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How to Safeguard Your Community Against Domestic Violence
Marta Peleaz, Photo by Robin Holland
March 20, 2009

Many people prefer not to think about domestic violence: "It won't happen to me," or "It's a private matter," or "It couldn't happen here." According to the Justice Department, at least 25 percent of U.S. women are battered by husbands, boyfriends, or other intimate partners at some point in their lives. Violence doesn't discriminate on the basis of age, race, economic class, or sexual orientation. And domestic violence is a crime in every state. Everyone knows someone who has lived or is living with violence.

Here are some steps you can take now to combat domestic violence where you live.

Step 1: Promote Awareness

The Clothesline Project features T-shirts decorated by abuse and assault survivors (and those who love them) to raise awareness of the issue and help survivors heal. Bring a Clothesline display to your neighborhood, or organize a shirt making session. Contact or go to to learn more.

As part of a nationwide program called Cut It Out, hairdressers are learning to recognize and talk to their clients about signs of abuse. Working with a local shelter or domestic violence program, you can start a hairdresser program in your community. For more information check out the Cut It Out Web site.

Distribute brochures and other materials from local domestic violence programs for display anywhere women go: your library, police station, supermarket, health club, clinic, church, or synagogue. Ask places with public restrooms (like restaurants and bars) if you can put brochures in the women's room or stencil a hotline number on the insides of the stalls. For help, contact the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.

Ask your clergy member to address the issue in a sermon, in marriage-preparation classes and in pre-nuptial counseling. Write about domestic violence for the newsletter.

Talk to the health, English, or physical-education teachers in your local high school. Help them put on an essay contest for teens about dating violence. Organize a self-defense and assertiveness workshop for teen girls.

Before you take a step, check in with local services for battered women: shelters, crisis programs, domestic violence agencies and medical and legal clinics. They will have more ideas for you.

The Office on Violence Against Women of the U.S. Department of Justice maintains a national directory of organizations dealing with domestic violence issues. The directory gives the name, address, phone number and Web site, if applicable, of each organization listed for women who need a helping hand.

Step 2: Organize Your Friends and Neighbors

Neighbors often gather to talk about preventing crime and violence. Try raising a discussion about the crime that neighborhoods can experience: family violence. Or arrange to have a staff member of a domestic violence program speak at a regular community gathering. Getting to know one another better can create the support that may prevent violence or help a woman reach out for help.

At such a meeting, you can:

  • Provide speakers, printed materials, or videos. Ask neighbors to pledge to call the police if they think they have witnessed abuse.
  • Give everyone an opportunity to talk and ask questions. Pass around a sign-in sheet. Decide whether to take further action. (For a kit on how to organize a neighborhood meeting and more on what neighbors can do together, contact the Family Violence Prevention Fund.

Ask your friends to pitch in:

  • For your birthday, ask guests to make a donation to a local shelter or other domestic violence program instead of bringing you gifts.
  • Read fiction or non-fiction about family violence in your book club. Invite your friends over for a video night on the subject. Contact Family Violence Prevention Fund for a list of discussion points.
Step 3: Speak Up

Reach out: Talk with women you think may be abused. If you hear anyone putting women down, blaming women for abuse or joking about violence, let them know you don't find this acceptable. Teach others in your life to do the same.

Urge your local news media to run thoughtful and accurate coverage of violence against women.

If you are a survivor, speak out: Write an article or commentary.

Vote, and let your representatives know you care about violence against women.

Additional Resources

The Internet provides help for many. The image above illustrates the seriousness of the problem facing those trapped in a cycle of domestic violence — it is the warning that pops up when you visit the Web site for the National Domestic Violence Hotline. It warns users that their computer may be monitored by spyware and provides an escape key to quickly provide a new screen should the victim be interrupted.

Get referrals to shelters and programs across the United States or a safety plan that you can personalize, from the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 787-3224 (TTY)

Get free "take action" kits, to help stop domestic violence, from the Family Violence Prevention Fund: 1-800-END-ABUSE.

Get a free booklet, "Every Home a Safe Home," including a quiz to identify abuse, models for equality-based relationships, and a safety plan, from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.

Learn about the Silent Witness program, seeking to end domestic murders.

Published March 20, 2009.

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