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Play Pretend: Resolving Conflict
We all learn to control anger, stand up for ourselves and resolve conflict through practice. Imaginary play is a fun and safe way to help children prepare for difficult moments, such as what to do when conflict arises at daycare, at school or with siblings.
Let your child know that sometimes we do things that upset others or make them mad — and sometimes we get upset or mad, too. When that happens, we can start to solve the problem by using our words to say we’re sorry or explain why we’re upset. Let’s practice!
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Introduce a stuffed animal or doll who is having a problem with a friend. For example:
- Bear is sad because another bear took the red crayon away from him when he was coloring a pretty flower.
or
- “Oh no!" Bear said, "I was playing earthquake and knocked down another bear’s block tower.”
Talk about how Bear might feel in each of these situations. Ask your child to help solve the problem. What should Bear do? What should the other bear do? Interact with the stuffed animal or doll to act out the scenario. Ask your child to think of ways they can use their words to work out a solution.
After you role-play, discuss what happened. How did Bear feel at the end? Talk about when your child used good problem-solving skills or what they might say or do differently next time.
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