This companion e-book to the Tavis Smiley Reports primetime special—which examines the staggering dropout rate among young Black males—picks up where the broadcast leaves off, with expanded discussion and resources needed to harness concern into collective and effective action. The volume is available on Amazon.com and BarnesandNoble.com.
Recently, I was invited by a friend to attend a spiritual conference for single men and women. The conference was designed to help those living a single Christian life fellowship more with one another, grow spiritually and learn or share some tools to help them in their quest to be pleasing to God.
It was really a great experience. A lot of people opened up and really shared some of their concerns and challenges about being a single Christian. Throughout the conference, there were a wealth of speakers on dating and relationships, forgiveness and parenting, as well as some very candid tips on how to live a spiritual life while being a single person. Here are just a handful of the tips shared.
1. Find someone to help you remain encouraged. Talk to someone who takes your spiritual concerns seriously. There is definitely a healing effect in talking to others who care about your concerns. Also, look to find those who are walking the same spiritual path, who are willing to be a friend to you along your journey. Most people are willing to help you if you let them know you’re in need.
2. Pray daily. It may sound easy enough, but those who haven’t given it a try should know — prayer works! Prayer allows one to release the challenges or concerns being faced and place them into the hands of a greater power. If you’re looking to overcome stress in life, remain steadfast in your daily walk or just seek to maintain a positive spirit in everyday circumstances, prayer is the key.
3. Read and study the scriptures. To borrow a phrase I once read, “there is no substitute for reading the Bible.” The Bible will help you remain grounded and has many stories of inspiration, discipline and direction. As you read, you’ll come across messages of encouragement, endurance and, sometimes, even sacrifice. Reading and studying the Bible will help you develop in ways unimaginable.
4. Stay involved with activities. Staying busy can help you get outside of your own head and reality for a while. Whether it’s a recreational event, sports league, small group or other entity, staying involved keeps you active and level-headed. And that’s the best way to be when living a spirit-filled life.
5. Minister to someone else’s needs. Believe it or not, single Christians have a responsibility to take care of certain needs of the church. Focusing on the needs of others helps to put your own concerns in perspective and allows you to be a blessing to someone else. Whether it’s assisting seniors at church, helping youth and teens or visiting others in the hospital, remember to care for the “least of these.”
So, is being a single Christian too hard? No, if you implement the right tools. Putting all of these suggestions into practice may take time, but given the level of spiritual growth attendees at the conference were looking to attain, I wouldn’t be surprised if these individuals begin teaching classes of their own sometime soon.
If you’ve heard of Barbara Ehrenreich, the National Magazine Award-winning American journalist, human rights activist and renowned muckraker, it’s probably related to her 2001 book, Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America. To expose the terrible living and working conditions of America’s legions of working poor, Ehrenreich spent months traversing the country, working as a hotel maid, waitress, nursing home aide, housecleaner and Wal-Mart salesperson, while trying (with varying degrees of success) to live on the money these minimum-wage jobs brought in.
The book was a huge hit, becoming a New York Times best seller and garnering praise from across the nation. Ehrenreich has been busy since, writing books about the polarization of American politics and the surprisingly negative effect of positive thinking on our culture, but now, ten years after Nickel and Dimed, she returns to the subject once again, discovering that things are largely much worse for America lowest wage earners.
In a recent essay on Salon, How America turned poverty into a crime, Ehrenreich turns a hard gaze on the laws and institutions that are, effectively, making it a crime to be poor during one of the worst recessions in American history. Indeed, while the people in her book struggled to feed and house themselves and their families ten years ago, it was during a time of great prosperity for the rest of America. Now, things have gotten much, much worse.
According to Ehrenriech, as many as 29% of American families could be living in poverty, and thanks to laws that treat these mostly hard-working people like criminals, it has become an even more difficult cycle to escape. Check out the piece on Salon. Ehrenreich is one of the best voices on the side of the working poor in American journalism, and she needs to be heard.
Recently, I spoke with one rally participant, Jeff McKee on his personal thoughts and experiences on the day’s rally.
What made you want to come out to this event today?
I appreciate the fact that Gov. Perry requested it statewide, and it even went further than statewide. But I wanted to come out and support him and support the Lord and be a part of it. I didn’t want to miss it.
Tell me about the experience inside the stadium. What was it like?
Once the worship started and the Holy Spirit showed up…I mean, the presence in the room speaks for itself. Was there an element of peace? I can’t really say that there was peace. No, I mean it was the element of being in the presence of the Lord. That was the (laughs) — that was the element.
The event was funded by an organization that’s been in the media and critiqued for being on the fringe side. Did you see any problems or concerns with the picketers?
No sir, I didn’t. I saw ‘em. We saw ‘em picketing whenever we came up. I thought what they needed was to come inside and get in the presence, you know. No, there was no problem with the picketing.
Any final thoughts?
No sir, just [that] I appreciate it and praise the Lord.
As I read The Wall Street Journal this past weekend, I came across an interesting article. Reporter Katherine Rosman wrote about how she decided she wanted to keep her last name upon marrying her husband.
Just two weeks later, she was inundated with e-mail and responses from readers on what they thought about her decision.
In many cultures and societies, it’s common to have a woman take on the last name of the man she’s marrying. But as societies progress, many different ideas emerge as to what’s appropriate or acceptable. The traditional idea of a woman taking on her husband’s name works for me.
From a biblical standpoint, the relationship between a man and woman is supposed to mirror the relationship between Christ and his church. Just as believers in the Christian faith wear the name of Christ, those who are ladies wear the name of their husbands.
So what’s your take? Should women take on their husbands’ last name in marriage, or are there other considerations? Is the idea of a woman taking on her husband’s last name too old-fashioned, or are there some things that shouldn’t change? Share your thoughts.
Judge Gray Miller threw out a lawsuit filed by the Freedom From Religion Foundation. The organization, which sued Perry, cited that his participation in the upcoming August 6 day of prayer is a clear violation of the separation of church and state.
Billed as ”The Response,” the day is designed to be a time of fasting and prayer in order to seek God’s help in the realm of political life.
While Judge Miller’s ruling states that Gov. Perry’s involvement in the event is constitutional, there are a few gray areas that deserve a closer look. Consider the following.
If Gov. Perry hosted a day of prayer event that was organized with the help of interfaith religious leaders, he would stand a greater chance of making the claim that the event is truly open to everyone who wants to participate. Yet, when the name of Jesus Christ is introduced as the sole name of the one you and others will be praying to, it becomes in fact an exclusionary event. Add to that fact you have a sitting governor endorsing the event and you have a state-endorsed religious ceremony.
The Freedom From Religion Foundation or any other organization has a right to call into question whether or not an elected official is putting a bias towards one religion – be it Christianity or any other religion. In this case, The Freedom From Religion Foundation was right to take legal action against Gov. Perry on this issue.
In the final analysis, I think both Gov. Perry got off lucky on this one.
Parents have long been concerned with the idea of what images their children are exposed to when playing video games. With kids spending exorbitant amounts of time online or gaming, there are concerns about how those images may affect them as they grow up.
Now occasionally, I’ll admit, that I enjoy the battles found in God of War, or going to a buddy’s house to play Halo. But I’m not 16 anymore, and I’m not the one playing these games for up to 13 hours a week.
So, it’ not too far fetched to believe that parents in the Christian community who have children playing video games want games that, in some way, teach positive lessons and don’t somehow add to the level of chaos that already exists in mainstream pop culture.
Christian groups and game developers came together to discuss the possibility of new game play content and values at the Christian Game Developers Conference held earlier this month.
Taken from the National Journal Community of e-Experts and an excerpt at the Christian Game Developers Conference in July, “We live in a culture that is often being driven by entertainment. Culture is most defined by arts and entertainment because this is where people’s values can be shaped and games can play a major role in reinforcing Christian values,” said Os Hillman, president of Marketplace Leaders and author of Change Agent.
“I challenge creators to develop games that provide a means of thinking differently by engaging in entertainment that can incorporate wholesome fun and stimulation for the mind, but also stimulate their thinking in new ways.”
For all intents and purposes, I think Mr. Hillman is right, but the final vote will really come down to dollars. If developers can strike the right balance between mayhem and morals, there are huge profits to be made. In the meantime, we’ll just have to wait and see if the future of “gaming with a message” actually has a prayer.
Christian video games? Will anyone play them?
Are you a person of faith who invests? Do you know what companies your dollars are supporting? Many individuals each year unknowingly invest their dollars into companies that they may not support.
In an effort to remedy those concerns, one company has decided to take a biblical approach as the basis of their new investment strategy.
Tithe Capital, LLC is a Christian based investment firm. The company’s mission is to invest dollars in a Christian values-based manner.
For the record, companies like Tithe Capital have been around for some time, but are beginning to find their place more frequently in the investment market place due to both a real and perceived sense of trust.
Many are happy to invest their dollars into companies they see as morally sound. And, from a business standpoint, there definitely seems to be a market for people of faith who want to invest as well.
Faith based investment firms also provide a different avenue for those looking to invest their earnings, but are leery of so-called greedy tycoons and investors found on Wall Street.
For people looking to investing with firms that will be good stewards of their financial earnings, this may be just what they’ve been waiting for.
It’s really an interesting way to invest one’s money. One that will likely continue to grow for many years to come.
Often times, many people hear reports of anti-Muslim sentiment in communities across America. Members of the Muslim community have unfortunately been ostracized, vilified and, at times, outright hated since the attacks of September 11th.
Arguably, it has been a mountainous walk of faith to show compassion towards people who continue to demean and discriminate against their beliefs.
One can only imagine how difficult it is to walk by faith in a world that looks to condemn or suspect you for your religious beliefs. But what happens when someone takes a persistent level of hatred and puts it into action because of that faith? How does your faith come into play at that point? Well, one man surprisingly answered that question in a way that should make us all examine what it means to be a person of faith.
Mark Anthony Stroman was sentenced to death for the killing of two people in a Dallas, TX convenience store in 2001. Stroman killed the men out of a spirit of aggression and retaliation just days after the September 11 attacks.
By the time you read this, Stroman will most likely be dead.
The only survivor of Stroman’s attacks was Rais Bhuiyan, a Muslim man. Rais Bhuiyan was shot by Stroman in the face, leaving him partially blind. Reports indicate that Stroman attacked these individuals not just because he was angry, but because he thought they were from the Middle East.
What the gunmen didn’t know is that none of his victims actually were from the Middle East, adding yet another layer of hurt to an already tragic occurrence.
By most accounts, Bhuiyan could have been consumed by grief and agony. Many would think he might turn bitter because of Stroman’s actions. But rather than become filled with aggression and seek revenge, Bhuiyan was filled with something else — his faith and God.
Instead of petitioning to have his shooter killed, he lobbied to have him removed from death row — a shocking act of compassion and forgiveness on the part of Bhuiyan.
Bhuiyan credits his faith in God and his Islamic teaching that allow him to show compassion towards Stroman. Many have written on how Bhuiyan’s faith is an illuminating demonstration on what redemption and forgiveness can yield when one’s heart is in the right place.
The larger story is that Bhuiyan’s actions should make us all examine how deep our faith truly is. Do we simply profess our faith and never show it, or do we demonstrate it in times of despair and tragedy?
How well do we really forgive? What lengths would we go to in order to show compassion for someone else’s life when they’ve hurt us? No matter what your religious convictions might be, Bhuiyan’s actions set the bar for us all to remember how powerful faith can be when you put it into action.
This week, production for Tavis Smiley on PBS began its annual hiatus. Tavis will use the month-long break to not only get some much-needed rest and continue his Foundation’s annual Leadership Institute in Los Angeles, but also to kick off a 15-city national Poverty Tour to raise awareness about the plight of the poor.
Did somebody say something about Tavis getting some much-needed rest?
Our Web site staff did manage to track him down for a few summer reading recommendations. Because Tavis has conversations with so many authors on his television and radio shows, we were curious to know which books he thought we should add to our summer reading lists.
Check out his recommendations below, and be sure to watch his conversation with each author. Tell us what you’re reading this summer as well!
1) The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, by Rebecca Skloot
This literary phenomenon and New York Times best seller is the story of a poor Black woman whose cancerous cells were used for science without her permission.
“I think that the story had been told over and over in little magazine articles and newspaper articles, and it was always the same little nugget of the story – this one woman’s cells taken without her knowledge – became this important thing in medicine,” says Skloot. “Nobody really saw much; what the story’s about is her family. That moment in history, it’s ethically complicated, but it was really common to take cells without people’s knowledge in the ’50s.”
Watch the full conversation
2) Area 51: An Uncensored History of America’s Top Secret Military Base, by Annie Jacobsen
Jacobsen’s New York Times best seller addresses what is happening at the Nevada air force base and attempts to explain what could be so secretive that U.S. presidents are denied entrance.
According to Jacobsen, “You’ve got all kinds of government presence in the desert, none of which the government will talk about what’s going on there. They still, to this day, will not officially say that Area 51 exists.”
Watch the full conversation
3) Clarence Darrow: Attorney for the Damned, by John Farrell
Focusing on iconic American, Clarence Darrow, Farrell brings to life one of this country’s grandest defense lawyers.
“He had this amazing sense of empathy and compassion,” Farrell says. “When given the choice between taking one route, making a lot of money and joining corporate America or doing something like defending an indigent person who was really stuck, Darrow would come, time and time again, on behalf of … the damned in American life.”
Watch the full conversation