I think a lot of us began to question the girls we'd written off, and whether maybe they didn't know something that we didn't know. And maybe they were having fun. The idea that sexuality might be something inside me, and not something that a man would choose to bless me with at some point, and that I might choose to act on that for myself. Not to please someone else, but for myself, to please myself. That was pretty new and it was great, I liked it.