Leave your feedback Share Copy URL https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/a-father-s-promise Email Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Pinterest Tumblr Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Story Before his son, Sgt. Jacob Butler, left for Iraq, Jim Butler made him a promise: If you are killed, I will go and stand where you fell. But keeping his promise proved more difficult than Butler expected. When he asked how his son had been killed, the Army couldn’t produce a report from the field describing what had happened.