Muslim Home Schooling

 

BOB FAW, correspondent: In the heart of mainstream America, a Cub Scout derby where each of the home-designed cars is carefully weighed and measured before roaring off at breakneck speed. Here enterprise, ingenuity, and patience are justly rewarded.

ISRAFEEL JAKA: My favorite part was when I got in first.

FAW: It’s a mainstream event passionately embraced not only by the Jaka brothers, but also by nine- year-old Bilal Khan, whose education and upbringing is anything but mainstream. In his Loudoun County, Virginia home, Bilal is being taught math by his mother Zakia.

post01-muslimschoolingZAKIA KHAN (speaking to Bilal): So 5 is closer to 7, or 10 is closer to 7?

FAW: In another home nearby, Priscilla Martinez is teaching her six children, ages two to 12, about condensation.

PRISCILLA MARTINEZ (speaking to children): We’re going to learn about clouds, evaporation, condensation, and precipitation.

FAW: They are part of a growing movement—no one knows the exact number—of Muslims who home-school their children because they want them to get a more holistic education than a public school can provide.

MARTINEZ: What we are trying to do is give our children a foundation within the family first, and their identities, with values. That’s kind of the springboard for what it is that we would like for them to take with them throughout life.

FAW: And home schooling lets these Muslim families focus on their faith. Using the computer, Bilal studies the Koran with a teacher from Pakistan, home of his father, Maqsood, and his mother.

post02-muslimschoolingZAKIA KHAN: Over there we know that everything is Islamic-based, but over here we don’t see Islamic way of life outside the house.

MAQSOOD KHAN: We’re still tied to that country and want them to understand the culture and to learn about the religion.

FAW: Priscilla’s twelve- year-old daughter, Hidayah Jaka, a seventh grader, helps her eight-year-old brother, Mikaeel, to read the Koran.

HIDAYAH JAKA: It is better like this because we have the flexibility to do it whenever we want.

FAW: Muslim parents say home schooling can provide a better learning experience because the work can be tailored to each child’s needs. Bilal, for example, who learned to read before he entered public school, got bored when he had to wait for the other kids in his grade to catch up.

MAQSOOD KHAN: It was just not challenging enough for him, and so we felt that we could probably do a lot more to challenge them and to help them learn. They can learn more of what they like, what they feel comfortable with.

FAW: In each home the older children assist the younger siblings. When fifteen-year-old Meena Khan is not studying geometry, history, and literature, she helps her fourteen-year-old sister, Heba, with her math. No matter what‘s going on, both families stop what they are doing to pray five times every day. All this, proponents argue, is part of instilling values which their children would not get in public schools.

RIZWAN JAKA: We’ve chosen home schooling for our children and our family to provide that, again, the strong values and strong foundation as well as strong academics and strong respect and understanding of our faith as well as respect for other faiths.

post03-muslimschoolingFAW: Are they getting a good education? Meena excelled in public school before starting home schooling four years ago. She studies totally on her own with the help of a curriculum for home-schoolers. It takes discipline, she says, but she feels she’s doing even better here than she did in public school.

MEENA KHAN: I think I’m getting a very good education. I can go at my own pace, so if I understand something I can go ahead, but if I don’t understand something I can slow down on it and review it and go over it again and get help if I need to.

FAW: It is a glowing picture. But some educators feel that children are better served in a school setting. At the University of Maryland, where she helps train teachers, Melanie Killen worries that home schoolers can be sheltered and miss the benefits of rubbing shoulders with different kinds of students.

MELANIE KILLEN (University of Maryland): Peer relationships are very different from sibling relationships. This is where you learn how to share, negotiate, how you learn how to resolve conflicts. There’s a whole host of very important, fundamental building bricks and blocks for how we become members of a culture that come out of the peer interaction.

FAW: Muslim parents who home school understand the criticism and go to great lengths, they say, to expose their children to outside interests. To help integrate their kids into the culture, the Khans and Jakas go to scouting events, to classes at museums and interfaith meetings. Exposed to different faiths, they also bring their faith to others. Here they’re not only part of the mainstream culture, they are totally caught up in it.

post04-muslimschoolingMIKAEEL JAKA: Today I got my car checked in, and I also got a patch, and I watched a lot of cars go down. It was really cool.

FAW: Activities like this, say Muslim home-schooling parents, show that their kids are not cloistered.

RIZWAN JAKA: It’s important to us, again, to make sure that, you know, the children get to know people, and that they’re not sheltered, that they intermingle with people, and they get to know the larger society.

PRISCILLA MARTINEZ: We aren’t looking to run away from the world and draw the blinds and shut everything and everyone out living in our own little utopia. What we’re looking to do, especially with our children, is to be out there, to get to know our neighbors.

FAW: While each of these families says they have experienced prejudice, they insist prejudice was not a factor in deciding to home school. But prejudice, say educators, can be subtle.

MELANIE KILLEN: These are Muslim families living in a predominantly non-Muslim area. You have different conventions, dress, dietary practices, and all that. But there’s also implicit forms of prejudice that people experience and oftentimes don’t even call it that, but they’re uncomfortable. They might feel excluded. There’s this level of uncomfortableness about being in a school that’s not part of their own culture and religion.

FAW: Another pitfall: While Priscilla and Zakia are both dedicated and smart, neither was trained as a teacher.

MELANIE KILLEN: You need training in terms of how to be a teacher. You’re managing a classroom of children, you’re figuring out how to do this, but you’re also aware of social development and children’s social, cognitive development, their biological development. These are all things that they need to know about.

FAW: To make sure home schoolers are making progress, Virginia requires they meet certain requirements by taking a test, by interviewing with a certified teacher or handing in a portfolio of their work. Muslim home schooling is still a small movement, but those who spend hours on the front lines are not crippled by any doubt.

MARTINEZ: Our goal is basically to bring up our children who are contributing citizens, who feel that they can and should give back to the world and ultimately to grow up in peace and be able to live a fulfilling life.

FAW: As a sign in her living room reads, “Home is where your story begins,” here where the alphabet, arithmetic, and Allah meet.

For Religion and Ethics Newsweekly, this is Bob Faw in Loudoun County, Virginia.

  • Jean M

    Kudos to these children and their families. They appear to be doing more academically than many of the Christian fundamentalists who homeschool their children.

  • ashley

    I LOVE HOMESCHOOLING!!!!
    Keep up the work

  • J

    Thank you so much for presenting a respectful piece without the stereotypical “are you a terrorist?” or “are you oppressing your daughters?” lines. Although I was not happy with Ms. Killen’s inclusion in the story, as all people in the “field” of instutionalized education are necessarily biased against homeschooling. In homeschooling you are not managing a classroom of chidlren, did she forget? Not only that, there is not one single homeschooling parent I know who has not extensively researched and studied learning styles and methods and academic and social development through book and article reading and attendance at seminars and conferences.

  • Fr. Ian Yorston

    I am sure that Muslims home school their children for the same very good reasons that Christians and others home school their children.

  • freedml

    Homeschooling is homeschooling whether the family is Christian, Jewish, Muslim, something else, or nothing. We are Jewish homeschoolers who belong to a variety of groups with kids of all ages. The issue is not whether our kids get enough ‘socialization’ , it’s whether they have enough time to study quietly in-between all of the classes and group activities that we are involved in from week to week.

    The ‘educator’ who thinks that children need a ‘trained’ teacher is just plain wrong — no amount of training can make a professional teacher more effective with a classroom of 20 to 30 kids for 6 hours a day than a parent will likely be with his and her own children (regardless of number, we have 2, some have 1, we know families with as many as 11 kids) 24/7.

    And, even if a parent is not a good teacher, ‘unschooling’ studies show it is hard to tell the difference between a formal classroom education and non-curriculum-based homeschooling. Tell the parents of Ben Franklin, Sam Adams, George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, and James Madison what lousy teachers they were!

  • Abdulhaleem Rasheed

    Thank you for the coverage. All of your programs I fill are balanced and fairly presented. American Muslims want their children to use their minds to think. The kind of children that we will have in the future will depend on how well we teach them to think no matter what back ground they come from.

    Public education does not teach children to think analytically. It does not teach children how to analize information other than the F.C.A.T. For American Muslims homeschooling allows the family to incoperate their family values. Parents want to remove their children from an environment of gangs, drugs and unhealthy associations.

    The Muslim family can schedule schooling according to Islamic life style such as prayer five times a day, Jumah prayer which is every Friday and other family traditions. So yes home schooling can be very effective.

  • Munazzah

    Awesome piece of broadcasting.
    As a Muslim parent who has kids at school and also does home based schooling, I completely agree with freedmi.
    Furthermore, socialization at school is nothing like the real world: it’s more black and white. It’s about ‘fitting in completely’ or ‘getting rejected completely’ by your peer group: no room for the complexities of being able to have mixed feelings that engender the respect of others in society.
    At the end of the day, as someone who straddles both sides of the schooling fence, I must say that all parents actually homeschool, what’s different is the extent to which they do so.

  • Holly Garza

    Home schooling is not only for upper class or Religious people. I started doing this in “pre school” (1 year and a half ago) with nearly having no money extra for anything besides my internet bill(sometimes) and crayons and paper. Also I had no Religious practice at that time!! Therefore…. NO; home schooling is NOT only for a certain type of people.

    That said I have become Muslim and more Religious during that time and so happen to be a Muslims home school mom. However I don’t home school because of being Muslim I do it because I taught for 7 years other peoples children, how much more so deserving of my teaching than my own child ?! Since this one is actually my responsibility legally, morally, and in the eyes of God. If I could do that for others children for pay I should hope to be able to do it for my daughters future and our great memories. I never really gave to much thought in the beginning as to how long I would continue to do so. It’s been an awesome ride though and she is doing very well. As long as Evelyn continues to learn, thrive, enjoy herself and stay above average for her age in the learning bracket and I have the means I will continue to home school God Willing.

    Kudos and big ups to ALL home schooling families one child-to many, Religious to NON, all of you keep holding on and doing a great job our childrens future is at stake

  • bernadette chu

    My husband and I are interested in HomeSchooling our twin boys, age 11 going to 7th grade in the Fall, 2011. Does anyone have any feedback or ideas on Schools, online programs and does it (homeschooling) require FT parent intervention, due to our work commitment? Any information would be greatly appreciated.
    Thank you.

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  • Samia

    there are numerous resources on homeschooling, just do a google search and you will find a lot. IXL for math is great, Aleks and Abecca math is there too. Go to the library for books, and get plenty of reading that way.