Premiere Date: November 11, 2009
Synopsis
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(Available until December 12, 2009)
On call 24 hours a day for the past five years, a group of senior citizens has made history by greeting over 900,000 American troops at a tiny airport in Bangor, Maine. The Way We Get By is an intimate look at three of these greeters as they confront the universal losses that come with aging and rediscover their reason for living. Bill Knight, Jerry Mundy and Joan Gaudet find the strength to overcome their personal battles and transform their lives through service. This inspirational and surprising story shatters the stereotypes of today's senior citizens as the greeters redefine the meaning of community. A co-production of Dungby Productions and ITVS in association with WGBH and Maine Public Broadcasting Network (MPBN) with funding provided by the Corporation for Public Broadcasting (CPB).
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Filmmaker
It's really a personal story not a political one. That goes for the greeters themselves as well. They have different views on the war, but their main goal is to support the troops.”
— Aron Gaudet, Filmmaker
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November 11, 2009
Critical Acclaim
The Way We Get By is about three people, not about military or political combat. It strikes a deep, rich vein of emotion that flows through America's elderly, and it should be required viewing for those who think they know exactly what America is about. . . . The Way We Get By is as much art as it is documentary.”
— Dan Zak,
Washington Post
The Way We Get By is an Iraq War documentary, albeit in the loosest sense ... a lovely, uncondescending look at three lives enriched by kindness.”
— Eugene Novikov,
Cinematical
The dignity and integrity of these people will stir even the coldest heart.”
— Robyn Hillman-Harrigan,
The Huffington Post
[P]layed out against a backdrop of small acts of generosity and empathy, and small, fleeting dramas at Bangor's airport ... it's about the universal struggles of growing old.”
— Linda Matchan,
The Boston Globe






Reviews & Reactions
Average Review
| based on 288 reviews
Great Film. Great Story. Just Great!
You should defiantly check out this amazing documentary. I got to see a screening of it when it was at the Boston Film Festival earlier this year and was blown away! The filmmakers do a fantastic job of telling the story. Another great aspect of the film is that no matter what you think of the current wars in Iraq and Afghanistan or what you think about our last president, you can enjoy this film because it does not contain partisan politics or anti/pro war commentary. It is purely a piece about 3 Americans doing whatever they can to support the men and women serving our country overseas during this time of war.
by Sean
June 10, 2009, 11:59 AM
Cool Blog Post about The Way We Get By
This link comes from a post about the film on the "Let's Do Small Things With Great Love" Blog.
"I often wonder if I'm doing enough to thank the troops and to show them how grateful I am for their support. But it always stops there. I realized that I've never thought about the lives of others who reach out and support the troops. Lord knows I've met countless others who do.
This documentary will cause you to pause and think about things like that. Among many other things..."
Read more...
by Theresa Riley
July 9, 2009, 5:12 PM
Can't wait to see the whole film on PBS...
Made me cry just watching the trailer!
by Ruth
August 21, 2009, 11:20 AM
Eager to see this film
I am eager to see this film. Recently, I was flying back and forth from Atlanta to Dayton and had the honor of encountering several of our men and women in uniform. To each I could get to, I reached out a hand and gave a word of thanks. Every single one reacted with surprise and gratitude. I wish more people would take the time to simply say thanks for these brave Americans who risk their lives for us every day. It takes so little time but means so much.
by T. Rylands
August 22, 2009, 9:06 PM
Inspirational Film
"THE WAY WE GET BY" is incredibly moving. I was drawn in to the lives of these three volunteers immediately and wanted to know more after the film finished! This film showcases the power of volunteerism and all of the benefits that come from giving back. I strongly recommend it for people of all ages - this film is powerful and has the potential to change perspectives.
by Leigh Harper
August 28, 2009, 1:45 PM
Stirring documentary
I had the chance to see this in Brooklyn over the summer, and I highly recommend it. What the troop greeters do is wonderful, but getting to know them and their motivations is the most moving part about this film.
by Anna from University Park, PA
September 22, 2009, 11:25 PM
The Way We Get By
I thank that film maker so much for showing this story. It is so moving and I can not wait to watch it. To show that there are those of who when we say we support the troops it is not jsut words, but actions. This looks like a beautiful moving film of what one human can do for another to make them feel special. I am grateful to these 3 who do this because they want to not for the fame or anything else. IT shows that we are still a great country . Thank you.
by Connie from Austin, TX
September 30, 2009, 12:28 PM
Corporal
I met these wonderful people when I returned from deployment in Iraq. I just went to see the film at a local theater here in Oceanside,CA and I cried all the way home. I can't say enough about this film except that it should be mandatory for all to watch.
by Tegan from Oceanside/Wittenberg, California/Wisconsin
October 10, 2009, 12:55 AM
Angels
These people are angels. No other way to describe them.
by Peggy from Havre, MT
October 21, 2009, 8:55 PM
SFC
I love the trailer and I can't wait to see it in full ontv.I think it is one of the most caring things anyone can do to show their support and love for the soldiers or for their fellow humanbeing.They are like the "USO" in which I participated in a "Bikers ride for the USO" and all the funds went to them.Maybe somebody could organize some kind of fund raiser for them to help them in appreciation for their selfless service.
by Peter L Morris from AcWorth, Georgia
October 26, 2009, 7:44 AM
They are just three of the people that have been called "THE GREATEST GENERATION" and they just keep on proving that they have earned that title! I am only sixty years young and am so proud to have lived among these AMERICANS! When will the rest of the country learn it is about giving and not taking!
by Thomas J. Byrne from Putnam Valley, New York
October 30, 2009, 11:28 AM
I have had the pleasure of meeting, working and living with many centurians as well as the senior community in general, I cannot tell you how many times I have filled in for family and friends, what began as a job quickly became part of my life and then part of my family. I treasure every moment spent, laughing, eating, walking, reading, and most importantly listening, listening to their souls, appreciating the knowledge and the school of living life.
Cats in the Cradle-Harry Chapin
Let us all remember that.
Can't wait to see the whole film.
by kimberly stanley from rochester hills, michigan
October 30, 2009, 8:12 PM
Thank God for the true AMERICANS! May God Bless Us All! Thank you!
by Marine Wife, Navy Mom Ms.
November 1, 2009, 1:56 PM
I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE THIS!!!
I'm so happy it will be on TV b/c it wasn't showing anywhere near me! I cried just watching the trailer too!!! This looks like an amazing movie & I cannot wait to see it!!!
by Emily from Long Island, NY
November 2, 2009, 5:13 PM
The Way We Get By
Make's Me Proud to be an American and to know we have Good People out there like this God Bless Them and all our Troops.
by Robert D Wyatt/Cando2 from Hyde Park , New York
November 3, 2009, 11:23 AM
What They Really Do
Being one of the lucky soldiers who met some of these volunteers on my way to Iraq in October 2004, I will always have a special place in my heart for them. We were individual replacement soldiers, going over to a combat zone to be placed in units that needed us... we didn't know the soldiers we would serve with and several of us were volunteers who recently completed reclassification training to drive trucks instead of the jobs we knew from previous years of military service. We were a proud bunch, and we were excited and scared at the same time.
The volunteers who met us at the Bangor Airport were the last faces we saw on American soil. Initially, we didn't think anything of it. We were happy just to be off the plane after flying all evening from Fort Bliss, Texas. But, shortly after getting back on that plane knowing that this may have been the last impression of America we would have, several of us had tears in our eyes and smiles on our faces. The volunteers at the Bangor Airport made our last few hours in America something to remember.
So, for me, I can honestly say that the memory of that night has never left my side. Through losing a friend in combat and another to suicide I still smile and get a little choked up when I think of those final hours in America.
by Skip Spoerke from Abington, Massachusetts
November 3, 2009, 2:53 PM
Thank YOU to those 3 angels
I was given tickets to attend this movie, of which I had not heard. My son left for Afghanistan in JUNE and because of these people I got to see him one last time before leaving. As a mom it touched my heart. I say THANK YOU to them. He will be coming home soon and I live in MAINE so I hope to meet them as they greet him & all the other brave men & women home, so I can personally thank them. I cried just watching the preview, but I can't wait to see the whole movie. Im sorry to ramble on, but Thank You to all you people who cared enough and took the time & money to create this movie.
by Marine mom from Gray , ME
November 4, 2009, 4:57 PM
Do not miss this one !!
I was lucky enough to see this brilliant movie in Mobile recently, and to meet Aron and Gita. The 'angels' featured are just as heroic as our brave troops. They put their own problems aside, and think only of being there to meet and greet our brave men and women....no matter what hour of the day or night. Bless them and all the other 'greeters' ... and bless Aron and Gita for bringing this wonderful story to us.
by Jo Owen from Fairhope, Al
November 4, 2009, 10:22 PM
must see
I'm honored to say that I have been graced by these fine people in 2004 after a year long deployment. I was touched and at the same time shocked to see these strangers lending out their hearts, and their emotions as they were as excited to greet us as us to be greeted. I will never forget them. They not only took a year long deployment of hard times and tough sacrifice in to perspective; they also allowed us to realize that we return to be greeted by love. Thank you all for being there.
by JAMIE from austin, tx
November 4, 2009, 11:44 PM
I loved this film!
by Jessica Lee from New York, NY
November 5, 2009, 10:35 AM
Retired Grandmother
God Bless each and everyone of those precious young men and women
who serve our Country.
Many Thanks to all of those wonderful VOLUNTEERS WHO SHOW UP ANY HOUR OF THE DAY OR NIGHT TO to greet these Wonderful young
people.
by Phyllis Jones from amarillo, texas
November 6, 2009, 11:49 AM
Dad of a Marine
My wife and I were both in tears viewing the trailer and the interview. We will certainly be watching on Veterans Day. Our son will most likely meet these wonderful folk in just a few weeks on his way back from Afghanistan. Thank you for your efforts in bringing this heart warming story to us all. God Bless.
by Ernie williams from Shreveport, LA
November 7, 2009, 10:47 PM
What a wonderful story!!
This was truly one of the most inspiring films I have ever seen. These three people are truly angels and I admire their dedication to the troops and to making sure our troops know they are appreciated. It brought tears to my eyes to see the selflessness and dedication they have to brightening someone else's day, despite what hardships they may have in their own personal lives. I hope this story touches others as it has me. God bless our troops, and a big thank you to the Maine Troop Greeters.
by Lisa from Salem, MA
November 8, 2009, 8:56 PM
Administrative Asst
Very touching - these persons should be awarded a medal.
by Anna Minjarez from Odessa, TX
November 9, 2009, 10:06 AM
I watched your documentary last night on POV on PBS in Boston and was overwhelmed about these great Americans who do this wonderful and loving service for our out-going and homecoming troops. I would like to hear how Joan's two grandchildren have made out over there.
by Steve from Canton, MA
November 9, 2009, 1:52 PM
The Way We Get By
Words cannot express the depth to which I was moved by this film. I had three brothers that served during the Viet Nam era and my heart broke again remember all those vets that did not receive any welcomes on their return at that time. I'd like to think we as a nation finally realized how important it is to let the troops know how much they and their service mean to us. God Bless the wonderful people in and around Bangor that have continued their show of love and support to all the troops as they come and go - I for one wish that I could be among that group if it were possible. Bill, Joan and Jerry - you are truly angels and the significance of what you do is immeasurable. Thank YOU for YOUR service on behalf of our troops and allowing us to see a glimpse into your lives. My grandmother always taught me to "Never Forget The Vets"....I try to do my little part but I am so thankful for Bill, Joan and Jerry of Maine that can be there when I can't.
by Mora Leahy from Melrose, MA
November 9, 2009, 6:23 PM
Military thanks you
I've seen these guys having gone through Bangor twice from a deployment, (coming in at 2am once) and they are always there, happy to meet you, shake your hand, and ask you how your trip was, lined up and smiling at you as soon as you come through the terminal doors. It's really just the absolute nicest and most comforting thing in the world to walk into a room like that of faces and hugs after time overseas -- We can't say thank you enough for all that love, service, and support:)
by Leslie from Foster City, CA
November 9, 2009, 8:47 PM
Thank you
Our son and his battalion experienced the hospitality of these fine people in Bangor during their Afghanistan deployment. As parents of a Marine, I cannot tell you how grateful my husband and I were for the warm welcome our son received there. Not only was he hugged and greeted--we felt like we had been, too, because people showed they cared about these guys in the middle of the night. We couldn't be there, but they were there in our stead. It is truly wonderful for the troops and their families. Words are not enough, but thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
by Marine Mom from Tallahassee, FL
November 9, 2009, 10:07 PM
Seeing it is even more touching if that's possible
I live in Bangor Maine. Two months ago I went to the airport to pick up my daughter flying in from Australia. Her plane was arriving at 1 a.m. At midnight the airport was empty. Couldn't of been but ten people in the building all waiting for the New York flight to arrive. No airport staff in sight, all stores dark and closed. Then at 12:30 the entire environment changed, the gift shops opened, the greeting office opened and the military troops arrived. They poured out through the arriving gate and my heart burst with love and gratitude. The wars so far away walk right into my safe space. Being at the airport, seeing these brave Americans touching American soil for the first time after serving their country is an American Experience everyone should have. They deserve to be told "Welcome Home and Thank You".
by Samantha Kavanaugh from Bangor, Maine
November 10, 2009, 9:12 AM
they are great
I came back from Iraq through NJ. The greeters there were awesome as well. The hug I got from them was the first from an American and the second best of the day (my wife and kids took first place). What a great feeling to know that we are supported. I can't thank all the greeters enough. God Bless them and God Bleaa America!
by Syed Ali from evans, ga
November 10, 2009, 11:02 AM
A big "thanks" to the Bangor volunteers
I haven't seen the film yet, but really hope I'll be able to catch it -- The Bangor volunteers made a difference in my own life and I'm thankful for it!
I was deployed to Iraq in 2003-4; the first year of OIF. When I got R&R, I was TERRIFIED that my trip home would be like those experienced by Vietnam veterans; all we ever heard about in-country was how the whole country was against the war and we were terrified that after going through so much we'd get spat on and cursed at getting off the plane. I was lucky enough to land in Bangor first -- these dedicated people were EXACTLY what I needed. It actually made me cry, but in a good way. I wasn't so much as looked at on the rest of the flights home to California, but my landing in Bangor made up for that. THANK YOU so much for your dedication -- you ARE making a big difference to service members getting off those planes!!
by Rebecca Burt from Pullman, WA
November 10, 2009, 2:52 PM
My Heart Swelled with Pride
I am so proud to say that these three outstanding people live in my home state. I had the honor of meeting all three - Bill, Jerry, and Joan - when the film played at a local theatre here in Bangor. They were so warm and friendly, and so very down to earth. The documentary is nothing short of fabulous. Thank you Aaron and Gita, and thank you, Bill, Jerry and Joan for being exactly who you are!
by Pat Lawrence from Bangor, Maine
November 10, 2009, 6:03 PM
Generous souls
This is very touching and so sweet we need more of this in our world today. god bless our troops
by Shawn from Berthoud, Co
November 10, 2009, 11:18 PM
Wow!
What selfless, kind people! If the world took a lesson from them, they would be out of a job. I will definitely watch this tonight. Bless you three souls - the epitome of Love here on earth.
by Julia from Bloomington, IN
November 11, 2009, 8:32 AM
I attended one of the September showings of The Way We Get By in Bangor and had the privilege of meeting Aron, the featured troop greeters and some of their family members. The folks in that lobby were the people we saw on screen, the real deal, no acting! They were open books, which is a big part of what makes this film so special. I purchased the DVD to share with friends and family because it was such a moving experience for me and I could not wait until November 11th for them to see it. I encourage others to financially support the efforts of those bringing this story to us. It's a story your personal library should not be without. Thank you to all involved (behind the scenes, in the scenes and serving overseas) for bringing this story to us!
by Jamie Gordon from Medway, Maine
November 11, 2009, 8:44 AM
I Am a Veteran/Women's Army Corps
I cannot wait to see this film. Just reading the comments, I have chills and tears in my eyes. I served my country from 1964-1967, and was sargeant at 19....from a little town in Maine (Heaven)....Old Town, ME to San Francisco at the height of the Vietnam war, peace-hippies, etc....major culture shock.
I will be forever honored and grateful that I was a part in "ask what you can do for your country."
When I left from the Bangor airport, it was a small wooden building.
Blessings, Alice (Borgen) Carleton
In exile in Michigan (Maine is the Sanctuary of the Soul---my poetry book of the same name is being published)
by Alice from Rochester, MI
November 11, 2009, 9:13 AM
I can hardly wait!
I have been waiting for so long to fianally get to see this! My children and I are going to sit down together to watch it. I know when my husband comes home in January from Iraq he will be so thankful and touched that these wonderful souls are there for him. As am I. Keep it up! It means so much to our loved ones returning home to know you support them! Thank you.
Army Wife,
Kari
by Mrs. Kari Cruze from Galivants Ferry, South Carolina
November 11, 2009, 11:39 AM
I was one of the 900,000
I was one of the lucky 900,000 to come through their airport. Coming through their airport and seeing the crowd of people that I may never know there names was an amazing feeling. It was one of the most touching moments of my life. Thank you so much for what you do!
by Matt Hall from Fort Wayne, Indiana
November 11, 2009, 12:31 PM
This past summer I was at the Baltimore Airport, returning on a flight to Denver. As I was walking up the causeway, I heard a lot of loud noise, obviously coming from somewhere ahead, and as I rounded the corner, there were about 25 people gathered there, lined up and clapping quite loudly. When I asked one of them (they were all in t-shirts, sppropriately marked) what was going on, it was explained that they were here to greet some of the homecoming soldiers. They started to come off he plane, and walked through the lines that had been formed. Each one of them had a HUGE grin on their face, and were obviously thrilled to have such a greeting awaiting them. Some were in wheelchairs. The greeters reached out and shook hands with each soldier, and thanked them. One of the greeters said that they have that grin on their face for the balance of their visit in Baltimore. I understand that there was music and refreshments for them in another part of the airport. Ever since then, I haven't forgotten, and have wondered how many cities across America have such a reception for the soldiers coming/going to action overseas.
by Marian McShannic from Denver, Colorado
November 11, 2009, 3:39 PM
This past summer I was at the Baltimore Airport, returning on a flight to Denver. As I was walking up the causeway, I heard a lot of loud noise, obviously coming from somewhere ahead, and as I rounded the corner, there were about 25 people gathered there, lined up and clapping quite loudly. When I asked one of them (they were all in t-shirts, sppropriately marked) what was going on, it was explained that they were here to greet some of the homecoming soldiers. They started to come off he plane, and walked through the lines that had been formed. Each one of them had a HUGE grin on their face, and were obviously thrilled to have such a greeting awaiting them. Some were in wheelchairs. The greeters reached out and shook hands with each soldier, and thanked them. One of the greeters said that they have that grin on their face for the balance of their visit in Baltimore. I understand that there was music and refreshments for them in another part of the airport. Ever since then, I haven't forgotten, was deeply touched and have wondered how many cities across America have such a grand reception for the soldiers coming/going to action overseas.
by Marian McShannic from Denver, Colorado
November 11, 2009, 4:06 PM
I am looking forward to watching this tonight. My son will be returning from Afghanistan in a few weeks and it fills me with undescribable emotion to know that when he finally returns to American soil, he will be greeted by such caring and wonderful people.
God Bless and Thank You!
by Mary from San Diego, CA
November 11, 2009, 5:12 PM
Deeply touching
It's amazing how powerful this story is. I went out of the theater and for weeks now I keep thinking about the film, the veterans, the things that make our lives meaningful and give us the strenght to move on and be useful. The most amazing part was the lack of any political message, the fact that no one even tried to take sides and judge. Great documentary, great storytelling!
by Essy CA
November 11, 2009, 5:59 PM
Awsome
This was one of the best films I have ever seen. This film made me laugh cry and motivated me to support our troops.
by Diamond from Windsor, Connecticut
November 11, 2009, 9:14 PM
Very moving. These people are a symbol of what makes America and Americans so great. At the end of the day, its all about people and being there for one another.
by Gary Purcell from Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
November 11, 2009, 9:46 PM
Great Story!
This was an excellent film. Hopefully it will get a wide airing. Every American needs to see how a handful of people in Bangor, ME are doing a great job for all of us by simplying greeting the returnees and saying good by to the departees.
Thank you Troop Greeters,
ted b wendeln
(Army 1966-69)
by ted b wendeln from Dayton, Ohio
November 11, 2009, 9:48 PM
A former Marine
I enjoyed this very much. I am a product of the 1st unpopular war, Viet Nam. I wished we had someone like these three fantastic people to greet us as we returned to a country that was so divided. It seemed to me the only ones that welcomed us home were other vets.
God bless these people.
by Greg from Hartford, Mi.
November 11, 2009, 9:57 PM
Very touching story
I am watching the documentary and have found it to be very touching on so many different levels. As a currently serving Reserve Soldier, I find their commitment, dediction, and service to those who are returning home to be absolutely tremendous and touching. Listening to each of thier personal stories and what they are enduring and, yet, continue to serve others is inspiring. I just wanted to give each one of them a hug and tell them that I loved them.
by Tim A. from Louisville, KY
November 11, 2009, 9:58 PM
HUGS
i really liked it. i really just want to give all three of these people a hug. they do make a difference in these troops lifes. im actually sitting here crying alongside these men sharing their stories. wow.
by Audrianna from elizabethtown, ky
November 11, 2009, 9:59 PM
HUGS TWO
i forgot to give my rating...
by Audrianna from elizabethtown, ky
November 11, 2009, 10:01 PM
Jingoistic Tripe
What is this jingoistic tripe? Whoever accuses PBS of being a bastion of liberal lefties ought to pull their heads out of their butts. Yes, I recognize this is veterans day and we ought to pay homage and all and blah blah blah. But where is the questioning of this institutionalized violence? Why are we ripping peoples lives apart and wasting billions of dollars? Where is the wisdom of our leaders?
by Livid Lefty from Minneapolis, MN
November 11, 2009, 10:04 PM
INCREDIBLE, PAINFUL, REQUIRED
Can the filmmakers tell Bill Knight, Jerry Mundy, Joan Gaudet how phenomenal they are for revealing with candor how painful life can be, how hard it is to accept death as a natural part of life, and to embrace, and I'm paraphrasing T.S. Eliot, but having to grow old and wear our trousers rolled. It is incredibly disconcerting to understand why we train people to kill and die, but it won't change in my lifetime. Bill Knight says to a returning soldier that, "everybody does their share." While I disagree, I am grateful to Mr. Knight who has certainly has done more than the average bear. A long way to say, THANK YOU!
by Catie Lazarus from New York, New York
November 11, 2009, 10:12 PM
THANK YOU!
I broke down in tears so many times. What an inspirational group of people. Thank you for telling their story. They are what makes America a great nation and what our troops have sacrificed so much for over the years.
by Lisa Park from Akron, Ohio
November 11, 2009, 10:14 PM
Thank you.
by James from Grand Rapids , Michigan
November 11, 2009, 10:19 PM
comment just above mine
i came on to post my reaction to this film, but i just read catie lazarus' comment above mine and probably couldn't say it better if i tried. "incredible, painful, required" indeed. god bless america
by beechtree from dayton, oh
November 11, 2009, 10:20 PM
What a Great country we live in. The volunteers are awesome,as are the troops. A truly inspirational show. God Bless the troops and the volunteers.
Thanks.
by alasdair watt from oak bluffs, ma
November 11, 2009, 10:23 PM
Words are not enough
What a wonderful documentary! These people are amazing. God bless our troops and their families! I have no more words. Wow.
by Scott Norquest from Louisville, OH
November 11, 2009, 10:23 PM
I am sitting here watching this and just bawling...I'm a mainer, lived in the bangor area and it was so nice to hear the stories of these great people who greet the troops at the base where I worked making sandwiches for our troops and visiting troops from all over the world.
Thanks for sharing this and giving me a welcome piece of home while I'm so far away....and Andy, did you go to UMO? you look so very familiar to me...I was a music major there between 99 and 2005
by Erin-Margaret from columbia, sc
November 11, 2009, 10:24 PM
Great Film
I'm so glad I had the chance to watch this on Veterans Day. This was a great movie and Gaudet did an amazing job of introducing us to such incredible people - Bill Knight, Jerry Mundy and Joan Gaudet. Thank you.
by R from KC, MO
November 11, 2009, 10:25 PM
I watched this documentary with my wife. We both teared up several times. Bill, Jerry, Joan, thank you. This kind of personal action is what makes Americe the best thing that mankind has yet invented. Not perfect, but still the best. Thank you PBS.
Jim & Lorraine Flynn
by James Flynn from Hampton, NJ
November 11, 2009, 10:26 PM
What an Amazing Generation
i just finished watching this special and I still have tears in my eyes. The way you portray this amazing people is extraordinary - and i want to say Thank You to them for everything they do and i will be praying for them all. - With Much gratitude...
by Cari Barker from Melbourne, FL
November 11, 2009, 10:26 PM
Touched
What a great documentary. To see such selflessness is inspiring and makes me want to be a better person. Way to go troup greeters. Thank you to our troups for your outstanding service.
by Katy from Lincoln, NE
November 11, 2009, 10:27 PM
Thanks
I just finished watching the premier on 11/11/2009. I was very touched by the selflessness of Bill Knight, Jerry Mundy and Joan Gaudet and all of the greeters at the Bangor Airport. God Bless you, for all you do and all the lives you have touched!
by Bob Ankenbauer from Billerica, MA
November 11, 2009, 10:28 PM
I was so moved, what a story!
God Bless these great people who take time to greet the soldiers. There stories are so moving. I just want Bill and Jerry to know that there are people out here that love them, even though we have never met you. Dont give up Bill, we love you and care about your life. I hope I get the chance to write and tell you.
J Simms, Kansas
by j simms from wellsville, kansas
November 11, 2009, 10:28 PM
Mr
This is America at its best and reinforces that some of our heros' are those who man the home-front. God bless them.
by Paul Hartwigsen from Kalamazoo, Michigan
November 11, 2009, 10:29 PM
Heart Warming
And gut wrenching. These selfless folks are wonderful. It's great to know of them through this film. My heart goes out to them and the troops that they support.
by David Dickmeyer from Fort Wayne, IN
November 11, 2009, 10:29 PM
What a beautifully done film. Thanks not only to the filmmakers, but also to the greeters -- for the good work they do, and for sharing their lives with us, the viewers. What a gift.
Pat
by pat from Minneapolis, MN
November 11, 2009, 10:30 PM
Living
These Americans have redefined what living truly is: It's not about working 40hrs a week doing something you don't care about to buy an enormous house to put a fancy tv in, barely see family/friends working overtime to pay for the nice car that gets you to the job you loathe that keeps you from the house you bought and ones you love in an effort to find happiness. No, these people have reached beyond themselves, their egos, and circumstances to offer complete strangers more than what we often even give ourselves... Compassion, love, and support. I am so moved by the absolute commitment they have made to getting up every morning, hell or high water to stand at the terminal when the troops return. And is there a large payoff? A prize to be won? No, they just get life! The only thing life guarantees you is death, everything else is a blessing. I have been inspired to live (for) life!!!!!
by Han from Brandon, Florida
November 11, 2009, 10:30 PM
The Way We Get By
I loved this program and I loved seeing those three kind and generous people spread as much hope and love as they could.
God Bless them and God Bless America
by Taylor Long from Delavan, Illinois
November 11, 2009, 10:31 PM
just finished watching.....thank you....I have not been moved to tears like this ever before...there are no words for the emotions that you brought out in this film.
by brett arenz from south bend, in
November 11, 2009, 10:31 PM
Fantastic, thank you so much for telling this story!
by jan Moscowitz from Boston, MA
November 11, 2009, 10:31 PM
Excellent Film. In spite of their personal hardship these older folks are doing Great Work, greeting these returning GIs.
by D. Rogers from Dothan, AL
November 11, 2009, 10:32 PM
Educator
I just finished watching the premiere of The Way We Get By and I must say it was the most heart felt example of how caring people can be. I was moved beyond words and shed tears along with the main characters as they shared their thoughts and opened their homes to the viewers.
I cant say enough about how thankful I am that there are those who care enough to make sure the soilders have a smiling faces to see regardless of the hour or temperature of their arrivals in Maine.:)
May God continue to bless their efforts and may they have continued strength and health to carry on until the last troop comes home for good.
God Bless
Jackie Johnson
by Jacqueline Johnson from Pembroke Pines, Florida
November 11, 2009, 10:32 PM
You made my evening!
I just finished watching this program with my mom... 2 days unemployed, feeling bummed and your film has changed me completely. My mother and I were truly moved by all of the elderly... tears, comments and laughter filled our family room as we watched. This was an amazing experience for us and I am looking into a program like that here in Miami. These individuals have inspired me to forget about unemployment and look for a way (or another) to support our troops. Thank you so much for sharing your film and I wish the very best to all the greeters. Peace to the soldiers!
by Maura Casanovas from Miami, Florida
November 11, 2009, 10:33 PM
The Way We Get By
What a touching, heart warming documentary! And what special people these Maine Troop Greeters are! My hat is off to them - way to go!!
Thank you so much for sharing such a great story of people touching other peoples' lives, no matter how briefly.
by Cheryl E. Lane from Salem, NH
November 11, 2009, 10:33 PM
We Owe
We owe a debt of gratitude to all who have served in the military. This very moving documentary made me realize this afresh. The three people featured show the wisdom and kindness and bravery to be found in the people we see around us every day...if we would only take the time to look for it. Everybody has a story worth telling.
by Marcella from Balm , FL
November 11, 2009, 10:34 PM
Mr.
In the two out of three deployments to Iraq I was greeted by the Maine Troop Greeters. It was one of those things that you looked foreword to right before you left the States or when you came back. It was the shake of a hand and a hardy good morning (at 0330), or the point in the right direction for a last chance phone call home to family.
You remembered us when we left. You remembered us when we came home, and you remembered our fallen brothers in arms.
Thank you Maine Troop Greeters for all of your continued service towards those of us who serve. Thank you PBS for for telling their story
Jason Maguire
Former Marine SSGT
by Jason from Louisville, KY
November 11, 2009, 10:35 PM
Wow!
This is one of the greatest features on PBS or any where else!
These individuals are almost beyond belief. They are what really, true Americans are ....... and what they have stood for for more years than most people can ever remember.
It was humbling yet inspirational to view this presentation.
May God bless and continue to keep them in His care. They are truly immeasureable in service, devotion, and service to this Nation. Each one deserves the Metal of Honor for their service has put service to their countrymen/women beyond life itself.
I only wish there was some way that I could speak with them and thank them for all they have done.
With deepest appreciation,
Mary Sneed-Ellington
by Mary Sneed-Ellington from High Point, NC
November 11, 2009, 10:35 PM
Very touching and motivating!
I had the opportunity to watch a portion of this film on the PBS channel here, and words can not express how touching this was and definitely brought tears to my eyes, and is definitely a film that is very motivational to me! I would watch this time and time again. Thank you!
by Lisa from Canton, Ohio
November 11, 2009, 10:36 PM
The Way We Get By & Grow Larger!
Beautiful film! The profiled folks, their stories, the returning troops, the touching gift of a handshake or hug....all this gets beyond the polarizing politics and instead gets to the heart. The 3 seniors all dealing with their own life challenges, grow larger in the kindness they show by their acts of greeting the service women and men coming home from and departing for a war zone. What a neat idea for a film and I was glad to hear from the film-makers how this story got to be chronicled. Another feather in the cap for POV....always good films, because they're always good stories. From a librarian-that's high praise. Loved it. Glad to have seen it on Veterans Day. Thanks to all!
by Terry T from Iowa Falls, IA
November 11, 2009, 10:36 PM
A Profound Veterans Day story...
Many thanks to all involved in bringing this thoughtful story into our homes on this day. Public Broadcasting Rules!!
by J Greer from Detroit, MI
November 11, 2009, 10:37 PM
We Owe
Watching this made me cry. What a fine documentary. We owe a debt of gratitude to all who have served in the military. These three people featured show the wisdom and kindness and bravery to be found in the people we see around us every day...if we would only take the time to look for it. Everybody has a story worth telling.
by Marcella from Balm , FL
November 11, 2009, 10:37 PM
Never to Old to Volunteer
Thank you for this great documentary that touches so many of us 'baby boomers' today. Being able to give to community does make us feel alive and useful in spite of what our bodies are doing...God Bless each and every man/woman who serves both in Canada/USA and around the world. Thank you for being so strong and brave.
Carolee from Canada
by carole British Columbia
November 11, 2009, 10:37 PM
The Way we get by
This was one of the best things I have experienced in a LONG while. Thanks to all who brought the rest of us this uplifting story; and a sincere thanks to those profiled for sharing their story, and providing some guidance for the rest of us!
by Wes Brandon from Yadkinville, NC
November 11, 2009, 10:38 PM
Thank you!
Thank you to the filmmakers, PBS and the greeters for sharing this wonderful story.
What an appropriate film to share this Veterans Day.
I highly suggest this film be broadcast at least once a month until all of our troops are home. I think people need to feel the inspiration.
I am so moved and inspired by this film that I am going to see how I can do my part in showing my appreciation.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
by Jamie O'Brien from New York, New York
November 11, 2009, 10:38 PM
A Profound Veterans Day story...
Many thanks to all involved in bringing this thoughtful story into our homes on this day. Public Broadcasting Rules!!
by J Greer from Detroit, MI
November 11, 2009, 10:39 PM
Thank you!
Thank you Bill, Jerry,and Joan for sharing your lives with us through this film. You have made my evening tonight--and enriched our lives by your willingness to share yours... Your strong spirit and your work with the troop greeters is inspiring. You will remain in my heart and in my prayers.
by Joan Reidy from Lorain, Ohio
November 11, 2009, 10:40 PM
Father
My son signed up and joined the Marines 2 months ago. He is scheduled to go to bootcamp in February (or sooner).
The broadcast was powerful to see.
I already miss him. The show reminds me just how much.
God bless our troups and God bless all the greeters.
God bless America.
by Mikw Walsh from Brewster, New York
November 11, 2009, 10:40 PM
Heart-Wrenching and Heart-Warming
Thank you PBS for this spectacular film. It completely restored my faith in humanity. Happy Veterans Day to all, and my deepest gratitude to our veterans and to the greeters!
by Wendy Holding from Cambridge, MA
November 11, 2009, 10:41 PM
The way we get by
God bless these people! They have their own troubles, and yet, they come out and greet the soldiers night or day.
They are wonderfully loving and sweet. Thank God we have them
by Monica Bull from Austin, TX
November 11, 2009, 10:42 PM
Wonderful story!!
Amazing when you think of how powerful this experience is for both the greeters and the returnees.
Lot's to think about.
Thanks for doing this sensitive, thought provoking film.
by nora fagan from Islip, NY
November 11, 2009, 10:43 PM
I really enjoyed watching this documentary. It is stories like these that always remind me why I love people and appreciate the compassion that God gave us for others. I cried a lot watching this documentary, but in a good way. I'm glad that I stopped to watch it, because it opened my heart even more.
by Erin from Noblesville, Indiana
November 11, 2009, 10:45 PM
Great Movie
Having grown up as a military "brat" living all over this country and Europe, I know how hard is to live the military life. I have several family members,brother, sister, niece serving this country now and I know one day that they will continue to serve this country even when their military service is done. I thank all those that continue to serve, just like Bill Knight, Jerry Mundy, Joan Gaudet do. This is such a great film, I wish there were more like it and the movie "Taking Chance", if you have not seen it, I highly recommend it. Great Job on making such a movie as this !!!!! THANKS to all the men and women serving this great country. HAPPY VETERANS DAY!!!!! God Bless you all and God Bless America.
by Ray Ashley from Mebane, NC.
November 11, 2009, 10:45 PM
Deeply Inspiring Heroes
Thank you so much for this wonderful and very inspiring film. My son and daughter-in-law are both currently serving in Baghdad and I am a Blue Star Mother. Our local BSM Chapter does a great deal to help support our troops however the commitment that these three incredible individuals display is truly" heroic". Thank you to them and all the Bangor ME volunteers who help to see our loved ones leave and return from Harm's Way.
by P Wood from Albany, NY
November 11, 2009, 10:45 PM
The Way We Get By
What a wonderful story and a wonderful group of people.
I am happy to say i am a native of Maine
by Maryann Pike from Claymont, Delaware
November 11, 2009, 10:46 PM
Hats off to our troops and Joan, Jerry, and Bill
My wife and I just watched the movie and words can't express how touched we are. It has inspired us to do more to show support for our troops.
by Matt from Milwaukee, WI
November 11, 2009, 10:47 PM
Outstanding film making by any measure.
You can't script something like this, it just happens.What an kind, gentle collaboration between film makers and their subject.I don't know where to begin in praising this film.Just keep making them.God bless our Veterans.
by Thomas Robinson from Lancaster, Pa
November 11, 2009, 10:48 PM
Those 3 people are beyond words, 1991 I went to ft campell, ky to greet the troops coming home , it was a feeling I will never forget ! 900,000 welcome homes
great jobs you aare true HEROS , may God have mercy on our souls!!!!!!!!
by rich kondzielaski from key largo, fl
November 11, 2009, 10:51 PM
Counselor
I don't know quite what to say except that this is one of the best stories I have ever seen anywhere!
I realize that the PBS rating allows only for a possible of five (5) stars, and that's what I gave this show. However, this goes far beyond the five-star rating!
Words cannot describe how I feel about these people whom I have never met. They are certainly an inspiration to me at this time in my life.
I am in the process of retiring after working some 50+ years in various careers. I have been blessed enough to be provided for financially so that I can devote the rest of my life to helping other seniors who are less fortunate than I.
I have heard that somewhere that some scientists have done work with clonning, and having a strong belief in God never could quite get with this concept. Now, having witnessed these three, I'm having second thoughts! Just imagine if these three could be copied in numbers.....there is no end to the good that could be done throughout the world.
I am 66 years old, and when I grow up, I hope to be just like these three. The phrase that sticks with me is '...you can rust out quicker than you can wear out....' I LOVE IT, AND I LOVE ALL THREE OF THEM!!!!!!
by Valarie J Fane from Southfield, MI
November 11, 2009, 10:52 PM
YOU ARE INSPIRING
What an AWESOME group of people those Greeters in Maine. After seeing the show on TV, I have been deeply moved. So inspiring in so many ways. I wished I live closer to give everyone of those greeters a big hug myself and personally thank them for what they are doing. The are my new heroes! I will keep them in my prayers (and the troops of course) until everyone comes home. To the gentleman with prostrate cancer, please know that you are NOT alone. We are all connected. I wish I could visit him and let him know what an awesome human being he is. May God Bless all of you!
Roland Saavedra, MD
by Roland Saavedra, MD from Fitchburg, MA
November 11, 2009, 10:52 PM
YOU ARE INSPIRING
What an AWESOME group of people those Greeters in Maine. After seeing the show on TV, I have been deeply moved. So inspiring in so many ways. I wished I live closer to give everyone of those greeters a big hug myself and personally thank them for what they are doing. The are my new heroes! I will keep them in my prayers (and the troops of course) until everyone comes home. To the gentleman with prostrate cancer, please know that you are NOT alone. We are all connected. I wish I could visit him and let him know what an awesome human being he is. May God Bless all of you!
Roland Saavedra, MD
by Roland Saavedra, MD from Fitchburg, MA
November 11, 2009, 10:53 PM
Hi, just finished watching this moving film. Have read a lot about the Greeters at BIA many times in our paper but this really gave faces to it. Such an eye-opener for all of us. Would I get up at all hours to go and greet our fine soldiers? I might but would it last like these people. It takes some dedicated caring people to show us that maybe we should give it a try. Thanks for letting us know that there are some great souls out there.
God Bless Them All....
by Andrea from Aroostook Country, Maine
November 11, 2009, 10:53 PM
2 wonderful filmmakers.
3 beautiful volunteers.
900,000+ grateful troops.
What a perfect Veteran's Day present to America.
Thank you POV.
by Barbara from Huntington, NY
November 11, 2009, 10:54 PM
Hi, just finished watching this moving film. Have read a lot about the Greeters at BIA many times in our paper but this really gave faces to it. Such an eye-opener for all of us. Would I get up at all hours to go and greet our fine soldiers? I might but would it last like these people. It takes some dedicated caring people to show us that maybe we should give it a try. Thanks for letting us know that there are some great souls out there.
God Bless Them All....
by Andrea from Aroostook Country, Maine
November 11, 2009, 10:55 PM
Outstanding film making by any measure.
You can't script something like this, it just happens.What a kind, gentle collaboration between film makers and their subject.I don't know where to begin in praising this film.Just keep making them.God bless our Veterans.
by Thomas Robinson from Lancaster, Pa
November 11, 2009, 10:56 PM
Hi, just finished watching this moving film. Have read a lot about the Greeters at BIA many times in our paper but this really gave faces to it. Such an eye-opener for all of us. Would I get up at all hours to go and greet our fine soldiers? I might but would it last like these people. It takes some dedicated caring people to show us that maybe we should give it a try. Thanks for letting us know that there are some great souls out there.
God Bless Them All....
by Andy from Fort Fairfield, Maine
November 11, 2009, 10:57 PM
"The Way We Get By" was nothing less than brilliant —easily one of the most moving documentaries I've ever seen. Very, very powerful exploration of life, death, meaning. War, invisible in the background, heightens them all and brings the essentials of life sharply into focus. Made possible by the generous sharing (with soldiers, with the viewer) of the three volunteers and by the sensitivity and skill of the filmmakers. (Wonderful editing, too — the image justapositions really deepened the meanings.) And thank you to PBS for recognizing the quality of this program and making it available to us!
by Judy from Boston, MA
November 11, 2009, 10:57 PM
The most honest and heartbreaking film I have ever seen. I will recommend it to everyone I know. Thank you for making such a powerful and amazing documentary.
by Julie Pryor from Boston, MA
November 11, 2009, 10:58 PM
Thank you!!!
Thank you for documenting the extraordinary efforts of the greeters. I came through Maine returning from Iraq in late 2008 and they were there waiting. But not just the 3 of them but 50 or more. People from all walks of life there for us. The line of hands and hugs never seemed to stop. Watching it tonight took me back to the moment we returned. I recall the peace and joy of knowing we were back in the US. Thank you greeters. Chief Knight, you have not out lived your purpose. Keep taking care of the Troops.
LT Bruno R. USN
by Bruno from South Bend, IN
November 11, 2009, 10:58 PM
Heartwarming...proud to be an American
Such a moving story. I am humbled , inspired and thankful for all you have done and continue to do. We cannot all be where you are and do what you do , Please give these brave men and women hugs and handshakes from all of us. We do love and appreciate their service for our country and yours as well.God Bless and Keep you safe.
by Connie Sanford from Petal, Mississippi
November 11, 2009, 10:59 PM
I watched the program "The Way We Get By" this evening. It was touching, tasteful, and powerful. The light but sensitive touch by the film makers was wonderful. I hope to alert many of my friends about it. Thank you so much for that viewing experience. WB
by Willet Beavers from Venice, Florida
November 11, 2009, 11:02 PM
The Way We Get By
This is what documentary films are all about. Great job. I’d like to point out however, that the Maine Troop Greeters have been providing hugs, handshakes and words of encouragement not just in this decade but since Desert Storm, 1990-91.
One of my fondest homecoming memories is from this airport. Our flight out of Saudi Arabia through Germany had been long and tiring. It was a little after midnight when we landed at Bangor and we certainly weren’t expecting any kind of welcoming party.
But the greeters were there, pointing the way to coffee, hot chocolate and free phones. As I was waiting my turn to phone home, I couldn’t help but overhear one slightly excited, albeit confused PFC, obviously talking to his wife or girlfriend, “Baby we’re in some place called Bango. I don’t know where it is, but I’m comin’ home.”
by Ric from Hendersonville, TN
November 11, 2009, 11:03 PM
My Heart is Touched
This film was so heartfelt and touching -- these three people are saints.
Despite their own troubles, they give of themselves to these troops. I recommend this film to everyone. You will walk away with a different view of life.
by Barbara Ganey from Pine Bush, NY
November 11, 2009, 11:04 PM
This was a very inspirational and herat warming documentary. I don't live in Maine but i'm still very proud of these volunteers. As for Bill Knight he has every thing to live for. He has defininately touched my soul. I'll be volunteering as as soon as i can.
by shirley deleony pena from centralia, il
November 11, 2009, 11:05 PM
lasting impression
It was only a few years ago that I walked that very path in Bangor coming home from Iraq. I did think of it much then but after seeing this documentary, I realize how blessed and lucky that we have people like Joan, Jerry, and Bill to be there. Thank you to the filmmakers for seeing how important it was to produce this and doing a fantastic job.
by David from Daville, PA
November 11, 2009, 11:06 PM
It matters
They are saying it matters that you put your life on the line for others. They are saying it matters that someone acknowledges this. They are saying thank you. I am saying I would be proud to know all three of them.
by B. from Veazie, ME
November 11, 2009, 11:12 PM
Thank You from a soldier
I’ve often told the story of my units’ return from deployment in 2004. We landed in Bangor, Maine at 3:30am, tired and just ready to be home. I thought no one would be at the Bangor Airport at that our. But there they were all smiles and cell phones. All the lights were on and every shop was open, even though we were the only ones in the airport. I cannot express what it meant to me or the emotions that still bubble to the surface when I think of the Bangor Greeters and what they did for us. Thank you all, again. You are true patriots. And thank you PBS for making this documentary. I could not have told the story better myself.
by CW3 Tim Barfield from Jacksonville, Florida
November 11, 2009, 11:12 PM
WOW!!
I WAS RIVITED TO THE STORY AND WISH I STILL LIVED IN MAINE WITH REAL HONEST TO GOD AMERICANS. WAS BORN AND RAISED THERE BUT MOVED ON. THANK GOD FOR THE STORY I SHALL GO TO SLEEP TONIGHT THINKING WHAT I CAN DO. I AM ALONE AND 75, TOO
by SALLY BALL from ATLANTIC CITY, NJ
November 11, 2009, 11:14 PM
Mr. David & Ruth J. Moore
The Main Greeters were great with the returning troops. I think the troops were supperised and glad to see someone there to greet them when they first landed on U.S. soil. We loved the story and have 3 grandchildren in the armed forces, one has been to Iraq 3 times another has been to Afganstan once and will most likely return. The third was at Ft. Hood when the shooting took this past week (he is OK). Keep up the good work.
by David Moore from Tulsa, OK
November 11, 2009, 11:15 PM
Words are not enough.
My 18 year old son and I just finished this wonderful documentary. We were very moved by what we saw and heard. Bill, Joan, and Jerry you are amazing people. You truly are the "greatest generation" and a blessing to America. Words are not enough to express how proud I feel at this moment to have the opportunity to see a part of your lives and what a difference you make for our troops. I have another son who is in the Marine Corp. I feel comforted knowing that someone will be there for my son should he be deployed. To the film makers thank you for your insight and understanding the importance of making this film. Sincerely, Ronda and Aaron
by Ronda Jo from Weatherford, ok
November 11, 2009, 11:15 PM
Bill Knight
It made my heart split in half to see this wonderful American and hero think he was alone. I wish i could jump thru that TV and give him a big hug. So I say to you Bill "that you are most deffenitly not alone, and the work you have done and keep on doing not only touches and uplifts so many lives but inspires people to do more. Thank you so much for all that you have given in the past and present. You are a true American Hero."
THANK YOU SO MUCH.....and GOD BLESS
by Chris Gee from Islip Terrace, New York
November 11, 2009, 11:17 PM
Amazing
Wonderful and heartbreaking, funny and sad, this is a wonderful documentary. You must see it. These people are treasures.
by Paula from Dayton, TN
November 11, 2009, 11:22 PM
Blown Away...
Can't say much more without repeating the above... Outstanding film!
It moved me so much that I need to see it at least one more time since I missed parts because my eyes were so full of tears.
Never been in the military, but my heart aches so much for the families that are apart while loved ones are in harms way. To see the greetters give so much of themselves, inspires me to do something good for the returning vets.
My prayer is the current veterans be treated kinder and have a better life ahead of them than many of the Viet Nam Veterans. Just heard today that 25% of all homeless persons in the US are veterans. That's a national disgrace! Let's all do what we can to correct that, NOW, and make sure that the current vets do not fall into the same situation!
by Bob notavet from Tenafly, NJ
November 11, 2009, 11:25 PM
THANK YOU! So touching......
by Roberta from Sun City West, Arizona
November 11, 2009, 11:28 PM
Aron, Thank you for noticing the change in your mother's life due to her new experience of greeting the returning troops, This film was a wonderful way of highlighting the ties linking the young with the old. I was not only moved by the dedication of the senior greeters, but impressed with the quality of the service men and women. Keep up the good work. You and Gita must be loving people. Lynne
by Lynne Engstrom from White Stone, Virginia
November 11, 2009, 11:29 PM
PROUD AMERICAN!
THANK-YOU!! YOU GREAT AMERICANS!!
How sad that ALL Americans can not even fly their COLORS!!
JIM OF MACHIAS
MAINE!!
by Jim Appleman from Machias, MAINE!
November 11, 2009, 11:30 PM
Mom
I only caught the end of this documentary, but fell in love anyways. I was moved to the point of crying. I loved the way the seniors in this documentary felt needed and got out of the house to do something meaningful. Everybody want to feel needed.
by Angela from Carpentersville, IL
November 11, 2009, 11:33 PM
A wonderful, moving film which, judging from all these reactions, affected people deeply. Many thanks to all who made this possible!
by Linda and Paul Frank from New Preston, CT
November 11, 2009, 11:37 PM
Making A Difference
To Bill, Jerry, Joan, and all the Bangor greeters of our brave soldiers...THANK YOU!! Thank you, Aron and team, for making the film, and PBS for airing it on Veterans Day. My father was in WWII as were 6 uncles and one didn't make it home. I am grateful to all who served and continue to serve. And Bill Knight...you have found life in sharing yours with others...just as all of you making those treks to the airport daily. My 93-yr old mother and I were so touched by this wonderful documentary. God bless and keep you all in His care!
by Sandy Whitt from Roxboro, NC
November 11, 2009, 11:39 PM
WOW
I just watched the documentary on tv, and all I have to say it that it was amazing. It really touched me. It was moving to see how much people care about our troops and I feel compelled to do the same. Thank you Gita and Aaron for bringing this issue of compassion forth to all of us.
by Kelly from granger, in
November 11, 2009, 11:39 PM
Thank you!
I just watched this beautiful documentary on the PBS channel here in Wyoming. I'm originally from Winslow, Maine and I'm so proud to be a Mainer! In April 2006 I joined the United States Air Force (I'm now a Veteran) and I never had to deploy but my Husband has been on 3 deployments to Iraq! I know it definitely means a lot to the troops that when they land on American soil that there are people who care there to greet them! Thank you for sharing this wonderful story! God Bless!
by Ashley C from Cheyenne, WY
November 11, 2009, 11:41 PM
5 stars!
I forgot to give a rating...certainly a 5-star film!!
by Sandy Whitt from Roxboro, NC
November 11, 2009, 11:45 PM
The Way We Get By
There are so many lessons in this film: the rewards of a love of an animal, the loneliness of some Seniors, how chaotic a home can become when the wife passes, it's never too late to thank a WW11 veteran until it becomes too late. Please convey to Mrs Gaudet to go to a geriatric doctor. The first thing he will do is eliminate a lot of her meds. I just did this with my Mom. Our seniors are on too many meds and family members need to get involved. Thank you for a wonderful film. Claudia
by Claudia from islip, ny
November 11, 2009, 11:48 PM
Mr. Knight, Mr. Mundy and Mrs. Gaudet thank you for sharing your time and compassion for our troops. Aron Gaudet thank you for this moving documentary, I hope our elected officials and anyone who forgot why we are fighting on the other side of the world took the time to watch this movie. To all our armed forces men and woman past and present thank you for protecting us.
by Bob Skrutsky from STRATFORD, CONNECTICUT
November 11, 2009, 11:49 PM
Wish I was in Maine with You
Great documentary! Extraordinary giving of all of the volunteers, especially Bill, Joan, and Jerry. Thank you to all of the active military members and to the Veterans. I'd like to be a part of a greeters group here in Baltimore if you have any leads. Wish I could give Jerry a puppy, Joan all of her family under one roof, and Bill a companion. Even though I don't know any of you, this documentary has made me care for all of you and want to be like you. Thanks for the inspiration.
by Juanita Ignacio from Baltimore, Maryland
November 11, 2009, 11:51 PM
The Way We Get By
When my son called from Bangor Maine on his way home from Iraq and told us how they were greeted, I cried. I sent a letter to the editor of the local Bangor newspaper and hoped it would be read by those who greet our troops. It is SO meaningful, not just to the troops, but to we families as well. Thank you!
Thank you! Thank you!
by Jill Marten from Woodridge, IL
November 12, 2009, 12:00 AM
The Way We Get By
This IS America at its best! Thank you for your service to those who serve and to PBS for sharing this wonderful story.
by Billy Walker from Warner Robins, Georgia
November 12, 2009, 12:06 AM
Thank you
Just saw this film. I want to thank the Maine greeters for what they do. All of the boys and girls coming back need love and support, and it's awesome that there is someone to greet them as soon as they step into the country, because it's a reflection of the entire country, how much we love them and truly appreciate the sacrifices they have made by going out there and doing their job. We love you soldiers, past, present and future.
by Night from Chicago, IL
November 12, 2009, 12:07 AM
You make me Proud To Be An American !
I just finish watching the film.It's with tears in my eyes that I write this thank you.Thank God for people like Bill,Jerry,Joan and all the other Bangor greeters not mentioned. I wish I could be half the person they are.God bless you all.
by Danny from Canyon Lake, Texas
November 12, 2009, 12:10 AM
Worth The Wait
I've been waiting for this ever since I saw it reviewed in the NYT in July http://movies.nytimes.com/2009/07/17/movies/17way.html?scp=1&sq=The%20Way%20We%20Get%20By&st=cse and it does not disappoint. Amazing look at the people - not the politics - of bringing home the troops and not a few bittersweet truths about life. Heartbreaking but not sentimental. Congratulations to Aron Gaudet, Dan Ferrigan, Zack Martin, Gita Pullapilly and good going International Film Circuit for distribution. Without these people, we wouldn't get to know Bill, Joan and Jerry - part of the Greatest Generation - and we wouldn't see the need they fill, the work they do and the lives they illuminate.
by Karen Krizanovich from Hinckley, IL
November 12, 2009, 12:11 AM
This was so moving on so many levels. These people are strong, amazing and giving. Many thanks to them for what they do and for the film makers for bringing it to our attention. I am so gratful that I had an opportunity to see this. Thank you.
by Judy courtney from Northridge, CA
November 12, 2009, 12:27 AM
Elle Bahama
These are stunning people in their stalwartness. I am in awe and want to help them. At least to show my appreciation for their efforts. Thank you for this great exposition of the human spirit. It does make one realize that meaningful work comes at all times and even late in life. And that to do it is to be in a state of grace.
by Elle Bahama from New Orleans, LA
November 12, 2009, 12:30 AM
Serving Others
Superb ! Raw authenticity. Blessing to those who serve our country. And ongoing blessings to our troop greetings who con't. to pour courage (encourage) into those coming and going.
by Lori California
November 12, 2009, 12:32 AM
Emotional
It made me cry and if I was near an airport like that I would want to do the same thing. Keep it up. Thanks
by Susan Mulroy from oneonta, nY
November 12, 2009, 12:32 AM
Senior Citizen Retired Nurse
I was very moved by this film. The greeters were so real and I loved how they related to the troops. I could relate to the family and grandmother of the young lady who was a medical helicopter pilot when she left for duty. She was so brave and I hope for her and her family that she comes back well and healthy. Great film! I couldn't help but think about the troops who come back injured physically. I wondered if they are greeted too. The greeters do wonderful work.
by Clina Barrette
November 12, 2009, 12:35 AM
I've been thinking of my dad, a WWII veteran who liberated Buchenwald as a medic, all day long. He died 2 years ago. Watching those old guys greeting the soldiers coming home brought my dad back to me...they were all so great--solid and decent and real. Through my tears I thank you.
by pat handley from santa barbara, ca
November 12, 2009, 12:35 AM
The Way We Get By
These people are all heroes. Incredible and moving.
by Shirley from Prescott, AZ
November 12, 2009, 12:37 AM
You Guys Rock!!
Wow. That was very moving. I am generally anti-war, anti-military, anti-anti... but you guys got me. Showing soldiers with feelings who are calling their mothers and their wives, getting lumps in their throats, and those senior citizens understood them better than I. They went out and greeted them, knowing how much it meant. Wow. The redemption of the human spirit. It always prevails. I am uplifted and may never view another soldier the same way again. Beautiful.
Thank you for making such a film.
by Shannon Little Rock from Santa Barbara, California
November 12, 2009, 12:41 AM
May God Bless You All!!!
Just finished watching the movie..........Just so Thankful for the many people who go at all hours of the day to welcome our brave men and women home! May God Bless Our Brave Men & Women past & present protecting us and our great country!!!! Proud Army Wife~
by Wendy Yanez (Proud Army Wife) from Espanola, New Mexico
November 12, 2009, 12:44 AM
Remarkable people, but not completely uncommon I've found. Anyone anywhere can do small things to show our gratitude. If you know of a soldier in a combat area send us his/her APO, we, in Midland Texas will send him a Christmas gift box. Our non-profit website Christams for OUR Troops:
http://www.westtexastroopsalute.com/christmasfot.htm
by Wallace from Midland, Texas
November 12, 2009, 12:47 AM
What a great film, job well done. Unbelievable how dedicated Bill, Jerry and Joan are. The troups looked so happy to be welcomed by the greeters. This film should receive an award and everyone should see it. There are many of us who care about our soldiers. God Bless these dedicated people.
by Joe and Yvonne Dubois from Golden Valley, Arizona
November 12, 2009, 12:50 AM
Touched beyond expression...
I'm watching (This amazing film/documentary) as I begin my small expression of appreciation... I feel the appreciation towards these "Amazing Three." Appreciation to the film makers. And as always, appreciation to PBS. I'm humbled and touched beyond expression. It is my hope that everyone that has had to previledge to view this film will tell others... It's truely a story that should be valued and shared. God knows we take more than enough time to share the ordinary, rediculous and obsured... Lets take pride in this Amazing Film, and hopefully "Touch Others Beyond Expression...
by Mike / Michael / Miguel from Oceanside, Ca
November 12, 2009, 1:06 AM
The way we get by
If only every one in the red states and the blue states could spend 90 minutes watching this very special program. There is hope that some of the negative thinking might be purged from the minds of everyone.
by Lois Waldman from Cranford, NJ
November 12, 2009, 1:14 AM
Of course a very moving film, much like its counterpart "Sunset Story" (about what is essentially a retirement home for political activists). But the film-maker's claim that this film is somehow not political is duplicitous and completely refuted by the comments here, uniformly extolling the virtues of military service and the support of military service. Of course it's political. Greeting troops is political. Singing God Bless America is political. And sentimentalizing the violence of war strikes me as a particularly pernicious form of this.
by JADane from Los Angeles, CA
November 12, 2009, 1:19 AM
A friend who was a tailgunner in WWII said, "if you haven't done it lately, it doesn't count." These volunteers are examples for us to always keep doing service for others.
by Angelique
November 12, 2009, 1:24 AM
JrExec
Please let Bill Knight know that he is a pillar of this nation. He is loved & not alone. This documentary has changed my attitude & outlook. I will do more for my elders & patriots.
I can't thank you enough for this film.
Thank you Aaron.
by Karl Vincent from San francisco, Ca
November 12, 2009, 1:30 AM
Thank you so much for this. Very touching and inspiring.
by Nancy Cohen from Edmonds, , WA
November 12, 2009, 1:30 AM
Inspiration
I was recently asked to write a piece about what inspiration means to me and what makes me get by. This documentary has embodied everything that I believe inspiration actually means. These greeters, complete strangers to the troops, are what America stands for and should continue to promote. We are a nation of one and should continue to be united. The story of these people has truly inspired me to get out there and try my hardest to volunteer more than I already do. This is a documentary that makes you laugh, cry, and cheer all at the same time. My heart goes out to all of the men and women who have given their lives to protect our freedoms and my many thanks to people like Jerry, Joan, and Bill are the true meaning of what it is to be an American Hero! Thank you for everything that you do! More young people like myself need to look up to the older generation to remind us what it is that we should live for. Great documentary...keep up the great work.
by Marco Becerra Nunez from Federal Way , WA
November 12, 2009, 1:31 AM
One of the most moving stories I've seen. It puts a face and story on all of our veterans. The greeter's lives have benefitted as much as the troops coming home - a very satisfying experience.
by Johanna Howard from Kelowna, BC
November 12, 2009, 1:33 AM
I would like to write Bill, Joan, and Jerry, so that I can encourage them. Is there a way to get in touch with them? What they are doing is so meaningful and they are so valuable. They have so much to offer and are a huge blessing and example. Thank you Bill, Joan, and Jerry for your loving willingness to serve in this way. The value of what you are doing cannot be measured! Thank you for your example. Thank you for the value and meaning you bring to the lives of others. May God richly bless you and keep you.
by Margaret Flinn from Portland, OR
November 12, 2009, 1:34 AM
Spiritually Moving
This is public television at its finest. Somewhere between documentary and prayer.
Thanks POV.
by David Peters from Spring Valley, CA
November 12, 2009, 1:37 AM
Proud Mainer, Proud American
Loved it.
I grew up in Millinocket, Maine. When I moved out west near Seattle, my parents moved to Bangor. My father is a member of the Gideons International. And has a deep love for the troops that have been serving our country. He, too, has been greeting the troops with the Maine Troop Greeters now for over 5 years as well, so when I saw this movie I was touched.
This summer, my wife and 2 sons and I had the chance to go to the airport with my father to greet the troops. My sons were in awe and I was rather speechless to see the efforts happening there.
I am proud to say I've greeted the troops, even prouder of the folks that have been doing it for years now. I am proud to be from Maine. Even prouder to be an American.
Great movie!
by Jeff Lander from Silverdale, Washington
November 12, 2009, 1:38 AM
POV: The Way We Get By
I have just finished watching this show and am so completely moved by the humanity of these seniors. Such a very fitting show for this our Remembrance Day. I find that words fail me and my emotions are so high from seeing the impact that the greeting and handshake have on all these young men and women who are putting their lives on the line for our world. What a truly amazing show - thank you for bringing it into our home.
by Christine Ghose from Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
November 12, 2009, 1:39 AM
Old Vet
I am so proud of the way that most people are treating our service men and women and these people are the best of the best. Like Jerry and Bill, I too wish that I could go over and keep these young people here. I'd have to take my dog with me, though! Good luck and God Bless to the people of Bangor who are doing this solemn service for our boys and gals finding their way home.
by Lou Seymour from Joliet, Montana
November 12, 2009, 1:41 AM
As one of many Americans who do not in any way shape or form support the reasons for this "war" or war in general, I was extremely touched--moved to tears throughout--by the heartfelt, personal stories of these compassionate people who, even with all their aches and pains, lonliness, and other challenges, get up a 3 o'clock in the morning to welcome home and send off troops involved in this war. I was inspired by their work (a little says a LOT) and have been spurred to volunteer a little of my time to help make someone else's life a little happier for one moment. I wish I could just hang out with "Bill" all day. He was awesome.
by Michelle L from San Pedro, CA
November 12, 2009, 1:47 AM
From a Vet of 91'
This is a must for people to realize. My kids did not have the day off from school like others around the country. Montana is different. The schools there felt that it was important to keep the kids in school to learn what a Veteran is and what this day means for those with service. I love this. I was in the Gulf War in 91 and missed the return home parades that we heard were happening. Our deployment was extended because of what we did. This put us back into port nearly six months out from the major events happening. What we saw was one speed boat with a flag and a banner riding along our wake as we motored into the bay in San Diego. It was cool but we felt like we missed something. I have gone a lot of years harboring this missed feeling. Thank You for this film.
I felt like I was greeted as my eyes welled with this strange moisture. My JOB as a Vet is to say Thanks to all in Service past and present. I make a effort to look the person in the eye and tell them Thank You. I promise that if you do this, You will be amazed! This person across from you will humble right in front of you. Speaking from experience, I have been thanked maybe a handful of times. This still touches me today: being thanked. Try it and do this every chance you get! Please. People deserve this and this film needs to find a way into every home so that "People Never Forget" Thank You again
by Michael Domke from Whitefish, MT
November 12, 2009, 2:10 AM
Touched by 3 Angels.and 500,000
This film was a very touching and Spiritual documentary , today for the first time I had the pleasure of going to a ceremony to honor the Veterans in Cupertino,CA it was also a moving and spiritual gathering. My heart reached out to everyone of them ,the young ones and the senior ones.It was a moving experience and something I will never forget,for now on I will give out a welcome home handshake or a pat on the back when I see these men around town to let them know people in the U.S.A here are thinking about them They are also Angels .These three Angels should be awarded for their act of kindness, To be seniors and with some health issues they are getting out of bed to be troop greeters.I wish I could do something for the troops like that on this side. God Bless all of you.
I would also like to know how are they doing..Thank you all
by Cheryl from East Palo Alto, CA
November 12, 2009, 2:17 AM
thank you so much
for showing this film. i was so moved by it and shed tears from beginning to end. what a heart-wrenching look into the lives of three people that have touched nearly a million returning soldiers. fantastic.
by amber phillips from Broken Arrow, ok
November 12, 2009, 2:30 AM
A TRUE AMERICAN ICON
Thank you For we the people are gratfull for what you have done to inspire us as a nation that the old ways are still there from a generation that gave every thing. TEDDY SAID ON 12/07/41 WE WILL NEVER FORGET. And we THANK YOU ALL for your service and our FREEDOM. THE GRETERS A JOB WELL DONE.
by David J Ward from Vancouver, Wa
November 12, 2009, 2:50 AM
A TRUE AMERICAN ICON
Thank you For we the people are gratfull for what you have done to inspire us as a nation that the old ways are still there from a generation that gave every thing. TEDDY SAID ON 12/07/41 WE WILL NEVER FORGET. And we THANK YOU ALL for your service and our FREEDOM. THE GRETERS A JOB WELL DONE.
by David J Ward from Vancouver, Wa
November 12, 2009, 2:52 AM
True Americans...
I myself found this film to be a great inside look at the dedication and pride,these wonderful people have instilled in themselves. To come greet us as we walk off that plane and step foot on American soil.I have shaken Both Bill and Jerry's hands as ive walked off that plane more than once, and im proud to have met them both even as brief as it may have been.I take my hat off to all off the Bangor greeters thank you for all you do.
by Alex Chierici from Fresno, CA
November 12, 2009, 5:49 AM
Mr
This is America at its best and reinforces that some of our heros' are those who man the home-front. God bless them.
by Paul Hartwigsen from Kalamazoo, Michigan
November 12, 2009, 6:30 AM
Thank you
This film truly shows how kindness can boost another person. Bill, Jerry, & Joan, thank you for letting us get a glimpse of your lives & thank you for supporting our country's soldiers. I am an Army wife & my husband has been through Bangor several times to and from deployments. What you do at Bangor means a lot not only to the soldiers, but to all of the military families who have loved ones traveling overseas. You have touched the hearts of 900,000 soldiers & their families. Thank you for your selfless service both in the military & in volunteering as Bangor Greeters. Aron & Gita, thank you for creating this beautiful film. Keep up the great work!
by Amy from West Point, NY
November 12, 2009, 6:51 AM
It was wonderful to see these senior citizens doing thier greetings and send-offs at all hours of the day and night with compassion and grace. Each individual story zeroed in on elderly issues and how each one coped with their lives and challenges but still found time to reach out to our service people.
by Eileen Anders from East Northport, New York
November 12, 2009, 7:21 AM
A challenge to Bangor
At a time when there is still so much emphasis in our society on the shallow and empty, it is inspiring to see such incredible commitment, selflesslessness and love of fellow mankind. To think of the many years they have been doing this and the more than 900,000 lives they've greeted and sent off -- whomever says one person can't make a difference needs to see this movie. Lastly, I challenge the people of Bangor to make certain amazing people such as these three -- and the many others in situations similar to them (without a spouse, children or loved one to share their daily lives with) -- never feel sad or lonely again.
by Benson from La Porte, Indiana
November 12, 2009, 7:29 AM
activities director at an assisted living home
Extremely moving... We need to see more "good news" like this on T.V.
Thank you to the "troop greeters" and all the men and women who are serving for us. We can all take a lesson from these folks: Weather your for or against the war,our troops need our support. And Bill, you hang in there; because you'll never know just how much your loved and valued.
by Annette McQueen from Clare, MI
November 12, 2009, 7:44 AM
What a gift...
Thank you for the gift that is "The Way We Get By". I laughed, cried and loved it. And I woke up thinking about it. Really beautiful job - and thanks to the greeters who make the troops feel special.
I want to know what happened to Amy and Troy! Follow up?
Thanks again!
by Jenny Costantino from Atlanta, GA
November 12, 2009, 7:55 AM
Moving and profound
I laid in bed sobbing my eyes out watching these wonderful people -greeters and soldiers- they were tears of joy, sadness and gratitude. Young people everywhere should watch this film to be inspired not to make their lives all about me,me, me but all about others.
by Jane Vronch from Loves Park, IL
November 12, 2009, 8:22 AM
really moved
What a beautiful portrayal of both the good work of the Troop Greeters, as well as the sadness and challenges of their day to day lives. Having grown up in the Bangor area, I saw people and places that I know, and it reminds me how good and resilient the people of Maine are. Although not featured, I want to recognize the efforts of one of the other troop greeters who I saw in the group, Kay Liebowitz; a lovely lady who has always given so much of herself to others. You go, Kay!
by Deirdre from queensbury, ny
November 12, 2009, 8:25 AM
customer service rep
What a great film! You have captured true American Patriotism through these wonderful senior citizins. I wish our young children up and coming in our elementary school systems had the opportunity to watch this film and realize what it really stands for to love this country and not take their freedom for granted.. GOD BLESS THESE PEOPLE . and thank you for bringing this film to us.
by shirley tomesco from garfield, new jersey
November 12, 2009, 8:34 AM
The Way We Get By
I loved this documentary. Why can't other tv be more like this and show the good things that go on in this world. It was so inspirational to me to see these wonderful elderly people making a difference in their community and world. You could see how much the soldiers who were greeted and sent off by them appreciated what these people were doing. I can't wait to watch it again. I'm so glad Mrs. Gaudet's son made this film. He must be so proud of his mother and her friends. I hope their grandchildren/niece/nephew are safe and sound. Please do a follow up film for us.
by Cherie Loso from West Rutland, Vermont
November 12, 2009, 8:46 AM
Incredibly rich with emotion
From beginning to end the young director was masterful in drawing us into the lives of the three individuals featured. The intimate details of their lives: their losses, current illnesses, end of life focus, and loneliness was never the dominate theme. Instead, showing them rise at all ungodly hours of the night with a strong purpose to serve was so inspirational. My 21 year old son and I watched it together and the message will stay with us for many years to come. Thank you Troop Greeters.
by G. Marks from Escondido, CA
November 12, 2009, 8:51 AM
The Way We Get By
The Greatest Generation....they keep on giving. A Very Moving Film!
by Bob VanGorden from Concord, NC
November 12, 2009, 8:53 AM
Well Done, Inspiring
My wife and I were inspired by this documentary. So nice to have a special that goes beyond the "fluff" warm and fuzzy snigglets that the mainstream networks throw on the tube in 2 minute chunks every so often. Thanks very much for making this piece and for airing it. Cheers!
by Mike C from Va Beach, VA
November 12, 2009, 8:55 AM
Wonderful, loving and very heartwarming
After attending our local Veteran's Day Parade in memory of my father and POW uncle I was thrilled to watch The Way We Get By. I laughed, I cheered and cried.
I can't wait to watch the update. Good Work!
Virginia
by Virginia from San Diego, CA
November 12, 2009, 9:01 AM
I knew I would be in tears before this ever came on. Kudo's to all of you for what you do. Each of those young men reminded me of my son and his battle buddy and I am so appreciative that you are there to see them off and welcome them home. Bill - you most certainly do have a purpose on this planet. You will all be richly rewarded in heaven. God Bless you all in Bangor Maine. Thank you for sharing with all of us. We all need to pay it forward
by Lisa Burchett from Worthington, OH
November 12, 2009, 9:03 AM
The Way We Get By
What a wonderful story. Three of the nicest people I have read about in a very long time. Truly an inspiration to all of us. God Bless Them.
Thanks to PBS for airing quality shows in these times when nothing is worth watching. Period!!
by Margie from Kennett Square, Pa
November 12, 2009, 9:10 AM
Puts Things in Persepctive
My reaction? Wow. What a great documentary. After viewing it, I just wanted to call every one up I knew and tell them how much they mean to me. I looked at my girlfriend while she was sleeping and wanted to wake her up and kiss her. This movie really put things in perspective and makes me feel grateful for what I do have. To the filmmakers, fantastic job. I am going to post a link to this for all to see.
Thank you for the story.
by Joe from Alexandria, Kentucky
November 12, 2009, 9:11 AM
Inspirational
I watched last night on Veterans Day, after my thoughts had been with our soliders, past and present, all day long. Now I have 3 more heros. I think that this group should be recognized by President Obama. Rarely do you get to see such selflessness. This film captures the ultimate definition of patriotism.
by Jeanne Tucker from Alexander City, AL
November 12, 2009, 9:14 AM
Heartwarming, Sad, and Enlightening
Thank you so much for this wonderful documentary. I learned so much about not only the importance of patriotism at home, what others are doing to show their patriotism, and about the challenges many if the elderly face. It helped me so much gain insight to my father's challenges of being alone and growing older. I want to watch this again and will recommend it to everyone I know. This is quality television at it's best.
by Julie Curnick from Roswell, GA
November 12, 2009, 9:18 AM
Disabled VET
I have seen many documentaries over the years, and I can truly say, none have ever touched me the way this one did,. What the Troops deal with on a daily basis is incredible to say the least, but to be greeted by these amazing "Angels" both on their departure and return makes me speechless. God holds a special place for people of this caliber, your inspiration and acts of kindness are deeply and truly felt and goes so far beyond any words can play out. I need to get to Bangor and meet them all. GOD BLESS YOU ALL and Thank you.
by Keith D from Albany, NY
November 12, 2009, 9:19 AM
Very moving documentary
I was so moved by this documentary, what these people are doing, getting up in the middle of the night to welcome these Marines home is so very touching. Mr. Gaudet a big heartfelt cheers to you for making this documentary.
I also like how you told Bill, Joan and Jerry's life story as well. I have posted this site to a lot of social networking sites, this is something that everyone needs to see, for or against the war. Very touching great job!
by Lisa Young from Cloverdale, Ohio
November 12, 2009, 9:22 AM
My family of four--lifelong Mainers, who've been in and out of the Bangor International Airport countless times, and seen the amazing work these volunteers do first-hand--relocated to Texas last year. It wasn't easy, and so we were delighted to see this film last night. My husband, two nearly-grown sons and I sat and smiled through our tears, occasionally laughing out loud...it was SO good to hear some down-to-earth Yankees tell it straight. Here are your true "patriots." Bill, Joan and Jerry are exceptional people, but I can say with certainty that they're fairly typical Mainers. Thanks so much for bringing them the attention they so richly deserve.
by Robyn from Houston, TX
November 12, 2009, 9:23 AM
Finally!
Awesome, Wonderful and Real!! Thank you so much for doing this story about real people and their lives! God bless our service men and women, I wish we had a place were we could do the same, greeting the young men and women that give up so much to keep our country and our people safe from harm!
God bless you all!!
by David K. Bennett from Joplin, Missouri
November 12, 2009, 10:02 AM
Awesome!!
I watched this on Veteran's Day and it was the perfect way to celebrate the sacrifice made not only by the men and women of the military but also these wonderful men and women who come out at all hours of the day and night to show their support for the troops.
by Betsy from Bath, Maine
November 12, 2009, 10:25 AM
A wonderfully subtle yet complex film about our fellow Americans
I truly enjoyed this film. This film shows that real people's stories are infinitely more interesting and compelling than anything created in fiction. Subtly touching on issues like aging, the war, companionship, medicine, service, and community this film gives viewers glimpses of what it is to be human and an American.
by Jon Ralston from Tucson, AZ
November 12, 2009, 10:41 AM
Touching
This was a solid reminder that the world isn't all crime and horror. Amidst the horror of war, there are people reaching out to make a difference. We really don't do enough for our veterans, and this film serves as a reminder that amoung these men and women are sons, daughters, husbands and fathers. The Maine Troop Greeters never loose site of their humanity and their service to our country. I am humbled by their service.
I was also, so very touched by the individual stories of the greeters profiled. I am left wondering and hoping if Bill is doing a little better now. And, if Jerry's heart is healing after the loss of Mr. Flannagan - and if the helicopter pilot is still safe. God bless the group - and thank you for serving us all.
by Carla from San Bruno, California
November 12, 2009, 10:44 AM
All I can say is, the day after watching it, I'm still crying when trying to talk about this moving inspirational documentary to family and friends. I was always proud to be a Mainer but more so now. Bill, Jerry and Joan are the most perfect, selfless, compassionate trio demonstrating a pure and heartfelt commitment to a cause near and dear to not only them but all American's. Thank you Aron Gaudet for a beautiful piece of work!!! And yes, I got teary-eyed again while writing this.
by Cathy from Saco, ME
November 12, 2009, 10:48 AM
Wonderful
A truly touching movie. God Bless The USA and our Seniors.
by Renee Petty from Jacksonville, Florida
November 12, 2009, 10:52 AM
They are real Americans
I was doing a project in Maine and commuted to Bangor every other week for 2 years. During this time, I had the privilege to meet these people and to see first hand their dedication and commitment to our returning veterans. I am glad someone has highlighted what these great Americans are doing and the example they are to all of us.
I had only met these individuals in the airport environment, it was truly touching to get glimpse of the personal side of each of these individuals and I now have even more admiration for each of them
by Robert Swann from Powell, OH
November 12, 2009, 10:59 AM
What Great Role Models
I stumbled across The Way We Get By about 1/2 way through the program and I was spell-bound. This was the best, most imspirational, and unexpected documentary I've ever seen. I hope that I will be able to view the entire program, soon. Jerry, Joan, and Bill, you are supurb role models and your examples will be with me for a long, long time. Thank you for what you do and who you are.
by Bob Moran from Noblesville, IN
November 12, 2009, 11:05 AM
the way we get by
How wonderful that so many Americans get to see what is happening in Bangor, Me. This is truly an act of love and love of country be seniors who are making a difference in so many lives, including their own. Please show this again and again and maybe, just maybe, more Americans will see what it means to be an American. Please do a follow up soon- the grandchildren, the coin from the private, the woman with the dog, etc. Where can I send money to help defray the cost of the "treats"? God has taken care of these greeters who serve a greater good. Please let them all know that all Americans thank them for what they do.
by jeanne schlichting from wewahitchka, florida
November 12, 2009, 11:07 AM
MOVING!! THANK YOU!!!
I watch the movie last night and some 10 hours later I still can't describe how it's moved me. Thank you to the Film makers and everyone involved in getting this story told. God Bless all are veteran's. I love you Dad!!
by John Conrad from Chandler, AZ
November 12, 2009, 11:09 AM
The Way We Get By
I was fortunate to have caught this show last eve. on Veteran's Day which made this story even more moving. The stories of Bill, Jerry and Joan were amazing and very moving. This should be shown in High School classes all over this country to our children. It serves as a great reminder of what each of us can do to make a difference. How service to your community can make an impact. I can only guess at how those servicemen and women coming off those planes felt to have those folks there to greet them no matter what the time and the special bond that the vets felt towards them. I had the privilege of working here in my home town at the Veteran's Museum with veterans from WWII, Korea and Vietnam it was absolutely amazing to talk with the Veterans hear them share their stories with children who were touring the Museum. It is because of these servicemen and women that we have the freedoms we do. God Bless them and the wonderful ppl of Bangor Maine for being there to let them know we care.
by Deb from madison, wi
November 12, 2009, 11:09 AM
How I get by
Shows like this make me proud. Whether or not you support our government's wars, it's so important to support our soldiers: to thank them for their service, to thank their families for their sacrifice.
by Dawn T. from Tempe, AZ
November 12, 2009, 11:13 AM
Five stars.
by Dawn T.
November 12, 2009, 11:16 AM
Bill Knight Fan Club
Aron and Gita did such a good job on this. Bill reaches out for a exchange of comfort as they all do.
The support is heartfelt and deeply appreciated. I'm hoping things go better for Bill and his farm. It's interesting to see that what he needs is us and all we need is him. Coming home to a empty house is a dismal and lonely place to be for just about anyone. I'm a big fan of Bill and the rest of the greeters. Let's try to make Bill's life a little better. Nobody wants to be alone.
by Dave from Pasadena , Ca
November 12, 2009, 12:00 PM
THE BEST OF US
This is an incredible documentary......this really is MUST SEE TV! If there were more programs of this kind on commercial television perhaps all the craziness in our country would cease and that energy placed in more constructive ways. What wonderful citizens they are!
by Regina Hollrah from St. Charles, Missouri
November 12, 2009, 12:16 PM
Incredible. I watched it last evening and thought it was one of the best films I had ever seen. I would recommend this to everybody to see. It shows the heart of the past generations.
by Carl Sad from Cooperstown, ND
November 12, 2009, 12:27 PM
Fantastic & Heartwretching!
Thank you for filming these wonderful people... I feel as though it lit a fire under me. I cannot think of a situation where watching this would not awaken the spirit in anyones soul! Thank you!!
by Christine from Newburyport, Ma
November 12, 2009, 12:57 PM
The way we get by
Margaret from OR wrote....
I would like to write Bill, Joan, and Jerry, so that I can encourage them. Is there a way to get in touch with them? What they are doing is so meaningful and they are so valuable. They have so much to offer and are a huge blessing and example. Thank you Bill, Joan, and Jerry for your loving willingness to serve in this way. The value of what you are doing cannot be measured! Thank you for your example. Thank you for the value and meaning you bring to the lives of others. May God richly bless you and keep you.
I cannot agree more! I would love to contact all 3 especially Mr. Knight, to tell him first, he is SUCH an amazing human being and he has not outlived his usefullness. What he does for these soldiers returning home goes WAY beyond what he can Imagine! I just want to Hug the man and tell him he is making a differnce in this world and he is still here on this earth for that reason. And we need more Bill Knights in the world. I would love to fly to Bangor and spend a day with the 3 of them.....
I would love to contact them to just send the three of them a card at holidays or just a thank you card at various times of the year.
And POV Thank You, what a moving tribute to the 3 and all the soldiers returning.
by Mitchell S. from Lancaster, PA
November 12, 2009, 1:01 PM
It was so good
I fell in love with these people especially Bill. I was so moved that I cried. As a young person I think its good to see people making a difference not because they have to but because they can.
by Gillian from Redding, CA
November 12, 2009, 1:14 PM
My Endeavor
These two most powerful words that Bill Knight spoke from this documentary continue to play over in my mind after watching this film. I looked it up in the dictionary this morning, and found that the meaning is what all of these amazing people have found a way to do with their lives;to strive to achieve or reach by the exertion of an effort. Can we collectively find a way within ourselves to execute this most simply life goal to everyone we know in our inner circle, or to those who simply need only a single hope that such a life line to the inner circle exists and they are welcomed. How more enriched could all of our lives be because of it. It makes us all re-evaluate the degree of our own endeavor in life...is there more that I can do to make a difference?
This film has given this day much more meaning to me in remembering Veterans Day. To those brave men and women who have sacrificed their lives, to those who continue to serve and protect the freedoms we all enjoy, and to those heros like Joan, Bill, and Jerry whose endeavor is to make a difference in the lives of others.
Thank you and God Bless all of you for your endeavors.
by David Duffy from Las Vegas, NV
November 12, 2009, 1:21 PM
I want to thank the film makers for this film, and PBS for bringing it into my home. And the heros young and old in this beautiful story.
Bill said his life didn't mean that much to him, but that if he could make it mean something to someone else, that would be something. Well Bill, it means a whole lot to a lot of people, clearly. And you can add one more seeming stranger to the list! Hah! Who says we are all seperate and alone in this life? Thank you thank you thank you all.
by Jessica
November 12, 2009, 1:29 PM
Outstanding
I think I cried throughout this amazing documentary. First because of the genuine and heartfelt support these people give our troops, and then for the individual spiritual, emotional, and physical issues explored among these individuals. The reflections on life and death were stirring. We need to know more about people like this who do great things but with little recognition. I suspect that the 900,000 and counting soldiers who have been welcomed and cheered for by these people will never forget them...and nor should we. God bless them all.
by Victoria from Houston, TX
November 12, 2009, 1:43 PM
awesome
this show shows the true american spirit, helping others and letting the troops know that we care, god bless our troops.
by pete from sarasota , fl
November 12, 2009, 1:46 PM
beautiful & sad`
It was a beautiful story, but how can the Armed Forces do more to help the veterans who clearly are in need of some support systems. Particularly, Bill who was clearly overwhelmed at the farmhouse following the death of his wife. To see his house in such disarry was heartbreaking. No veteran should be left to live is such terrible conditions. There must be some NAVY veteran outreach support?
by Val from Buffalo, NY
November 12, 2009, 1:46 PM
Can we help at all
Hello:
It's Sunday 11 November 09, and there's a program running between 9-10pm.
There's this brilliant older guy who's been greeting the returning soldiers (3 brilliant stars in fact)
.... he was talking about cancer and things around dying....
It was just so so so devastating how he cried about not having anybody or
anything left, nobody to share his sadness ...
How can I help ? Can we write letters, etc. ? To him ?
Loved this program and it's ultra excellent content and coverage of the
return of the soldiers, and these darling people always ready to bring them
home, and LOVE them. Now, they need LOVE too.
Heart breaking.
Didn't anybody on the camera want to wrap their arms around them all?
What a superb sacrifice they offer to get up and out to greet the oh so brave returning soldiers.
Thanks for making and delivering this to us.
by Loretta from Qualicum, BC, British Columbia, Canada
November 12, 2009, 2:05 PM
The Way We Get By
The Way We Get By is a quietly paced documentary that initially appears to tell a simple story of elderly volunteers simply shaking the hands, with a brief hello and the offer of a cellphone to returning servicemen and women.
However, it soon becomes apparent that the filmmakers have created a film with so many important themes that the viewer continues to ponder the intricacies of the film long after the credits have rolled. More than anything the theme that hits deepest is the intense loneliness of the elderly despite the fact that there may be a large extended families supporting them. The theme of volunteerism as being of benefit to both the giver and the recipient is palpable. During the scenes of returning soldiers being greeted by the volunteers, the filmmakers artfully managed to capture the emotion of their subjects even though few words are exchanged. However, what is so captivating is that the viewer only gets to see that brief interaction, stranger to stranger within the greater community, that brief moment of gratitude and kindness. And how these brief interactions in life can lift the spirits of those around us. Finally one leaves with the sense that as much as one communicates on this superficial but nonetheless meaningful level, the deep communication that transcends loneliness is hard to come by.
This work is truly an American Classic and provides enough material for much deeper study, certainly more than the few observations that are mentioned in this review.
by Cindy Yeoman from Westlake Village, CA
November 12, 2009, 2:06 PM
This is The Way We Get By
The Way We Get By is to "reach out and touch someone".
All else is ...sound and fury, signifying nothing...
As we can see from this documentary, seniors still have much to share with the rest of us; and it is truly noble that the Maine Troop Greeters have chosen to give the gift of themselves back to their community and their nation, which then touches the world. What shining examples they all are. Bravo!!!
by Cynthia Harnist from Fort Lauderdale, Florida
November 12, 2009, 2:11 PM
BEEN THERE
On my way to my 3rd year-long tour in Iraq in OCT 2007, the plane carrying my unit stopped at the Bangor Airport for refueling/restocking before crossing the Atlantic Ocean. I was surprised and amazed by the number of people lining the hallway as we deboarded the plane. I don't specifically remember the 3 fine people highlighted in this show, but I can tell you this: it's about time some of our supporters got some great recognition! THANK YOU, MAINE TROOP GREETERS, & KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!!!!
by SGT Walker from Fort Campbell, KY
November 12, 2009, 2:37 PM
Poignant
I was so touched by this show, and the documentary that followed about the tattoo shop at Ft. Hood where so many young soldiers go before and after their tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. Each was magnificent in its own right and the two together were profoundly poignant. Thank you, PBS, for showing such fine work.
by Nancy Lemke from Bonita, CA
November 12, 2009, 3:49 PM
The way we get by
Magnificent work done by each and every person involved: First of all our troops, secondly the "greeters" thirdly the productors. They are all exceptional people and have my utmost respect. A special recognition to Mr. Knight for looking so smart in his uniform and for his fantastic singing. Bless each and every "greeter". What an inspiration.
by jeanette sproul from Middlesex, NJ
November 12, 2009, 3:49 PM
Wonderful
I stumbled across this film last night. I am so glad I did. I can't remember the last time a film touched me the way this film did. On the surface, I have nothing in common with Joan, Bill, and Jerry. Yet, by the time the film was over, I felt like we were kindred spirits. This film is inspiring and beautiful. It never slaps you in the face with sentimentality. It doesn’t waste your time with trite platitudes. It just delivers a look at humanity: losing yourself and finding your way back again.
by Amanda
November 12, 2009, 4:01 PM
To Light A Candle
This documentary is so powerful in its down to earth simplicity with regard to an overwhelming mission of human kindness. Throughout watching this, I kept thinking of the rabbinical saying, "It is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness." These wonderful dedicated senior citizens have lit over 900,000 candles. God bless you all.
by Mary Lou W. Anderson from Rochester, New York
November 12, 2009, 4:42 PM
So Very Touching
I was so touched by what these wonderful seniors are doing. I found myself crying through most of this film. It has made me realize that they truly are "the greatest generation!" Listening to their stories was so moving. I hope the people of Bangor realize what gems they have living there. Take care of those seniors!
by Nancy from White Bear Lake, Minnesota
November 12, 2009, 4:47 PM
AIRPORT ANGELS
THANK YOU MAINE TROOP GREETERS. MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN DEPLOYED A FEW TIMES SINCE 9/11 AND HE HAS TOLD ME ABOUT THESE WONDERFUL FOLKS AT THE BANGOR AIRPORT AND NOW TO SEE THE FILM, WELL, I COULDN'T STOP THE TEARS. TRULY TOUCHED MY HEART. HE HASN'T FORGOTTEN YOUR KINDESS. YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING SPECIAL THAT HAS DEEP MEANING TO THESE FINE SOLDIERS...THANK YOU SO MUCH! YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION! GOD BLESS!
by J. Lisk from Saint Charles, MO
November 12, 2009, 6:47 PM
Wow Took my Breath Away
Wow What a powerful film Wow, I was so moved by bill, and Joan Jerrys Story, I could not stop crying. I wish i had a family that was so devoted to one other. It was so moving that i wanted to come and help bill and jerry. It remineded me of my grandfathers brother who was a bombader during WW11. It touch my heart so much that i wanted to be there for emoitional surport for the whole cast.Bill realy got to me he remiend me so much of James w Dedrick of the 8th Airforce.He was a great man. And when i lost my grandfather i became ward of the court until I Inlisted in the army I felt thta they were my family and they will always be family to me even, through i may not know them they all are brothers and sisters. Dont worrie Joan she will come home ok...I just got a good feeling she ll be fine.Jerry and Bill if you ever run out of help let know and Ill be there for ya.these's are the kind of storys people need to see and what great work you guys due for vets wow. Take Bill.... All my best Cpl Dedrick US Army Reseve.
by Darren Dedrick US Army Vetrean from San Francisco , Ca
November 12, 2009, 6:50 PM
I watched the video Nov 11 and thank you for the opportunity of seeing a wonderful occurance of caring, love and pride for other individuals. It brought tears to my eyes and a warm feeling in my heart, there are extra
ordinary good gestures happening in our country.This is an example for all to emulate. I applaud the couple who made the video.
by Phyllis Petersen from Billings, Montana
November 12, 2009, 6:57 PM
Amazing Film
You cannot help but be moved by this film. Thank you for bringing this story to us.
by Dan from Standish, ME
November 12, 2009, 7:14 PM
Beautiful and rich with humanity!
I was caught off guard by how moving, insightful and engaging this film is and was glued to the TV from beginning to end. Much more than a portrait of people doing a good deed, it's also a poignant character study that elegantly touches on themes of loneliness, service, aging, mortality and family. Thank you filmmakers for letting us into the lives of our troops, veterans, volunteers and older Americans.
by Matthew from Los Angeles, CA
November 12, 2009, 7:21 PM
The Way We Get By.
WOW!!!!!!! This is one of the best POV's, rated in the top ten, that I have seen. We still have good Americans, this story shows it. These wonderful, gracious, older Americans have shown so much of what the Lord intended us to be to our fellow man. GOD BLESS ALL OF THEM, and may He, in his mercy, bless them abundantly so they may continue their journey which is to see the last soldier coming home from the war, which will mean.......the war is OVER. Good job, and well done my friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by Jane from Marne,, Iowa
November 12, 2009, 7:57 PM
I loved this film. Loved the parallels between the greeters and the military folks. A great balance.
by rebecca
November 12, 2009, 8:03 PM
This film goes to the emotional core; I wanted to get in my car, drive to Bangor with a new puppy for Jerry, drop off a hospital bed for Joan to sleep in, and help Bill clean up the farmhouse so he could move back in. Amazing people setting an example for us all!
by Marcia from Wyman Township, Maine
November 12, 2009, 8:48 PM
Simple gifts
The lesson I learned from watching this moving documentary is that anyone, everyone is capable of doing something meaningful and special with simple gifts. A handshake, a smile, a hug, simple and powerful words like "thank you" and "welcome home."
Thank you to all who made this film. If I could I'd shake your hand, smile and say thank you.
by Ed Bryan from Portland, Maine
November 12, 2009, 8:54 PM
Overwhelming
One of the most amazing films I've ever seen. I loved it, but I had to turn it off after 1:15. I just couldn't watch any more. Absolutely tore me apart.
by Jack from Harrisburg, PA
November 12, 2009, 9:42 PM
Mrs. Sunny
I served from 1996-2000. I was also deployed to Hungary in support of Operation Joint Forge and I flew through Bangor, Maine. In 1999, our mission was mundane, very different than today.
What I will say, is I recall my return trip, to Fort Riley, KS. I was single, no one to greet me. I did have a peer officer that was there, and when I saw her I cried like a baby. I can't tell you what it means to have someone there to greet you after you've been abroad for so long.
I am so inspired and so thankful for these Senior Citizens, veterans and family members. GOD BLESS YOU. Bill in particular made me cry so hard. How many Veterans have we left behind? What should we do and what do we owe them for their personal sacrifices?
by Wendy Kinney from Rogers, Minnesota
November 12, 2009, 10:37 PM
Just me.
Heard Dr. Laura on her radio show say that this was an excellent show. She was right. It was inspiring to meet these fine Americans...Bill, Jerry and Joan.
I cried many times throughout the broadcast but not exactly tears of sadness except when Jerry had to had to say goodbye to his dog. That got me good.
I feel such admiration for these three people and for what they have done and continue to do. It just touched me on so many levels. Thought about the program many times today as did my husband. Beautifully filmed, very tender.
Wish all our troops could feel this appreciated by those of us who are fortunate enough to be at home while they do the big work.
With a grateful heart to our military men, woman and service dogs and to the people who make them know they are special. We appreciate your sacrifices.
Kristi Young-Wallace
by Kristi Young-Wallace from Danville, California
November 12, 2009, 11:14 PM
Heros from Maine
After growing up during the 60's/70's to remember the newscasts of the horrendous treatment of the returning Vietnam vets, these wonderful inspiring retirees from Maine show all Americans what it is to be a true American and honor those who serve our country. Giving of themselves with no thought of anything in return shows such a love of their fellow man. Most of all, they have an uncanny ability to keep the spirit of life's value alive, no matter what obstacles they face, and they do not show the soldiers their needs, they only give appreciation and love. My heart just broke to hear Bill state that there is no reason for his life~he needs assistance to cope with his day to day existence, yet he gives so fully of himself and fills such a void just by being at the airport to great these soldiers with heartfelt thanks, day after day. This is his legacy and will be his life's meaning. Joan gives while she loses, with an acceptance that shows such grace. I will pray for her grandchildren. Jerry needs to stay healthy for the soldiers. His love of animals, even though he's lost his companion, will bring him renewed spirit and a new friend by taking that one day very soon to go to the pound. I am sure he will fall in love again, it is also his spirit to persevere. This has inspired me to plan a trip to Bangor, Maine. I hope I have the opportunity to meet and thank them.
by Christine Sullivan from Braintree , MA
November 12, 2009, 11:23 PM
homemaker
Will it air again? I hate that I missed it...
by Abby from Levelland, TX
November 13, 2009, 12:02 AM
The Way We Get By.
It made me laugh and made me cry. All those young men and women are just so beautiful! What beautiful faces!!! It would be so sad to know if one of them died or got wounded there.
by Colombe Loef from Lewiston, Maine
November 13, 2009, 10:14 AM
homemaker
As like everyone else I cried .. would like to know were I can see the entire filming,, thank you very much for what you people do,, It means so much to the guys that have given themselves ,, God Bless U all, and I Thank God I can still say God in a email,,,
by susanmarino from mt carmel , penna 17851
November 13, 2009, 11:32 AM
This was both inspiring and heart warming to see seniors volunteering their time even with all their own health problems. I'm recently unemployed and looking for volunteer opportunities and something like this only fuels my desire even more. How wonderful it must be for our returning military men and women to be welcomed back to their country, family and friends as soon as they set foot on US soil. I only wish my generation of Vietnam veterans had the same welcome. But its good to see that even when some of us disagree with our countries involvement in a conflict we still can agree to support those unselfish men and women who keep and protect us no matter what.
Peter
by Peter Andrade from East Bridgewater, Ma
November 13, 2009, 12:56 PM
I absolutely loved it! my son left for Afghanistan on May'09 and I saw pictures of him taken by you wonderful people. I was so so touched watching this film! God Bless you and Semper Fi
by Mary Beth Downer from Port Chester, NY
November 13, 2009, 1:26 PM
One of the best films ever
This is one of the best films I've ever seen. Great job!
by Dave from Orange County, CA
November 13, 2009, 2:03 PM
Director of Finance, HomeCare Services
Absolutely fabulous. Thanks for making this film. I agree that it was touching and nonpartisan, this made it truly special. God Bless the people who go out and do this work, they are truly special. Please send my condolences to the gentleman whose dog passed away and also to the wonderful gentleman who had to sell his farm. In my book they are all great heros.
by stephanie crane from Ann Arbor, Michigan
November 13, 2009, 2:08 PM
THE WAY WE GET BY
This was such a touching movie. I was laughing at times then crying and very emotional. you two and the three seniors have done such awonderful job its so touchin.It opens your eyes to see our seniors doing such wonderful things Thank you very much Mrs GAUDET, Jerry and BIll lots of love to AaRON and Gita. Three Cheers to all of you.God Bless America
by CY AND ELIZABETH PULLAPILLY from SOUTHBEND , INDIANA
November 13, 2009, 3:07 PM
The Way We Get By - Amazing
I am so thankful that I caught this film on Wednesday as I was flipping channels. The film is absolutely incredible; it filled me with every emotion and so touched my heart. It's really difficult to put into words how beautifully the story was told and how amazing these seniors are for doing this. I wish I could join them on every single greeting and share my appreciate to the troops and the joy of welcoming them home. This is a must see, again and again. Thank you to the film makers for making this and to the seniors for their caring spirits...God bless them all.
by SusanB from Coral Springs, FL
November 13, 2009, 3:23 PM
I don't usually sit in one place that long.
But this film had me glued to the tube with its mix of characters, stories and connections. The photography was equally as extraordinary and the music right on the money. The sum total creates a deep emotional experience for anyone with warm blood. This is the kind of stuff that makes one believe our species may actually have a chance.
by Tim Haley from St Joseph, MO
November 13, 2009, 4:16 PM
Kudos to the Producers
You did a wonderful job telling a poignant story. It was uplifting to see the troops get encouraging sendoffs and embraced by genuine love upon their return. I'll never watch a member of the armed forces go away on deployment or return from service overseas without thinking of this wonderful show. Midway through the program, it occurred to me that Bill, Jeff and Joan actually needed the social interaction more than the troops needed them. I never really quite understood why Bill had allowed his farm house to become so run down and overrun by dogs and cats. That didn't seem to be explained. Also, I found some off Gita's off camera questions to be a bit distracting and intrusive, especially during a segment with Bill up on the third floor of the farmhouse. There weren't very many of the off camera questions so the ones that made the final cut really stood out. It was difficult to see Jerry endure the death of his beloved dog. They made such a good "team." And thanks for including the bonus video update of Joan's granddaughter coming home. "The Way We Get By" was beautifully shot and nicely edited. I'd refer to it as a documentary, not a film because, unless I'm wrong, this was shot on digital video not film.
by Mark Mohr from Spokane, Washington
November 13, 2009, 4:55 PM
I want to thank Bill, Joan and Jerry for all they do, and Aron for making this film, which let me know a little about the smiling faces that sent me off and warmly greeted me after my deployment to Afghanistan. I was moved to tears by your stories, and feel humbled to have (unknowingly) met you. I hope to (when I come through on the next deployment) shake your hands and warmly thank you for all you've done, not only as a member of your great generation, but what you've done for me and hundreds of thousands of other troops; given us all, without exception, a warm smiling face to come home to. Thank you for all you've done and continue to do; bless you!
by SGT Sara Lyon from Beavercreek, Ohio
November 13, 2009, 5:27 PM
Wonderful documentary!!
by Kelly from Jackson, TN
November 13, 2009, 8:54 PM
N'tl Guard Family Thanks You
My husband and I watched this together . . . there was even some footage of his unit coming through the airport!
I cannot describe all of the emotions this beautiful story brought up for us.
God Bless You for shining a light on these Angels in the Airport and telling their story with realism and respect.
by Lisa from Norwalk, Iowa
November 13, 2009, 10:04 PM
The Way We Get By
I feel very fortunate to have watched this documentary.
I turned on the TV and it was already in progress & I watched until the end.
I feel a much deeper appreciation for our troops, veterans and their families.
by Darlene Washington from Oxford, MS
November 14, 2009, 12:07 AM
A truely incredible, inspiring and truely beautiful film. So moving in a myriad of ways. There is so much to this film, it is simply a work of cinematic brilliance with a quiet power to touch the viewer deeply. What is the film about ? It's a film about soldiers and their struggle to reintegrate back into their communities, a film about the difficulty of leaving loved ones when going off to war, a film about the elderly and their tragic isolation and sense of worthlessness, a film about the bonds of human decency that transcend politics, a film about the eloquence of average Americans coping in their simple, very personal way with all of the above in small communities so far from Washington politicians and policy makers. Thank you to the wonderful people - the greeters and the soldiers - featured in the film, and especially to the film makers for bringing this story to the rest of us.
by Ed Herbert from Framingham, MA
November 14, 2009, 1:05 AM
I cried my eyes out while watching this great documentary! This film will warm and break your heart at the same time. I encourage anyone and everyone to watch!
Also, I am so inspired to volunteer and hope others are as well.
by Marta from phoenix, arizon
November 14, 2009, 3:09 AM
Thank you
I (Jen) started to cry so much, Tyler came over to sit by me because he was worried something was upsetting me. I said, no, I'm crying because of how wonderful these people are and then he got glued to the show as well. Hehe :)
Thank you so much for your wonderful, warm, caring hearts.
Bill- Even though you had to move from your farm, memories stay in the heart forever and your heart is plenty big to hold all of them and then some, More people should have a heart such as yours. What a wonderful example you are. Thank you for serving in the military, and supporting them to such an enormous extent.
Jerry- To lose a best friend is very tough and I hope that you know he will be there waiting for you in years to come. I loved your quotes that you would like on your resting spot o' land, and I think you should get them all done, you deserve much more. I also love that red sweater
Jean--You are such a sweetie, and I am so happy your family is safe. I am amazed at how many troops you have seen as you kept erasing the board and adding more numbers
To all of the Maine Greeters PLEASE be careful driving in the snow and on those late nights!!
To the Producers and Directors--you did wonderfully!!!!!!!! Please show this video not just on Veteran's day week---Memorial, 4th of July, heck do it once a month :D
Thanks again to all of you! What a great documentary that could turn a stone heart to liquid.
by Jen and Tyler from Syracuse, UT
November 14, 2009, 4:19 AM
Genuine Patriots
The sanctimonious pseudo patriotic pathetics who populate Tea Party rallies don't hold a candle to these airport greeters. Most of America has been stripped of genuine gratitude for the sacrifices made by men and women in uniform. The Bangor Airport greeters put the rest of the country to shame.
by Mike G. from Brewster, MA
November 14, 2009, 1:30 PM
I Live in Maine and This is an Accurate Depiction of Maine and Mainers
I am proud of the way the filmakers represented the greeters, the troups and Maine. This movie should not be missed!
by Jim Plunkett from Auburn, ME
November 14, 2009, 2:35 PM
What a great story . The anger I used to feel about the way Jane Fonda and her ilk treated the Vietnam vets in the 60's has been quashed by these true Americans . The troops were not the only genuine patriots in this story .
by Rob Ingham from Kitchener, Ontario
November 14, 2009, 2:36 PM
Salt of the Earth
Thank you for YOUR service to our troops. What a wonderful sacrifice you folks are doing. Bill Knight- you look great in that uniform--It still fits! I see there is more that I could be doing...will be checking out the volunteer site.
Thank you
by carol from Richmond, VA
November 14, 2009, 2:44 PM
Chief Master Sergeant USAF
I was lucky enough to see this film and meet Mr. Knight the GI film festival last Summer. When I read that the film would be shown on PBS, I made sure to have all my troops watch it. Thank you for making such a great documentary. I truly appreciate everything the troop greeters are doing for us.
by CMSgt Craig Kiwin from Sumter, SC
November 14, 2009, 8:57 PM
This was a wonderful film. I think everyone should watch it. I wish every airport had troop greeters. I want to personally thank these loving volunteers for what they do, and for letting the film crew into their homes.My brother served in the army for 20 years and went to desert storm.This really touched my heart in soo many ways. I may not believe in the war but I do believe in supporting our troops.I wish the volunteers all the best.Thank you and god bless.
by Lori Green from ROSEVILLE, CA
November 14, 2009, 10:43 PM
To the filmmakers...thank you, to those who participate in the greeting of the troops, you are magnificent...
by Thomas Smith from DeLand, Fl
November 15, 2009, 1:24 PM
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Awesome...makes me proud to be in Maine! Excellent job Aron and Gita!
by Kathryn from Rangeley, Maine
November 15, 2009, 2:11 PM
the way we get by
terrific film-THANK YOU for you're genourosity and patriotism
by marylou mcardle from newton, ma
November 15, 2009, 5:24 PM
This was so great. Not sure what airport this was at, but when my son returned on leave from Iraq..the first thing he commented to me about was that a group of complete strangers were at an airport to greet his group.
Makes me wish I lived close enough to an airport that I could do this also for returning troops.
by Betty Sams from Corydon, IN
November 15, 2009, 5:32 PM
A remarkable and touching presentation. Greeting the troops, a brief encounter yet it gives such meaning to their lives. I wish I could send them each a note of thanks. I am a Sr. citizen myself and can relate to to some of their concerns. Thank you to the filmakers as well.
by Ann from Westerly, R.I.
November 15, 2009, 5:45 PM
POV The way we get by
I really appreciated watching this show about the troop greeters. I was so lucky to be able to go to Bangor on Oct 30th when My son, a Marine was leaving for Afghanistan. I didn't know about the troop greeters till that day and now am so very happy to have watched your show. Thank you Troop greeters, you do a wonderful thing. And I hope you are there to greet my son when he comes home safely. Thanks!
by Karen Corson from Athens, Me
November 15, 2009, 6:06 PM
I just watched this a few hours ago and am even more honored to have been at the BIA last night and welcomed back troops with the Troops Greeters. The let my son and I join in while waiting for my husbands flight. My 11 year old was so proud, as was I. This film does not even come close to the love and warmth you feel as you walk around the terminal as the greeters are doing everything possible to make the troops just arrived, feel comfortable.
My heart broke over Mr.Knight. I can't stop thinking about him. I would like to find him, help him were ever I can, and bring him to my home for Thanksgiving. Military family here so he will fit right in. I will be at the airport looking for him.
by Melissa McCloud from Carmel, Me
November 15, 2009, 6:10 PM
Fantastic film by fantastic filmmakers
Five stars aren't enough, folks-- it's hard to believe (yet extremely inspiring) that this film was made by first-time filmmakers. I expect many great projects to come in the future, and I believe an Oscar nod for THE WAY WE GET BY! If anyone hasn't checked out Gaudet and Pullapilly's latest project, you really should: www.returninghomeproject.org
by Jessica Barnthouse from Cambridge, MA
November 15, 2009, 10:03 PM
Thank You for caring!
Bill, Jerry and Joan,
You're amazing and an inspiration on what being a true American is all about. My wife and and two yound daughters just watched the PBS Maine Troop Greeters program and this show reinforced to me and my family why we have a country that we can be proud of. Just want to say thank you for being their for those soldiers who give so much to protect our counter. This also gave me an opportunity to show my daughter that true happiness is found in serving others as the three of you so beautiful exhibit in showing love and concern for our troops. It is good to know that there are people like you caring for so many of our troops coming and going. The little things do make a difference. May God give you strength to continue your good work for many more years.
by Chess Hulsey from Brighton (Memphis), Tennessee
November 15, 2009, 11:36 PM
Thought provoking, touching and encouraging! This was well done and I thoroughly enjoyed it!!!
by Dietrich Idaho
November 16, 2009, 4:28 AM
Vietnam Veteran-American
This isat America is all about, should be all about. God bess all our patriots, thos that have fought and died for this great Country.
by Gordon Rouston from Mashpee, MA
November 16, 2009, 7:27 AM
'The Way We Get By'
Thank you Araon for making this documentary. What a touching and inspiring story. The Greeters are heros themselves and a reminder of how many lives are touched by one act of kindness.
Thank you,
Melinda
by Melinda Barnes from Mt. Shasta, CA
November 16, 2009, 7:50 AM
Retired Teacher
It was very interesting and moving. My husband also like the program, and he doesn't always care for documentaries. My congratulations to the people of Bangor, Maine. The program was very enlighting.
by Mary M from Staten Island, New York
November 16, 2009, 10:31 AM
Will this show again on PBS?
I saw it at Hoyts in Bangor and LOVED IT!! I want my kids to see it. We missed the showing on PBS and was wondering if it will be shown again.
by Michelle from Bangor, ME
November 16, 2009, 10:34 AM
These guys greeted me in 2004 when I was on my way home from Iraq. It was a very nice thing for them to do.
by James Mross from Columbia, MO
November 16, 2009, 2:26 PM
An emotional high!
A very moving and tender look at some very caring individuals whose lives were so enriched by what these greeters did and still do! At times very sad, and at other times happy. I didn't want the documentary to end!
by Rosalie H. Kaye from Irvington, New Jersey
November 16, 2009, 3:06 PM
Awesome
Excellent film. We're watching it right now and it VERY moving. Bill, Jerry and Joan, you captured our hearts.
by Deane
November 16, 2009, 10:47 PM
Thank you!
This is such a great film about a dedicated handfull of people giving back to our troops and teaching us all, young and old alike what service to others should be. As I watched this film, it slowly dawned on me that my son-in-law (Capt Ralph Harting KIA 4-29-05) probably shook the hand of one of these dedicated citizens on his way to Iraq. Unfortunately he wasn't one of the lucky ones who got to shake their hands coming home. But I am now heartwarmed to know that these wonderful people were there to say good-bye to him on his last steps on U.S. soil, I am proud that you were there for him. Thank you for your dedication to our country and our troops!
by Barbara Nazworth from Walled Lake, Michigan
November 17, 2009, 1:58 PM
Awesome
Loved it. We saw the greeters in action when we flew into Bangor for a New Year's vacation to Maine. We were inspired then and watching this movie helped it become even more real. Love the story-service to others really can help give meaning to your life.
by Terri from Marietta, GA
November 17, 2009, 9:39 PM
GREAT FILM! THANK YOU
Thanks to all of those involved! It was a very inspirational film for me, that just by being nice and caring for others can make a big difference in other's lives. Thank you for your dedication to our country and our troops!!!!
by jack from fresh meadows, NY
November 17, 2009, 11:50 PM
Great, great film
The footage, the story, all the moments captured. Unbelieveable...this film was suppose to be created. Thanks for being there...at the right place and the right time.
by Vicki Rosenthal, MSW from Fort Lauderdale, FL
November 18, 2009, 5:22 PM
My husband and I watched this most moving film with such pride in the citizens of our country and the men who have sacrificed so much to keep us free. My father, William Peak, oranized Patriot Flight 2008 in Troy NY at the age of 83. His quest to help WWII Veterans to the Memorial in DC gave his children a renewed pride in our country and its people. In this film, Aron Gaudet shares with us this same pride for his family and their dedication to Veterans. His film is an inspiration to all Americans everywhere. Congratulations Aron, well done!
by Lynda Minozzi from Clover, SC
November 18, 2009, 8:14 PM
A Real Gem
Thank you troops
Thank you greeters
Thank you movie makers
Such a touching, inspirational film!
by Nancy from Lewiston, Maine
November 19, 2009, 7:44 AM
I FEEL PROTECTED, THANK YOU
I watched this the first time got choked up, then the second time and the tears were rolling down my cheeks. It takes very special people weather it be soldiers, vetrans or family members to totally understand what these men and woman do for our country. My brother in law has done 3 duties over to Iraq alone. There have been many times we thought the call was going to be that he has left us. But we have been blessed that every time he has come home. He has chosen to go over because of the children and families over there that appreciate the Americans being there. Don't believe all that you see on our New Stations, it does not do any justice to what is really going on over seas.
by Allison from Deerfield, MA
November 19, 2009, 8:12 PM
Amazing, Moving, Uplifting!
"The Way We Get By" is one of the most emotional documentaries my husband and I have ever viewed. These people warm your heart, make you cry, and make you feel small in comparison. When one of the men says "My life doesn't mean anything but maybe this does," he is so wrong! He is a true hero! We are going to purchase a copy of the show so that we can share it with anyone we know who missed it. I am also going to recommend it to some of my friends who are teachers. All students should see this. Actually, every citizen in this country should see this movie. It is part of our history and who we are as a nation.
Victoria Krezonis
by Victoria Krezonis from Toms River, New Jersey
November 23, 2009, 9:28 AM
GOD BLESS BILL, JERRY AND JOAN
This documentary moved me to tears and, at the same time, made me feel ashamed to be the sometimes self-pitying person I am. What selfless people you are and to Bill and Jerry--you have made a difference. I'll never look at things the same way again. So many times while watching this I just wished I were there with you to hug you and comfort you. You make me feel so PROUD to be an American and to live in a country with people like you!
by R. VandenBurg from cathedral city, ca
November 25, 2009, 10:34 PM