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FEATURE:
Orthodox Women
December 10, 1999    Episode no. 315
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Photo of Jewish women reading BOB ABERNETHY: It's easy to think of modern America as it's usually represented by Hollywood and commercial TV, shopping malls and slick magazines. But within that "anything goes" world, there are enclaves of rules and faith that stand in astonishing contrast to the rest. We take a rare look now into the lives of some Hasidic women, ultra-Orthodox Jews in Brooklyn, New York, leading an 18th-century way of life on the eve of the 21st.

Hasidism began in the late 1700s in Eastern Europe, where it flourished. It was almost extinguished during the Holocaust, but was reborn in the U.S. by survivors who came here after the war. Hasidism is characterized by strict observance of ritual law, joyous worship expressed in song and dance, and mysticism. There are several Hasidic groups in the U.S.; the best known are the Lubavitchers, headquartered in Brooklyn. Their way of life, as we've said, is strictly defined by religious commandments, in a very particular way for women. Mary Alice Williams paid a visit to the Lubavitcher community of Crown Heights.

Photo of Jewish celebration MARY ALICE WILLIAMS: What you are watching is a celebration of the Jewish holiday of Sukkoth and of a ritualistic way of life that may appear to outsiders more misogynistic than mysterious. The men dance; the women can only watch, walled apart by a (Yiddish spoken), a barrier that is as rigid psychologically as it is physically. They are Chabad Lubavitcher, a sect of the ultra-Orthodox Hasidim, the most conservative branch of Judaism today. Their entire lives are circumscribed by (Yiddish spoken), the law for gender separation they believe God himself designed.

Ms. SARAH KANEVSKY: We have the law that they have to be separate. The underlying thing of Judaism is that because God says something, that's how we do it.

WILLIAMS: Women are constricted by a list of "thou shalt nots." They may not read sacred texts from the pulpit or even sit with their sons in synagogue. They may not sing or dance or pray or even shop in the presence of men. They must conceal their bodies in long clothing and their hair with wigs and wraps, all for fear their sexual energy could arouse men. It may sound sexist, but the women accept all this without complaint.

Ms. RUTI COHEN: You look at it as a limitation. We look at it as it's a privilege doing it, you know, doing what God says.

WILLIAMS: The women around Sarah Kanevsky's table say knowing your place and staying in it gives them real power. These women run the family, have full discretion over finances, have sole authority over their children.

Ms. CHAVIE COHEN: Women have and hold power -- that the woman without the man is -- is not incomplete and the man without the woman is incomplete. We need them, they need us to build the complete whole. Actually, the husband and the wife are two halves of one soul. When they marry, they are completing the completeness.

Photo of BASHA OKA Ms. BASHA OKA: Well, in Judaism, the relationship between men and women is a highly charged relationship. I mean, the whole point of Judaism is to sensitize yourself to life in all of its manifestations, and one of those manifestations is men and women. We do function in different worlds. We really do. I mean, women speak to women and socialize with women. And men speak to men and socialize with men, as if they're very different spheres; they really are. And it's -- for some reason or other, it's very, very comfortable. It's very comfortable this way. And it works.

Ms. KANEVSKY: We feel fulfilled. You wake up in the morning, and you have a purpose, and you don't feel like, "I have to search for something." You have a meaning in life.

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WILLIAMS: What gives meaning to Hasidic rituals is its underlying mystical faith, a belief that each and every deed they do gives them a divine spark, not only bringing them closer to God but making them like God. The deeds are called "mitzvoth," commandments, but also connections to God. There are an astonishing 613 mitzvoth, but for women, the most important are centered on home and family.

Ms. KANEVSKY: Get up. It's morning.

This is what the Torah is. We should teach our children. This is the foundation of life, how they get up in the morning and they say (Yiddish spoken), "Thank you, God, for returning my soul." The first thing they do in the morning is remember God.

Photo of SARAH KANEVSKY WILLIAMS: From the ritual hand-washing to daily prayer, davening, Sarah performs her mitzvoth. It is her obligation to bring light into the home by lighting the Sabbath candles. She must keep kosher, with multiple sets of china for dairy, for meat. She produces meals in volume prior to Shabbes, during which she cannot cook, and her baking is a commandment and a blessing.

Her mitzvoth extends even to her most intimate life. During her menstrual period and for seven days after, she may have no contact with her own husband in her own home, in the belief she is (Yiddish spoken), which roughly translates to "impure." Syvia Jacobson says it's a bad translation.

Ms. SYVIA JACOBSON: People say, "Oh, it's dirty. Women are dirty when they have their menstrual cycle." Totally the opposite is true. What happens -- why does a woman have a menstrual cycle? Because there was a potential for life, and it didn't happen, so it leaves her body. So this is a moment that we look at in awe, in awe of something that could have been life and isn't.

Photo of a mikva WILLIAMS: After 12 days of abstinence, Sarah goes to the mikva. There, she cleanses every square inch of herself -- her nails, her hair, her skin -- so that in her nakedness, her body is as pure and unblemished as it was at her birth. Then, whispering prayers, she totally immerses herself in a ritual bath, kissed by rainwaters Hasidim believe come from Eden itself, in which she's purified, body and soul, much as the ancient high priests immersed themselves before entering the temple. It symbolizes a change of status and prepares her for the holiness of procreation.

Ms. KANEVSKY: Personally, I feel like the purity laws just enrich my life and bring more excitement and attraction between me and my husband, because you know, like if you have something all the time, you know, then you don't appreciate it, really. And this way, I have the laws telling me, "You can't be together all the time," and then you want each other. And it keeps your marriage excited all the time.

Photo of RUTI COHEN Ms. R. COHEN: That's what human being is different from an animal. He can hold himself. He can control what he desires and his, you know, tendency.

WILLIAMS: The ultra-Orthodox see their way of life as a powerful corrective to the flabby morality they see in the world around them. The world may see them as anachronistic. But Sarah and Ruti celebrate it as an unbroken chain linking them to the biblical women for whom they're named. They say they are enriched by their faith and fulfilled by their family roles, and have no desire to change. I'm Mary Alice Williams in New York.

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