My greatest challenge is to really love myself for who I am. I realized a few years ago that I've spent my whole life trying to fit in and imitate whomever I thought was admirable. that really damaged my self-worth.
When you become aware of something like that in your late twenties-early thirties, it really does something to you. I felt like a big failure. I felt like I failed the one person I should've fought hard to be; myself. So I decided to really work on myself and figure out who I am. Because at the end of the day, if I can look at the people who've hurt me and still find reason to love them, then I should be able to do that for myself.