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PROFILE:
Ramadan Grandmother
January 8, 1999    Episode no. 219
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BOB ABERNETHY: The Islamic holy month of Ramadan is nearing its end. During this time, Muslims are required to fast from dawn to dusk and abstain from food, water, cigarettes, sex, even from anger. Ramadan is also a time of fellowship, but this year, the mood was dampened by the bombing of Iraq, a predominantly Muslim nation, just prior to the start of the holy month. From Brooklyn, New York, Anisa Mehdi reports on an Egyptian-born woman and her mission to explain the meaning and joy of Ramadan to her American-born grandchildren and their schoolmates.

Photo of Samira Elfiky and granddaughter ANISA MEHDI: It was a brisk December day, near the beginning of Ramadan, as Samira Elfiky waited for her granddaughter after school. P.S. 312 in Brooklyn's Bergen Beach neighborhood had become a December-friendly place for 10-year-old Yasmine. This holiday season, classrooms were decked out with Christmas trees, Hanukkah menorahs, and the crescent and star, the symbol of the Muslim people.

Getting Ramadan recognized in the public schools has been a one-woman crusade for Elfiky. The neighborhood she lives in has only a few Muslim families. And she wants her community to know about Islam, for Yasmine's sake and for future generations.

Ms. SAMIRA ELFIKY: She felt, seeing all these decorations, nothing for herself; that's not good. So I start to go to schools and talk about it, and give opportunity for other children to know about them, which is very important.

MEHDI: How have your classmates reacted to knowing more about Ramadan?

Photo of YASMINE SOLIMAN YASMINE SOLIMAN: They just kept on asking questions about fasting, when you start and when you end, questions about how you celebrate it and like why.

Ms. ELFIKY: All these teachers I met -- they feel like they are educated and they know when the child feel good about themself, what that means. It means, you know, very simply, they excel academically.

MEHDI: This is the third year for programs on Islam and Ramadan at P.S. 312. They come with the Christmas and Hanukkah curricula. But even with inclusiveness, religion is a sensitive subject for the public schools.

The Board of Education would not allow cameras in the classrooms. Another mom who helps Elfiky with the Ramadan program says it was controversial at first.

Photo of DINA TAHMY Ms. DINA TAHMY: The principal was afraid that this might turn into some, you know, conflicting points of view, some parents might object. But we worked things out. We try to take the cultural aspect of it and, you know, just bring out some few good points about Ramadan, what you're supposed to do in it, and that's all.

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Ms. ELFIKY: You've been asking for this decoration for a long time, right?

CHILDREN: Right. Yeah.

MEHDI: Public displays for Ramadan are rather new in America, but not where Elfiky comes from.

Photo of Samira Elfiky Ms. ELFIKY: Ramadan in Egypt, it's just a big, long party, you know, for 30 days, you know, with all the music, with all the decorations. It's everywhere. But it seems to me, you know, we don't have it yet.

Yasmine said, putting the decoration around the house -- "This was the best Ramadan I ever had."

MEHDI: Paper decorations aren't all. There's also a children's videotape about Ramadan, with a song.

(Footage of children singing)

Photo of Ramadan feast MEHDI: And the children at P.S. 312 sang it, along with Christmas and Hanukkah songs, for their holiday concert. Because the Muslim world is so diverse, there is no single way people celebrate Ramadan, beyond the traditional eating of dates to break the fast and gathering of family and friends to feast. What's developing in the United States with music and ornaments is something new, an American Muslim tradition.

Little by little Muslim symbols are making their way into the public view as well. This year, for the first time, the Empire State Building was lit in green for one night to honor the start of Ramadan. But among the people themselves, it's mostly a private celebration.

Photo of BILL CLINTON President BILL CLINTON (From December 16): The Muslim holy month of Ramadan begins this weekend. For us to initiate military action during Ramadan would be profoundly offensive to the Muslim world.

MEHDI: For many Muslims, this Ramadan got off to a sad start.

Ms. ELFIKY: It really hurt me so much, because the children be that way, you know. Again, bombing innocent people shouldn't be the way of solving a problem.

Photo of child decorating MEHDI: Elfiky hopes that sharing her faith with Americans will encourage tolerance and understanding. The greater the understanding, the better the chance for her grandchildren and other young Muslims to fully appreciate Ramadan.

Anisa Mehdi, RELIGION & ETHICS NEWSWEEKLY, New York.

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