15 Children's Books About Friendship

As a mom of two kids, I’ve found that teaching and practicing friendship skills is a daily effort. For my preschooler son, we focus on sharing toys and caring when someone is sad. For my elementary school–aged daughter, we emphasize considering the feelings of others and reaching out to those who are excluded.
When my children and I read together, we can watch the dynamics of friendships play out in the lives of storybook characters and then talk about what we observe. In honor of the International Day of Friendship on July 30, here are 15 books that can help us start conversations with our kids about what it means to be a friend.
A Friend for Henry(opens in new window)

Henry is on the lookout for a friend in his classroom at school, but is repeatedly discouraged by misunderstandings. This story follows a child with autism as he works to find a just-right friend.
Stick and Stone(opens in new window)

When Stick rescues Stone from a bully pinecone, a friendship is born. With fun rhymes and clever puns, this book shows the love between friends.
Be a Friend(opens in new window)

When other children show and tell in class, Dennis mimes instead, and when other children climb trees, Dennis pretends to be a tree. Eventually Dennis’s unique way of communicating leads him to feel invisible and lonely — until he meets Joy.
The Other Side(opens in new window)

Clover and Annie live on either side of a fence — a fence that is meant to divide them because of race. At first the girls watch each other from afar, but then they decide that a fence like that is meant for sitting on — together.
Best Friends in the Universe(opens in new window)

Hector and Louie are “best friends in the universe forever and ever,” but sometimes even best friends make mistakes and have arguments.
I Walk with Vanessa(opens in new window)

When a girl sees a classmate getting bullied, she wonders what she can do to help. This wordless picture book shows the power of a simple act of kindness.
Boxes for Katje(opens in new window)

Katje, a Dutch girl living with post-World War II deprivations, receives a package from Rosie, a girl in Indiana. Based on a true story, this book follows the young girls’ friendship through letters to each other.
The Lion and the Mouse(opens in new window)

A retelling of the Aesop fable told through illustrations, this wordless picture book tells the story of an unlikely friendship between a lion and a mouse.
The Almost Terrible Playdate(opens in new window)

A playdate doesn’t go as planned when a girl and boy cannot agree on what to play. Despite some gender stereotypes, this book is relatable and entertaining.
If You Plant a Seed(opens in new window)

Rabbit and Mouse plant a garden and are thrilled to enjoy their crop, but when some birds arrive, Rabbit and Mouse are less thrilled with the idea of sharing. Will they plant seeds of selfishness or seeds of kindness?
Katie Woo: Boss of the World(opens in new window)

In this early chapter book, best friends Katie, Pedro, and JoJo spend the day at the beach, but Katie eats all the french fries, takes the only empty swing, and grabs the shell Pedro saw first. Finally, Pedro and JoJo decide to confront Katie about her unkindness.
Ladybug Girl and Bumblebee Boy(opens in new window)

Lulu and Sam want to play together at the playground, but they have opposite ideas of what sounds like fun — until an invented game of Ladybug Girl and Bumblebee Boy brings them together.
Margaret and Margarita(opens in new window)

Told in both Spanish and English, this bilingual story follows two young girls who become friends at a playground despite speaking different languages.
Big Friends(opens in new window)

Birt and Etho play together in their cardboard boxes every day, but one day Shu shows up with a box and wants to join their game. Can a friendship of two become a friendship of three?
The Sandwich Swap(opens in new window)

Salma and Lily are best friends at school until they have a big lunchtime disagreement: peanut butter and jelly sandwich vs. hummus and pita sandwich.
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