be punkin' huntin' with my boys' piggy bank money for replacements.

Jess writes...

Three boys here: almost-3, 5.5, and almost-8. It's wilder than I could ever have imagined. I've noticed that mothers who *only* have sons are a unique group. Having only boys changes you in ways that I couldn't conceive of in my pre-child, gender-neutral-ideals days. Mothers of 3 boys have a certain delirious, deranged look in their eyes, but that they're often laughing...because what else can you do, really?

Becky writes...

Your boys are adorable! I too have 3 boys, an 11 year old and twin 7 year olds. I love Jess' comment and its so true. Coming from a family of all sisters, having all boys NEVER entered my mind! Now I'm not sure I could handle having a girl as I watch my nieces grow up.There is always some type of "creativity" going on in our home when the 3 put their minds together. They are great friends and get along beautifully. My only big rule about having all boys...they may be boys but I'm not having them beat the crap out of each other. None of the "boys will be boys". The dirtier, messier and louder...the better - thats my boys! Enjoy them, it may be exhausting, but they are wonderful! And yes, I do alot of laughing.

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