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Chapter 1: Joyce, Bernie and Mac [7:22]

"Now you take care of them."

The show opens. Meet Bert and Mac McCardle, with daughter Joyce. They\'ve been self-sufficient – up to now.

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Chapter 2: Lorraine and Charlotte [4:37]

"Look how far you\'ve come!"

A stroke has robbed Charlotte of her mobility, but Lorraine believes her mother can get back home if they work together.

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Chapter 3: Priscilla and Happy [4:44]

"A one-person retirement home."

Happy still lives at home, thanks to daughter Priscilla\'s skill at organizing full-time care. Quality is high; so are costs.

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Chapter 4: Thelma and Maria [9:40]

"Payback for what she gave me."

Thelma and her family care for her bed-ridden mother, Maria, at home, though she is slipping into dementia.

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Chapter 5: Ricardo, Nelly and Raul [7:29]

"Getting back the years."

His divorced parents now live in nursing homes, but caring for them still puts a strain on Ricardo - and on his marriage.

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Chapter 6: Joyce, Bert and Mac [3:57]

"A load off my shoulders."

Joyce and her sisters gather to meet with Bert and Mac. Talking about the future, as a family, is crucial.

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Chapter 7: Lorraine and Charlotte [6:01]

"She\'s depending on me."

Lorraine and her sister challenge the nursing staff\'s approach to caring for their mother.

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Chapter 8: Priscilla and Happy [4:49]

"Watch over me."

As Happy grows frailer, Priscilla considers her role as primary caretaker. It wasn\'t her plan, but she\'s made peace with it.

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Chapter 9: Maria and Thelma [4:51]

"State of mind."

Maria\'s mood swings grow. Thelma, like many caregivers, has become an expert on her mother\'s medical condition.

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Chapter 10: Lorraine and Charlotte [4:47]

"Why didn\'t you tell me to duck?"

Charlotte visits home. Lorraine just wants to please her, and make her happy.

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Chapter 11: Ricardo, Nelly and Raul [4:52]

"I\'m the one who knows."

Raul\'s prostate cancer has returned. Without support from his sister or his wife, Ricardo\'s life gets harder.

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Chapter 12: Joyce, Bert and Mac [2:40]

"It just fell to me."

Joyce explains how she became the lead caregiver, and how caregivers need to take care of themselves.

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Chapter 13: Priscilla and Happy [2:37]

"The beginnings & the ends."

Priscilla\'s daughter reflects on the parallels between the start of life and its end. Happy spends time with her baby great-granddaughter.

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Chapter 14: Lorraine and Charlotte [4:39]

"A spiritual connection."

Lorraine knows her mother so well, but does she understand what she wants? A doctor talks about love.

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Chapter 15: Joyce, Bert and Mac [2:28]

"A fragile ecosystem."

Bert and Mac are still at home as Christmas approaches. If Bert fell suddenly ill, would Mac know what to do?

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Chapter 16: Thelma and Maria [5:12]

"I\'m the glue."

Thelma is overworked and overwhelmed. No one person can do it all. She takes steps to care for herself.

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Chapter 17: Ricardo, Nelly and Raul [4:03]

"It is what it is."

Raul\'s cancer and Nelly\'s Alzheimer\'s have worsened, and now Ricardo is in poor health, too. Who cares for the caregiver?

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Chapter 18: Conclusion [4:28]

"Transformative moments."

All five caregivers share what they\'ve learned from caregiving.

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