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FEATURE:
Bad Girls
February 16, 2001 Episode no. 425
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BOB ABERNETHY, anchor: Now, our profile of a popular Christian author and speaker who has built a ministry around the bad girls of the Bible. With humor and outspoken honesty, Liz Curtis Higgs says women today can learn a lot from some of the naughty women of scripture.
Kim Lawton spent the day with her.
KIM LAWTON: Author and speaker Liz Curtis Higgs focuses
on the seamier side of scripture.
LIZ CURTIS HIGGS: We're talking murder, adultery,
revenge, deceit, secret babies, seances, incest. Wild Women!
Maybe that's why I felt so at home.
LAWTON: Her best-selling books BAD GIRLS OF THE BIBLE
and its sequel, REALLY BAD GIRLS OF THE BIBLE have struck
a chord with women across the country who appreciate her
unvarnished honesty and her humorous approach to faith.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: Who's that crazy woman?
LAWTON:
Liz advocates what she calls "girlfriend theology," woman
to woman, relating real faith to real struggles. She says
her credentials for ministry are her own bad girl days.
She calls them her "pit years."
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: I never do anything half way, why
just dip into the pit when you can sink into the bottom!
LAWTON: It was the 70s, and Liz had left her small-town
Pennsylvania church-going background for the world of rock
radio. She became a DJ and plunged headfirst into a life
of sex, drugs, and rock and roll.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: I even prided myself in being a
really bad girl. I decided it was my identity; I decided
it was my uniqueness.
LAWTON: Things got so bad, a colleague, shock jock
Howard Stern, told her to "clean up her act."
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: Why I was never arrested, I will
never know -- it was a gift from God that I didn't end up
in jail -- it was a gift from God that I didn't end up dead
on the highway, because, driving while blind, as the saying
goes.
LAWTON: As she spiraled downward, Liz took a new
rock radio job in Louisville, Kentucky. There she says,
she met some evangelical Christians who told her how she
truly could clean up her act.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: They just peeped down my pit of
despair and said, "Liz, we have a better high for you then
where you are going now." And of course, I was always up
for a better high -- "oh wow, do you drink it, snort it,
do it, what do you do?" They said, "you just believe it."
Oh, dear, you don't mean God, do you? Yeah, we do.
LAWTON: Eventually, she says she committed her life
to Jesus.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: It's wonderful now, in the new
millennium, to look back on those years and understand they
were preparation for what I do now, which is encouraging
women who also have a past -- to let go of it -- to embrace
the grace of God and move on.
LAWTON: Since that time, she's written 15 books,
from children's stories to fictional romance to inspirational
non-fiction. But her emphasis on the Bible bad girls has
really ignited her ministry.
When Liz started studying the Bible, she says she was initially
put off by some of the role models such as the Virgin Mary.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: I just couldn't relate! But then
I got to Jezebel, and I'm like "Oh, I get this, she's a
pushy broad." I get that.
LAWTON:
She realized there was something all women could learn from
these less-than perfect women, such as Herodias, the queen
who demanded the head of John the Baptist.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: I know what you're thinking: Liz,
what am I supposed to learn from a story about a nasty woman
like this -- even though if you are really honest with me,
there have been a few men in your life you wouldn't mind
seeing their head on a platter, do you know what I'm saying?
I usually encourage women to look at these women and say
"is there anything you liked about them? Was there something
admirable?" Because we really need to do that for each other.
We tend to look around at women and say, "bad," "good."
Not exactly. No one is all bad.
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LAWTON: Women around the country have been responding
to her message. Liz has received hundreds of e-mails and
letters. She tries to respond to each one. And, she says,
women have been having fun acknowledging there may be a
little bad girl in all of us.
Liz's home and office in Louisville are part of what she
calls the "Laughing Heart Farm." And indeed, laughter has
become a hallmark of her ministry.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: A prophet-ESS! Wow! Female prophet!
Write that down, honey. That is more rare than a decent
dress on the 75 percent discount rack in your size.
One of the things I think kept me out of the church for
years was that it looked too serious -- for a girl who loves
to have fun and came from a very funny family. I mean in
my family, if you weren't funny, you were asked to leave.
So I wasn't sure that I could fit into the church because
it looked very serious.
 (To
audience): Let me try and get you picturing David. (pulls
out bag with a man on it.) OK, are we clear with Bathsheba's
situation now?
When we are able to laugh at ourselves, when we see our
foolishness, our humanity, our fallibility, then we are
exactly where God wants us to be, on our knees. And he's
happy if we are on our knees laughing or on our knees crying.
We're on our knees. We are humble, we are in a place of
willingness to change and a willingness to learn, and laughter
gets you there.
LAWTON: But behind the fun, Liz tries to address
some of the most painful issues women face today. Issues
such as low self-image.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: Of course, as a big beautiful woman
in a narrow, nervous world, this is an issue that I needed
to deal with myself. What I have found is, people accept
you to the level to which you accept yourself.
I really just encourage women, you don't really want to
go overboard in the outward, that's temporary, it's not
our eternal selves, but sometimes one small thing makes
you start burst into [the] song " I Feel Pretty" or whatever,
it just gives you a sense of being made beautiful in God's
image.
LAWTON: Liz says American women are too often bombarded
by the notion that they have to be perfect. The church,
she says, doesn't adequately minister to women who feel
they don't measure up.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: My bottom line message of course
when it comes to all those tapes that are playing, and all
those little voices -- you know that little "na-na-na" that
either sits on your shoulder or perches on your glasses
or wherever that sound is. It's usually right over here
-- those little negatives. First of all, the one I seek
to please is God -- and that is not God.
LAWTON: But the Oprah-like message of letting go
of shame and taking care of self also has a distinctly evangelistic
tone that Liz refuses to water down.
MS.
CURTIS HIGGS: I would say yes, it is a relevant message
for those who aren't believers. However, I can't be anything
but honest with you; it would be my prayer that they would
examine faith and what it could bring to their lives.
I am standing before you as a woman who more than once in
her life has put fame and fortune ahead of my family.
LAWTON: Liz says she still not completely a good
girl. She struggles with perfectionism, and with balancing
her work, her marriage, and her children.
MS. CURTIS HIGGS: [I can] speak in front of 5,000
people, [and it's] no problem. [I can] write books read
by 100,000, [and it's] no problem, [but if I] try to raise
an 11 and 13 year old -- ooooh baby! It's hard. Because
you don't know what the finished product will be and you
can't hold it in your hands like a page. If there's any
area where I beg for grace, it's the raising of my children.
LAWTON: Her openness, her vulnerability and her message
have apparently touched the hearts of thousands of women.
I'm Kim Lawton reporting.
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