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FEATURE:
Mentoring Inner City Boys
October 20, 2006    Episode no. 1008
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BOB ABERNETHY, anchor: Around the country, more and more churches, schools, scholars, social workers, and others are trying to understand and address the challenges facing so many poor boys and young men, particularly if they are African American. From Indianapolis, Lucky Severson puts names and faces on some of the kids needing help, and on some of the grown-ups giving it.

LUCKY SEVERSON: This may not be what it seems. It's not a class about how not to do pushups, although many of these kids seem to spend most of their time wrestling the floor. This is a wrestling class, but it's more about values and discipline -- hence the pushups -- and about teaching young boys like Navawn that they are not a mistake and that they matter.

Photo of Goodwin NAVAWN KIMURA: I can't do a pushup, I swear!

UNIDENTIFIED MAN: I expect more from you than anybody else. Let's go. I don't want you to … Now, one. Now, two.

SEVERSON (to Navawn): Do you think coming here helps you stay out of trouble?

NAVAWN: Uh-huh.

SEVERSON (to Unidentified Boy #1): Brothers and sisters?

UNIDENTIFIED BOY #1: I've got two sisters and two brothers.

SEVERSON: Are they all in school?

UNIDENTIFIED BOY #1: Um hmm, but one is locked up.

SEVERSON: One locked up? What for?

UNIDENTIFIED BOY #1: Drugs.

SEVERSON (to Unidentified Boy #2): Do you know a lot of kids who have brothers in jail?

UNIDENTIFIED BOY #2: Yeah.

SEVERSON: A lot?

UNIDENTIFIED BOY #2: Yep.

SEVERSON: This is the Jireh Sports Center, a faith-based and church-sponsored program located in one of the worst neighborhoods in Indianapolis. Tim Streett, the minister who runs Jireh Sports, says these kids live in a society that doesn't value them.

Photo of Mentoring Reverend TIM STREETT (Executive Director, Jireh Sports): Because they're black, or they're poor, or they live on the wrong side of the tracks. We believe that the only way to get them to truly value themselves is, one, to have a sense of accomplishment; and two, to have a relationship with God, to believe that they were not a mistake, that they were created by a loving God who cares about them.

SEVERSON: The odds of succeeding for boys growing up in this part of town are pretty slim compared to other Indianapolis neighborhoods. The same is true most anywhere in the U.S. But it's also true that boys from both poor and rich neighborhoods are having a hard time of it. They're falling behind girls in some serious ways, and they need some help.

Listen to Bill Stanczykiewicz, president of the Indiana Youth Institute.

Photo of Stanczykiewicz BILL STANCZYKIEWICZ (President, Indiana Youth Institute): There are a couple of studies out there, one by a group called the Manhattan Institute that found that dysfunctional behavior amongst kids, especially boys, is just the same for middle- and upper-income kids as it is for low-income kids. And there was a recent article in FORBES magazine that looked at the CEOs who do a great job of leading their companies. What the story in their family? Their kids are having all sorts of dysfunctional problems, especially the boys. Why? Most often because Dad is not around.

SEVERSON: Girls suffer, too, but recent statistics show they're more likely to withstand the tribulations of childhood. For every 100 girls who graduate from high school, only 96 boys graduate. For every 100 girls diagnosed with emotional disturbance, over three times that many boys receive the same diagnosis. For every 100 girls who graduate from college, only 73 boys graduate. And the list goes on.

Rev. STREETT: Yeah, boys are falling behind, and they're falling behind across the board.

SEVERSON: Streett knows what can happen when kids grow up wrong. He was 15 when his father was shot to death.

Rev. STREETT: He and I were shoveling snow in our driveway one night when we were held up at gunpoint, and my father was murdered by three young men, young men much like the young men growing up in this neighborhood. As a matter of fact, one of them grew up not too far from here.

SEVERSON: He says the Lord took him through a 20-year process that led him to forgive his father's killers and led him here.

Rev. STREETT: And I really feel like God used my father's death to put his stamp upon my life about where I -- what type of ministry I would end up in.

SEVERSON: Thirteen-year-old Navawn Kimura should, by now, be the best pushup-er in Indiana.

(to Navawn): Brothers and sisters?

NAVAWN: I got two brothers and two sisters.

SEVERSON: Nobody in trouble?

NAVAWN: Un-uh. Except for me.

SEVERSON: How are you in trouble?

NAVAWN: I got suspended from school today. And this is my neighbor's house.

SEVERSON: Navawn was suspended, he says, for getting in a fight with a bully. He agreed to spend part of his involuntary day off with us roaming his neighborhood, which apparently takes on a different character at night.

(to Navawn): I mean, it doesn't look like a bad neighborhood; it doesn't look like a neighborhood that would have gangs or drugs or anything like that.

NAVAWN: Yeah, some of it does.

SEVERSON: Navawn's mom was at work. She has two jobs -- drives a school bus and does nails. He knows little about his father.

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Rev. STREETT: Ninety percent of the children born into this area are born in single-parent households. I just this week attended my third funeral this year for a young African American man killed in this city.

SEVERSON: Streett says at one funeral the victim's brother gave a telling eulogy.

Rev. STREETT: His older brother said, "Ronny was trying to be a good man," he said, "but we were raised by women." He said, "Great women! But we were raised by women -- by mother, a grandmother and aunt. We didn't have anybody to show us what it means to be a man."

SEVERSON: Streett no longer teaches wrestling, but has no question about its value.

Rev. STREETT: One young boy -- he weighed 210 pounds -- at the first wrestling practice we ever had, and I was the biggest adult, so I wrestled with him. Well, for three years before he moved out of the neighborhood, every time he saw me, he'd come up and give me a big hug and he wouldn't leave my side. And I'm convinced that I was the first adult man to ever get down and have fun with him.

SEVERSON: He says the kids needing the most discipline and doing the most pushups often have the greatest potential.

Rev. STREETT: These kids are smart. They're bored. They've got brilliant coping mechanisms, and creating chaos around them is often one of those coping mechanisms. Invariably, the kids that we've seen as the biggest discipline problems are usually the smartest kids in the class.

SEVERSON (to Navawn): Do you have a job?

NAVAWN: Yeah.

SEVERSON: What's your job?

NAVAWN: It's a barbershop. I sweep up like the hair, and I clean, and I do whatever I can do.

SEVERSON: Do many of the older boys in your neighborhood have jobs?

NAVAWN: No, I'm like the only one.

Mr. STANCZYKIEWICZ: These kids have an utter feeling of hopelessness. They haven't seen hope, they haven't seen responsible behavior modeled by the adults in their lives. They feel if they do make an effort it's not going to make a difference.

SEVERSON: What the kids need, he says, are role models -- mentors like Chris Provence, another minister like Tim Streett, who moved into the neighborhood.

Photo of Provence Reverend CHRIS PROVENCE (Volunteer Mentor, Jireh Sports): Without somebody to show us the way, we would all get lost. There's not one of us that can possibly get through this thing alive, you know. It's -- we have to have somebody show us the way. We all have to have somebody show us the way.

UNIDENTIFIED BOY #3 (praying in circle of boys): Dear heavenly father, we thank you for this day.

NAVAWN (praying in circle of boys): Amen.

SEVERSON: Religion is an important part of the Jireh program, although kids are not required to belong to a particular church.

Rev. STREETT: I mean, I once heard somebody say all a child really, really needs is to know that they are loved unconditionally. And nobody can do that better than Christ.

SEVERSON: This dad, Allan Goodwin, is the only one who showed up while we were there to cheer his sons on.

Photo of Goodwin ALLAN GOODWIN: My mother was a mother and a father, you know, and it wasn't easy, you know, and she did the best she could.

SEVERSON: Allan ended up in prison, but that was 20 years ago.

Mr. GOODWIN: And that's one reason I'm here, because I'm going to be there for my kids.

SEVERSON: Success for Navawn means graduating from high school.

NAVAWN: I just want to do it, so I can be the only successful one in my family.

SEVERSON: The only successful one in your family?

NAVAWN: Yeah, so I can make my mom proud.

Rev. PROVENCE: He's very smart, you know. He's a great kid. He's definitely got some issues, and we're struggling through those, and, you know -- but he's going to make it. I truly believe that.

SEVERSON: Navawn truly believes that as well, providing he can make it beyond the pushups. And with mentors like these, he'll likely do okay.

For RELIGION & ETHICS NEWSWEEKLY, I'm Lucky Severson in Indianapolis.

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