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    - I met her in 1978.   
    She's 20 years older than me.   
    We did this reading    which turned out to be       a fantastic combination.   
    And when we finished Toni said       'This is a great combination       we should have a show    and go on the road'       It was like an    instant friendship       Which is not that    common for me anyway.   
    It's extremely deep friendship       and it's you know    really long lasting one.   
    I have never really    had a fight with Toni       which is really unusual for me.   
    We did have a very lengthy       argument as to whose mother    made the best dessert.   
    Her mother's apple pie or my    mother's apricots strudel.   
    Toni had to admit, upon tasting       my mother's apricots strudel.   
    That they were equally good.   
    My mother who I    bought Tony's mother's       apple pie to my mother       said that yes, it was as    good as her apricots strudle.   
    And then my mother goes,    I make apple Pie too       I said mum, lets not.   
    Let's stop it at this.   
    Okay, you know, we used to go       to the movies all the time.   
    And this is, you know,    this is what people like       we were once in line       for the movies at the Angelika.   
    In our house history       and a girl standing    behind us in line said,       I see you two    together all the time.   
    Are you related?   
    And I said, Yes, she's my son.   
    When you do something with Toni       or you go to something of Toni's       a reading or something       I've always said to her       you don't have an audience    you have a congregation.   
    I do readings I diss beaches.   
    I have an audience.   
    There's a lack of    reference in my audiences       that is not lacking in Toni's       I have actually been to       readings at Toni's given       where people bring her books       and they follow along with him       like people do like in a church.   
    I think that what surprises       me most about Tony       always even though I know       this is the case    is tolerant she is.   
    When I was child, my mother    used to always say to me       can't you be the bigger person?   
    And you know truthfully i can't.   
    I'm by nature the    smallest person.   
    Toni is a bigger person.   
    She's always the bigger person.   
    That's just character.   
    That has nothing to    do with who you are,       where you're from,    you know what?   
    sexual or what?   
    You know, that's Toni.   
    She has a lot more sympathy       for her fellow man than I do.   
    I have always sought    advice from Toni.   
    I'm not like a world's    big advice seeker.   
    You know, so I've always    sought advice from Toni       but what Tony is that       almost no one else    I know is is wise.   
    Okay.   
    And that is not a function       of age particularly    part of that.   
    What wisdom is,       is just this very large capacity       that she has, you know, for       human life and    understanding of humans.   
    I mean, very often I've    turned Tony for advice       or solace, you know,       because she could always    think of something worse.