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Dave finally opens his original birth certificate.
Dave has finally opened his original birth certificate. Inside is the name of his birth mother, but his birth father is 'unknown'. Encouraged by Julie, Dave tells the rest of the family.
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Ready to Catch You
2/24/2022 | 44m 19sVideo has Closed Captions
Dave has finally opened his original birth certificate. Inside is the name of his birth mother, but his birth father is 'unknown'. Encouraged by Julie, Dave tells the rest of the family.
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(thudding) (crashing) (light guitar music) ♪ (male singer) ♪ On the day you take the life I keep ♪ (Dave) In everyone's life, there are stumbles and falls.
If you're lucky, there'll be someone there to catch you, pick you up, give you a rub, and help you get back on your feet.
(male singer) ♪ Still haven't found what I'm lookin' for ♪ -But sometimes you fall... -♪ Still haven't found what I'm searchin' for ♪ (Dave) ...and no one comes running.
♪ (Julie) Dave, you're not listening!
-Yes, I am.
-What was the last thing I said?
(Dave) 'Bout the baby.
(Julie) The whole book's about the baby.
-So, I was right.
-Oh!
All right, well, by the end of this month, the baby's length will be about 25 centimeters and will weigh just under a kilo.
(Dave) That's about the same size as the flathead I caught last weekend.
(Julie) Oh!
Do not compare our unborn baby to a bottom-feeding fish!
(Dave) Trying to get a visual reference.
(Julie) And your flathead was about half the size.
-No, it wasn't.
-Oh!
It was.
Any kicks?
(Julie) No, just flutters.
Don't worry, it'll happen.
Okay, changes for mums.
During the second trimester, sexual desire, or libido, may well increase, mm!
(downhearted music) -Dave.
-I'm sorry.
(Julie) Look, staring at it's not gonna change what's in it.
(Dave) Just can't help thinking how different this would have been for my mum, you know, going through it by herself.
When are you gonna tell the kids?
Soon.
(Rachel) I still cannot believe her name is Rachel!
And according to Rafter legend, wasn't it Dad that insisted on calling you that?
-It's just a coincidence.
-No, it is too freaky.
-This has to be connected, Dad.
-Oh, can I see?
Father unknown?
Well, how could she not know who made her pregnant?
(Ted) Carnal knowledge.
Sorry?
Look at the birth certificate.
How old was she?
-Uh, she--Yeah.
-Fifteen.
Under the age of consent.
Now, if the boyfriend was over 16, and she'd named him, he coulda been charged with an offense.
Even if it was consensual?
(Ted) That was the law!
-Oh, God.
-Come on!
What happened to the swinging '60s?
(Sammy) Yeah, free love and all that?
(Ted) Nothin' to do with the '60s.
It's still the law!
So you're saying she just kept her mouth shut?
(Julie) Yeah, probably kept quiet to protect him.
That'll be my guess.
(Rachel) Okay.
Now, there's an address here.
Uh, Rachel, just hang on.
(Rachel) And, now, we just zoom in.
Right, well, it looks like, um, that address is now part of a shopping strip.
(Sammy) But maybe someone remembers a neighbor, maybe?
Oh, come on, look, it was 40 years ago.
She probably just got married, changed her name.
Morning, all!
Need some milk.
What's goin' on?
(Julie) Oh, we're, uh, looking for your dad's mother.
Right, what?
No way, you're kidding me!
Look at the surname, it's Warne!
Ugh, are we Warnes?
(Dave) No, mate, we're Rafters, we'll always be Rafters.
There are 16 R. Warnes in New South Wales, nine in Queensland, eight in Victoria.
(Nathan) Mm, two in South Australia.
-Oh, check out WA.
-Mm.
-Hey, don't forget Canberra.
-Yeah, oh, and Tassie.
Everyone always forgets Tassie.
(keyboard clacking) Guess there's no harm in having a little bit of a hunt around.
Rafter was my dad's adoptive parents.
(Melissa) Yeah, and the name he grew up with, that's what counts.
(Carbo) But you don't get it, Mel, it's about blood!
-That's right!
-Yes, and we are all a product of our ancestors.
I, for example, have the blood of Greece flowing through my veins, Hercules and Zeus.
-Zeus?
-Yeah, and Dimitris Saravakos, and Nikos Anastopoulos, -and Mimis Domazos.
-These are footballers.
(Carbo) Footballing gods!
Look, Ben, he could be related to Shane Warne, cricket god.
(Ben) That would be awesome!
Or, you could be related Warney Warne, who ripped off your dad.
-What?
-Well, he could be.
No way!
Mate, family's like a tree, mate.
They all start from the same root.
-Carbo.
-Of a tree!
-Oh.
-And then they branch out.
Look, I'm sure if you go back far enough, you'd probably find some great-great, however many great-grandad Warnes, who you and Warney have in common.
(Dave) Mate, do you mind flying solo today?
(Jake) Sure, everything okay?
(Dave) Yeah, I just got some personal business to deal with.
(Jake) No worries.
(Dave) Yeah, just let me know if you need anything, all right?
(Jake) Right-o.
-Morning.
-Morning.
Hey, is, uh, everything all right with Dave?
He seems a bit edgy.
(Rachel) Yeah, everything's good.
So, what are you doing tonight?
(Jake) Uh, family thing, sorry, it's my brother's birthday.
-Oh, yeah, Alex, right?
-You remembered.
(Rachel) Of course I remembered.
You having a party?
Nah, it's just Mum, and me, and him goin' up to the club.
Cool, yeah, um, can I get him a present?
Rachel, you haven't even met him.
(Rachel) Yeah, well, I wasn't gonna mention that a girl doesn't like to beg -for an invitation.
-Oh, no, actually, maybe not a good idea.
Mum has a bit of a thing about birthdays.
She sort of likes it just to be the three of us, -you know, family, and-- -Right.
-Should I feel excluded?
-No!
Not at all!
(Rachel) She's just got a bit of a thing.
-She doesn't have a thing.
-You just said she did.
(Jake) Yeah, just about birthdays.
(Rachel) Right, is there something I should know?
(Jake) No!
Come to lunch tomorrow.
-Sure?
-Yes.
Well, in that case, could it be dinner?
Not a problem, and trust me, Mum and Alex are gonna love you.
Okay.
(phone ringing) Hello, Julie Rafter.
(Dave) Hey, Jules, it's me.
Oh, hey!
How's it going?
According to council, the address that Rachel Warne gave was a charity house for unwed mothers torn down 20 years ago.
Oh, I'm sorry.
Ah, well, we knew it was never gonna be easy.
(Julie) Hey, uh, do you wanna catch up for lunch?
I'm, I'm eating pickles again, among other things.
Ah, I'd love to, but I just got myself a curry from the Sri Lankan restaurant that used to be my mother's house.
Oh.
So, um, so what's next?
(Dave) I don't know, a re-think, I guess?
How are you feeling?
Oh, good, great.
Any kicks from bub?
(Julie) No, not yet.
I'll see ya.
I love you!
Yeah, I love you too.
Bye.
(awkward music) ♪ G'day, Dave!
-Warney.
-What are you doin' here?
Uh, buying some beer.
Yeah, of course you are.
It's not really your stomping ground, though, is it?
No, well, I was in the neighborhood.
You look good!
-How's Jules?
-Good.
(Warney) That's good!
-She still?
-Yeah, yeah.
(Warney) Great!
You workin' here now, then?
Yeah!
Yeah, I love it.
It's air-conditioned comfort, discount booze.
No, practically runnin' the joint.
Right, well, I better get moving.
-Yeah, yeah, see ya.
-See ya.
Dave, we used to be mates.
You stole from me, Warney.
You know I'd do anything to make it up to you.
-Yeah, well-- -Warne!
There's a stack of boxes waitin' to be collapsed.
You're paid to work, not chat.
(Warney) Yeah, I'll, I'll get onto it now.
(clerk) Is there anything else we can help you with today, sir?
No, that'll be all, thanks.
(clerk) Those boxes won't recycle themselves.
No, g'day.
♪ I'll see ya later, Dave!
I'll see you at the cricket tomorrow.
-Cricket?
-Yeah.
(Dave) I mean, you shoulda seen him, Jules, it's pretty sad that it's the only job he can get.
I mean, he's a qualified tradesman, -and a pretty good one!
-Oh, don't you dare -feel sorry for him.
-No, no, I made it perfectly clear how I felt, I did!
I did, and he knows there's no future with me.
And I know that he's scared of you!
(Julie) Oh, that's 'cause I'm scary!
-Yeah, terrifying.
-Mm.
(Dave) Anyway, enough about Warney.
Why do I even wanna find the woman who gave me up?
(Julie) Because like you said, it can't have been easy for her!
I mean, she was a 15-year-old girl.
She tried to raise you for two years with very little support.
She probably had no choice but to give you up.
Yeah, well, we don't know that.
Maybe she got sick and tired, and wanted her old life back.
Maybe she wanted more of the sex, drugs, -and rock and roll.
-Well, maybe.
Probably hasn't given me a thought in 40 years!
(Julie) Well, until you find her, you'll never know for sure.
So what's next?
(Dave) I don't know, I'll go to the Parent Searchers website, make myself available to be contacted, and hope she's registered too.
Well, good luck!
(Dave) If my mother was out there, it was her turn to catch me.
(hopeful music) ♪ (Julie) You coming in?
(Dave) Yeah, in a second.
♪ Okay, well, that's all the details I know.
The rest was in the hands of fate.
(Layla) Well, anyway, you, my friend, were a magnificent pagan god tonight, you know that?
(Nathan) Yes, I was pretty good, wasn't I?
(Layla) No, you nailed it, you absolutely nailed it!
Thank you!
Um, oh, Layla, no more for me.
I'm just gonna email these contracts onto the UK lawyers to have a look at, then I'm outta here.
-Nathan.
-No, no, seriously, it's late, and I'm whacked.
No, well, I have to stay here and put in a call to Steve when he gets out of his meeting.
-Yeah, I know.
-Yeah, and you have to stay here and keep me company.
(Nathan) What?
Well, what if he asks me a tricky question?
Then I'm sure you'll be able to handle it.
Honestly, I'm exhausted.
Mm, well, actually, I might have something that can help you with that.
(tempting music) What?
No!
(Layla) Oh, come on, this is quality stuff.
(Nathan) Yeah, I'm sure it is, I just, I don't partake.
(Layla) But it's harmless!
And everyone does it, you know.
How do you think this industry functions?
-That's a very good question.
-Yeah, on booze, nicotine, and Bolivian marching powder.
Oh, it's all the essential food groups.
Oh, and you are so funny.
Look, come on, I really need you here 'till I put this call in!
Please?
-Just one line.
-Oh.
One teeny-weeny little line.
You know, it'll, it'll help you stay awake, and it'll be the most alert you've felt all day.
(Nathan) Ugh, and now, Sammy's decided to do this journalism major.
What can I say?
I don't wanna be the bad guy!
(Layla) No, you're not the bad guy.
No, you, you are the hero.
Yeah, hardly.
I mean, if she really wants to do it, it's her life, you know, I can't say no.
No, but here you are, you're working all hours.
Yeah, we're trying to provide a living for us.
Yeah, yeah, but you have to play along, you know, and do what she wants.
Exactly!
Exactly, but why doesn't she see that?
Though she says she does, Layla, she says she does, but she doesn't.
(Layla) No, no.
Well, I don't know, but-- Yeah, who cares.
(Dave) Nathan thought he was flying.
All the time, he was falling faster than a stone, and there was no one to catch him.
(Nathan) Yeah, I'll copy you in, and, um, we'll take it from there.
Okay, Steve, do you want to talk to Layla again?
No, no, no, no, I'll call him when I get home.
(Nathan) She says she'll call you when she gets home.
Okay, okay, bye, Steve.
Shoo!
(laughing) (Layla) Do you think he understands?
(Nathan) Understand?
(Layla) Well, you know, the job we do.
I mean, did you hear his tone of voice just then?
Like, "Yeah, thanks, guys, great job."
-As if!
-Well, I thought he sounded pretty pleased.
(Layla) No!
He sounded like a condescending bastard.
(Nathan) Ooh.
I swear, no one understands.
(Nathan) Except us.
(Layla) Exactly, which is why I will chop us another line.
(Nathan) Oh, no, no, I've, I've gotta go 'cause it's-- -Nathan.
-Oh, my God!
-What?
-What, it's nearly 4:00!
-Yeah?
-Well, I had no idea!
Where'd the time go?
I've really, I've really, really gotta go.
Mm?
(Layla) You are such a sweet guy.
(rock music) ♪ ♪ (indistinct song lyrics) ♪ ♪ History made my cold heart red turn black ♪ ♪ No lookin' back lover ♪ ♪ No lookin' back now ♪ ♪ No lookin' back baby ♪ ♪ No lookin' back now ♪ ♪ No lookin' back lover ♪ ♪ No lookin' back now ♪ ♪ No lookin' back baby ♪ ♪ No lookin' back now ♪ (door opening and closing) It's after 4:00.
Yeah, I know, I know, Steve was in a meeting, we just had to wait 'till that finished, I'm sorry.
I gotta be up in four hours, Nathan!
(Nathan) Well, it's a global industry!
(Sammy) Don't think the mouthwash hides it.
You've been drinking.
-No only-- -I can smell it!
-Only a few, Sam, I'm not drunk!
-Oh, okay, well, just go to sleep.
(Sammy sighing) (Nathan) Well, it's lovely in here.
(Sammy) It's been very lonely in here.
(Nathan) I'm sorry.
-You're forgiven.
-Yeah?
(uneasy music) ♪ (Sammy) What's wrong?
(Nathan) I don't know.
(Sammy) I thought you wanted to?
-Yeah, I did, I do!
-Then, what's the problem?
(Nathan) What, um, I don't know.
I must be more tired than I thought.
(Sammy) Okay, good night.
(Nathan) I'm sorry!
(Sammy) It's fine, just go to sleep.
♪ (Nathan) Good night.
♪ (Dave) Ah!
(Julie) Oh, I think I'm gonna enjoy the second trimester.
(Dave) Yeah, me too.
Is it okay for the baby?
I mean, we, we were pretty energetic.
(Julie) Yeah, we were!
(Dave) Your blood pressure didn't go up too much?
No, not too much.
It's not gonna get a big ding in it's forehead?
Well, not a big ding.
(Dave) Oh!
So cruel!
(Julie) You didn't seem to have any qualms about it before.
-No?
-No.
(Dave) Oh, probably didn't occur to me.
What would you like for breakfast?
(Julie) Mm, you treating me?
(Dave) Yup, name your poison.
(Julie) Um, we would like a chocolate croissant.
(Dave) Oh, how did I know this would involve a trip to the shops?
Oh, you're not gonna deny a pregnant woman her craving, surely.
Never.
(laidback music) ♪ (Warney) G'day, Dave!
Dave!
We gotta stop meetin' like this.
Twice in two days!
(Dave) You following me, Warney?
(Warney) No, no, no, I just caught up!
You know what I mean.
Oh, come on, Dave, don't be like that.
Well, this isn't your stomping ground anymore.
Why are you here?
Oh, it's a home game for your lot.
I thought I'd pop down early and get some brekky.
-Oh.
-Where you off to?
Oh, just, uh, the café.
Oh, I'll walk with ya!
(awkward music) (Warney sighing) Been, uh, doin' any practice in the net in the off season?
-Nah.
-Nah?
I have, mate, been workin' on the flipper.
I reckon I've just about got it perfected.
(Dave) Right, this is me here.
Thought you were goin' to heart attack on a plate?
-What was that?
-Brekky, the big fry-up.
Oh, no, no, I'm just getting a couple croissants for Jules.
How is Jules?
Same as yesterday, fine.
I'll see ya at the cricket.
Hey, Dave.
Uh, cricket, all right?
Well, he's stalking you.
(Dave) I don't know, maybe.
I know he wanted to ask me for a job.
I could see it in his eyes.
And that doesn't count as stalking?
Maybe I shouldn't go.
No, you love your cricket!
Well, it's uncomfortable.
You know, I did fire the bloke, and if he wants to push for reinstatement, he's got a whole day to do it.
No, he should be feeling uncomfortable!
He stole from you.
And anyway, we're all going, it's tradition.
It's the first game of the season.
Help me get my eye in, I know.
I mean, you're just gonna have to-- Whack him out of the ground.
(whacking) (cheering) (whacking) (cheering) So here we were, first game of the new season, and my eye was definitely in.
Just a few runs away from my first ever century.
No way I was gonna let Warney deprive me again.
The nervous 90s, nothing to fear but fear itself... (anxious music) ...and Warney's flipper.
(people oohing) (clapping) (Warney) Right, boys.
♪ (Ben) Straight back, Dad!
How long has he been on 97?
(Julie) Oh, about a year.
(Warney) Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes!
Catch it!
(cheering) ♪ (Julie) Oh, one more.
Please, just one more.
Come on, Dave, you can do it!
(Ben) Knock it over the fence!
♪ (indistinct yelling) ♪ (Julie) Come on, darling.
♪ (indistinct speaking) Stay out a bit.
(tapping) ♪ Wait!
(Rachel) Oh, he should have murdered that one!
(Julie) All right, calm down, you lot.
(Dave) Warney.
(Ben) What's he doing?
(Julie) No idea.
Give me the real deal.
What are you talkin' about?
I don't know what you're angling at, but you beat me fair and square last time.
I don't want any favors, just bowl properly, all right?
All right, Dave.
You asked for it.
No mercy!
I guess you're never gonna know what that ton tastes like, eh?
(Dave) We'll see.
(Warney) Right-o, boys, come in!
-Right in.
-Warney.
-Oh, I can't watch.
-Come on, Dad!
(Ben) Come on!
(Ted) He'll be right.
(Warney) Closer.
Perfect.
♪ A flipper.
♪ (whacking) ♪ (cheering) ♪ (Ben) ♪ Our Dave Rafter ♪ ♪ If you ask me if he's any good ♪ ♪ He is our Dave Rafter ♪ (Nathan) Well done, Dad.
(Dave) I'm not quite Bradman standard, but thanks anyway.
(Nathan) No, you were awesome.
I think it's just a good thing I wasn't out there batting with you.
Yeah, I was awesome, wasn't I?
(Rachel) Absolutely!
Now, I've gotta run.
I've gotta go, uh, do a few things before I have dinner with Jake and his family.
(Julie) Ooh, meet the parents, reciprocal thing?
(Rachel) Just the parent, the mother unit.
And, um, yes, it's only dinner, so.
(Julie) Well, have a nice time!
(Rachel) Bye, Dad, you were fantastic!
You know it!
-Dave, good knock mate.
-Thanks, mate.
(Warney) Good dig, Dave.
Thanks, mate.
(Warney) Guess I'll have to spend a few more hours in the nets, eh?
Yeah.
(awkward music) ♪ Just being a good sport.
Ah, mm.
(Ben) I reckon you are a Warne, Dad, differently related.
Actually, you know what?
You're better than him.
Shane never got his ton, and you did!
(Warney) Hey, um, what are you guys talkin' about?
♪ Related to the king of spin?
♪ Dave?
-Hi, sorry I'm late.
-No worries!
Dave score a few, did he?
-115, not out.
-Dead set, that's awesome!
Um, Rachel, this is my brother, Alex.
-Hi, Alex!
-I bet he never told you he had a brother like me!
(Jake) No, I did, mate, I did.
I told you Alex had CP.
(Rachel) CP?
As in cerebral palsy.
Yes, yeah, of course he did, sorry.
Um, happy birthday for yesterday, Alex.
(Alex) Thanks!
(Rachel) Do you n-- (Alex) Cool!
Uh, so, do I get a kiss?
Yeah, yeah, of course!
(Jake) All right, mate, all right, she's my girlfriend.
(Alex) She's too hot to be your girlfriend.
(Jake) I'm sorry, he's the cheekiest prick I know.
(laughing) He's not all jokes, CP.
Oh!
-All right!
-CP.
(Jake) Come on inside, and keep your hands off my girl.
(Alex) I can't help it.
After you.
(uncomfortable music) (Jake) Mum, Rachel's here!
This is my mum, Grace.
-Nice to meet you, love.
-You too.
-Um, this is for you.
-Oh, thank you.
You didn't have to do that.
We've got wine, but we'll open it now, shall we?
Oh, so, sit there.
Okay.
Oh, great, thank you.
(Grace) So, you found the place okay?
(Rachel) Yeah, I grew up around here.
(Grace) Oh, I didn't know that.
I knew your parents were living in Carss Park.
(Rachel) Oh, that's how Jake and I met, I live with my parents.
-I told you that.
-No, you didn't!
Jeez, he's useless.
He tells me everything about you, except the important stuff.
Ah, all of it good, I hope.
Well, he told me that you work in advertising.
That must be interesting.
-I love it.
-Have you made any ads on telly?
(Rachel) Uh, I work mainly in print, so it's more like, um, billboards and magazines.
(Alex) Is that boring?
-Mate!
-No, no!
Because I wanna work in telly.
Uh, I wanna be a presenter, like on a travel show.
You think I got the face for it?
Yeah, yeah!
Sure, you should go for it, why not?
(Alex) Mate, it is official, she is perfect.
(laughing) Rachel, the thing that you'll probably get to know about us is that we like to be honest.
We know our limits.
We don't like to set our sights on unrealistic goals.
Mum.
(Rachel) Of course, I'm sorry.
(Alex) There's no need to be sorry.
(Rachel) It's, it's just that I'm sure there are plenty of people with, um-- -Disabilities.
-Yes!
Who are really successful in the media.
-Boom!
-Oh.
(Alex) That's what I keep telling Mum.
I don't mean to be rude, but name one.
♪ (buzzing) Ah, there's my timer.
-I hope you like chicken.
-Ah, yes, chicken's great.
-Um, can I give you a hand?
-No, no, no, you sit.
Jake, can you see that it's cooked through?
I'll be back in a minute.
(Rachel) Wow, that's a lot of trophies.
(Grace) Ah, Jake's a natural when it comes to sport.
-Footy, swimming, hockey-- -Yeah, yeah, the golden child.
He's lucky most of this middle shelf are mine.
Yeah, right, okay, what for?
Swimming.
Alex is a Junior National Games champion.
(Alex) Special Games, of course.
Pool gets like a washing machine.
You can chuck your clothes in!
(Jake) Still a while off, Mum!
♪ (Ben) Dad, I am, I'm so, so sorry.
(Dave) Ben, I told you it doesn't matter.
-Stop apologizing!
-Sorry.
(Ted) I can't believe he was listening in!
-Oh, I can.
-Enough about Warney!
Are we celebrating, or what?
(together) Yeah!
(Ben) Hey, is it okay if Mel comes over?
-Sure!
-Um, what about some takeaway?
Nathan and I will get it.
-Your choice, Dave.
-Wow, this really is a party.
Well, I think we'll have Thai, and there's some cold ones in the shed fridge.
(Julie) Great!
Okay, well, I might go and get changed.
Are you all right, Dad?
(Ted) Ah, it's a, it's a text from Marjorie.
-Abby had her baby boy.
-Oh, that's great news!
(Ted) Look, I'll email her now and give her our best wishes.
-Say hi from me.
-Mm-hm.
(computer starting up) (curious music) Oh, Dave!
There's an email here for you, mate.
(Dave) Righty-o.
♪ (Julie) Nathan and Sammy must be back, I can smell the lemongrass.
-This email just came.
-Oh.
♪ "Dear Mr. Rafter, thank you for registering and lodging the request to find your birth mother."
Oh.
"I'm writing to inform you that a profile matching the one you lodged has been found, and the party's been contacted by us."
-Dave, that's great!
-Yeah, just read on.
(Julie) "However, at this stage, they have decided not to proceed further."
(downhearted music) "We realize this might not be the result you were hoping for."
-Are you kidding?
-Well, stuff her.
She doesn't wanna meet me, I don't wanna meet her.
-Dave.
-I'm fine.
Let's eat our dinner before it gets cold.
♪ (Ben) Then Warney bowled his flipper!
(Melissa) Sounds gripping!
(Ted) Oh, it was.
They were on the edge of their fold-up chairs.
(Ben) But Dad hit it out of the park!
(Melissa) Well, congratulations, Dave, that's fantastic.
(Dave) Nah, it's only a weekend cricket match.
Look, it's been great, but I might call it a night.
(Ben) Oh, you trying to get rid of us?
(Dave) Of course not, your mum's a bit tired.
(Julie) Yeah, no, uh, it's been a big day.
-I need to lie down.
-Need a hand cleaning up?
(Julie) No, no, no, it's fine, it's nothing to worry about.
(Ted) I might farm it in too.
-Night, all.
-Night, Dad.
-Night, Grandad!
-Bye.
(Ben) All right, well, we'll see you guys later.
-Bye.
-Night.
-Good night.
-Night.
(Dave) How to clear a party in one easy lesson.
You coulda shared.
I don't know if I'm ready.
♪ You know, you think it's not affecting you, but it is.
You put yourself out there, and you expect an answer, you just, you just don't think that answer's gonna be no.
Oh, darling.
It's the second time she's rejected me, Jules.
It hurts.
♪ (Julie) Yeah, I know.
♪ Any kicks?
Not yet.
-There you go.
-Thank you.
-You all right, there, Alex?
-Yeah, I'm fine.
-Oh, here, darling let me-- -I'm fine!
I said I can do it, I'm fine.
Your mum was showing me, um, all your trophies before.
You've won a lot!
The shrine.
If I'd had won a gong for best nose-picker, mum would have put it on display.
(Grace) Jake, don't be so gross!
Anyway, what's wrong with a mum being proud of her boy?
No, don't let her fool ya.
She's the real hero in this family, -raising two kids on her own.
-All right, enough of that.
Rachel doesn't wanna hear it.
(Jake) Mum was always there for us.
Rugby matches in the pourin' rain, Little Athletics.
(Alex) And havin' a child with special needs is no picnic.
Luckily, she had me as well.
I reckon I kept her sane.
He's messin' with ya.
I know, I know.
Well, my boys are my life.
I don't know how I'd cope without them.
Oh, soppy old thing, are ya?
(Alex) This is gravy.
(uncomfortable music) (Nathan) I was thinking tomorrow night, dinner, just the two of us?
(Sammy) Okay, but no canceling, not for work, not for a nuclear holocaust.
(Nathan) Deal.
(phone ringing) (Sammy) Oh, let me guess, Layla?
Yup.
Layla, hey.
No, sorry, I can't come in.
Because it's Saturday night, and I'm at home with my wife.
Ugh!
Okay, well, I'm sorry to hear that you value my contribution so little.
-Just go, Nathan.
-Hold on.
Better than losing your job.
No!
No, stuff her, she's out of line.
Well, go there, tell her that, and then come home quickly.
-You sure?
-Yeah.
Dinner tomorrow night sounds good, -just the two of us.
-Absolutely.
(rock music) What is so urgent?
(Layla) Look, I'm so sorry to interrupt your romantic night at home-- (Nathan) You speak to me like that again, Layla, -and I quit.
-No, Nathan!
(Nathan) Look, just tell me what the problem is because I haven't got all night.
Steve is cheating on me.
Again?
(Layla) Yeah.
And, you know, I-- you know I wouldn't mind if it were just some trashy groupie because we have a really open relationship, but this time it's different.
The same woman has answered his phone four times this week.
And tonight, she hung up on me!
I thought this was about work?
(Layla) It is!
It is work, Nathan, because he is our boss!
No, it's not, that's personal.
And, I'm sorry, but I'm not a counselor!
What you need to do is, you need to go home, you need to have a good night's rest, and I will see you on Monday morning.
(Layla) No, Nathan, Nathan!
No, look!
I just didn't know who else I could tell, okay?
And I'm really sorry to dump this on you, but you're the only friend that I've got right now.
And, look, look, look, look, look, look, look, look, I've got a present for you.
♪ (Nathan) No, you know, I've felt terrible all day.
-Nathan, just one line?
-No, really, really.
-One line?
-I can't.
(Layla) Okay, then.
♪ Ugh.
An hour.
-An hour, but I'm not-- -Thank you.
(Nathan) I'm not having any of that stuff, and I'm gonna drink mineral water.
Okay, thank you.
(Nathan) All right.
(male singer) ♪ We made the sacrifice for the yard ♪ -♪ We made a mark ♪ -♪ Hard yard 'till we're pullin' the seams ♪ ♪ From the start ♪ ♪ Fulfilling our dreams ♪ ♪ You got a life of fortune and fame ♪ Ah, what the hell?
(laughing) (Rachel) Thank you so much for the dinner, -it was great.
-Yeah, we'll see you again.
(Alex) I'd shake your hand, but I might not let go.
(Rachel) Oh, right, is that a CP thing?
(Alex) Uh, it's a joke.
(Rachel) He's kidding, you're--right.
(Alex) Come on, let's hug it out.
(Jake) Okay, uh, let her go.
Thanks, Alex.
-Okay.
-Good night.
(Rachel) Good night, bye.
(uneasy music) Oh, my God, where is the pit?
-The pit?
-Oh, of despair.
Could I have handled that any worse?
The whole night, I felt like everything I said was wrong.
No wonder she hates me!
(Jake) No, hey, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, -she actually loves you!
-Oh, no, no.
I felt so out of sync.
(Jake) You were fine!
And don't worry about Alex, he's a stir, you'll get used to it.
Look, all you gotta do is be yourself.
♪ (Grace) Jake, darling, can you give me a hand with the dishwasher -when you're done?
-Sure.
(Grace) Thanks.
♪ -I'd better go.
-Right.
I'll, uh, see you tomorrow?
Yeah.
(Jake) I'm helpin' Dave out, volunteer job at the cricket club.
You are such a little crawler.
Oh, hey, whoa, whoa, whoa.
We all know how important it is to impress the parents.
Right?
♪ (Grace) Oh, sorry, love, I didn't realize you were still here, sorry.
(Rachel) Just leaving.
♪ -That is so true!
-I know.
(Layla) Yeah, and you completely understand what I'm saying.
Oh, I do, absolutely.
-And I'm right, right?
-Mm, absolutely right.
-It's a commitment.
-Yes!
Yes, yes, it is, and Steve would not know how to spell the word.
-Mm-mm, C-O-M-M-I-T-M-E-N-T. -Double T?
One T, double M, I am a terrific speller.
-I bet you are.
-No, I am!
I, uh, I won a spelling bee once.
-Did you?
-Mm.
(male singer) ♪ We got bills to pay we got mouths to feed ♪ ♪ There ain't nothin' in this world for free ♪ No.
No, no.
I've, um, I've gotta go.
-Um.
-It's, it's late.
It's really late.
(male singer) ♪ Until we close our eyes for good ♪ (birdsong) -Morning.
-Don't.
(Nathan) Sam?
(Sammy) Half past 3:00 in the morning.
Why do I feel like an idiot!
(Nathan) She found out that Steve's having another affair.
I mean, there's not a girl in the Asian Pacific that he hasn't slept with, apparently.
-What?
-That's what the emergency was.
And when I got over there, she was a mess!
(Sammy) And she put this on you?
-That's not work.
-No, I know!
Sam, what am I supposed to do, she's a friend, not just a colleague.
I sat talking with her for hours, -until... -Until what?
...until I thought that she'd be okay.
(Sammy) You're too nice, that's your problem.
(Nathan) Maybe.
(Sammy) All right, well, you promise me you're going to tell her -this is not to happen again?
-Mm-hm.
(Sammy) I'm sorry Steve's cheating on her, but that is something for them to sort out.
(Nathan) I know.
No, I will, I promise.
(Sammy) Okay.
(Nathan) Okay.
(Sammy) Do you want a coffee?
(Nathan) I would love a coffee.
(Sammy sighing) Sorry, I got undressed in the dark.
Well, I'm going to put a load of washing on too, seeing as I am the perfect wife.
What's this?
-I don't know.
-Were you doing drugs?
No!
No, Layla must have put it in my pocket.
How can someone put something in your pocket without you knowing about it?
(Rachel) Hello, guys, it's a Sunday morning, people are trying to sleep in.
(anxious music) In his pocket.
You've gotta be kidding me.
-Just back off, Rachel.
-What was it?
-Speed, coke, ice?
-Why?
Do you want some?
-Oh!
-Oh, it was just coke!
(Rachel) Just coke?
(Nathan) It's harmless, Rachel, everybody does it.
But you used it, right?
Yeah, and it made you feel what?
Interesting, funny, sexy.
Look, Nathan, I know, okay, I've been there.
(Nathan) It won't happen again, I promise.
(Rachel) Oh, well, don't tell me that, you go tell Sammy!
(Julie) Morning.
-Morning, Mum.
-What's going on?
Nothing, Nathan's just being Nathan.
Oh, and did I tell you, Jake's mum hates me?
-What?
-Yup.
Oh, she couldn't, you're perfect.
(Rachel) Oh, but she does.
♪ (Warney) G'day, Dave!
Thought I might catch you out here.
(Dave) Warney, what are you doing here?
(Warney) Well, mate, you scored your first ton!
You gotta celebrate.
I brought you around the ball.
Thought you might wanna get it mounted or something.
(Dave) Yeah, thanks.
(Warney) Hey, hey, Dave, what was all that related stuff Ben was talkin' about?
-Nothing.
-Oh, come on, mate.
(Dave) All right.
I got my original birth certificate.
My mother's surname was Warne.
Dead set!
What was the first name?
Rachel.
Rachel Warne.
Nah, it's not ringin' any bells, but it's got a nice ring to it.
I told you we might be related a few months ago, remember?
Look, Warney, I'm busy.
Thank you for the ball, we'll see ya later.
(Warney) Dave.
-Mate.
-Dave, I'm sorry for what I did.
I will never do anything like that again.
Please, Dave, it's killing me workin' in there.
Dave, please.
Give me a job.
(Dave) Warney was in freefall, begging me to catch him, and I said no.
Sorry, mate, no can do.
(van starting) (Warney) Mate, I hope you never need a mate to give you a second chance.
(pensive music) ♪ (Dave) Okay, mains power's off.
Shouldn't take too long to get these up.
Well, I hope there's a bonus in this for me, mate.
Isn't dating the boss' daughter enough?
(Jake) Fair enough.
Looks like I'm up the ladder again.
(Dave) Yeah, I'll get started around the back.
(Jake) Right-o.
(Bill) So, scored 115 and can't stay away from the place, eh?
Could say the same about you, Bill.
Nah, I'm on grandad duty.
Trying to get them to run off a bit of energy.
Oh, I could clear them off, and we could, uh, have a hit.
I'll bowl at you.
Oh, no thanks, I'm here to work.
Security lights.
(Warney) G'day!
(Bill) Oh, right, that's why the power was out.
-Yeah.
-Just a sec, I'll go and turn it back off again.
-You didn't turn it on?
-Yeah, just then, why?
-Jake!
-Jake?
(Warney) Mate, mate, can you hear me?
Mate, can you hear me?
He's okay, he's okay, he can hear me.
It's all right, just relax, okay, don't move.
Don't move, don't move, we'll call you an ambulance.
No, no, no, stay down, stay still.
Dave, I'm sorry, I didn't know.
Ambulance, please.
Yup.
(breathing heavily) (Dave) Mate, I shoulda tagged it, basic safety rule.
-I'm a bloody idiot.
-Dave, accidents happen, it's fine, mate.
(Dave) Yeah, well, we'll call your mum, get her to meet us at the hospital, all right?
I'm sorry, mate.
(Warney) Mate, he's lucky, eh?
That current must have gone straight through him and out his elbow.
If it crosses his heart, he's finished.
(Dave) Mate, I'm really glad that you were here, but are you stalking me?
No!
No, Dave, I'd never do anything like that.
No?
Okay, maybe a bit.
I saw your job sheet this morning, and I saw you were working on Sunday, and I figured you might need a hand, so I took him up.
Warney, if you're still looking for work, it's all yours.
-What?
-Yeah.
Oh, my God!
Mate!
You don't know how happy that makes me feel to hear you say that!
-Dave!
-That's enough, that's enough.
-Dave!
-Don't push it, mate.
-The team's back!
-Yeah, good.
(Rachel) Mrs. Barton, hi, I got a message from my dad about Jake, -is he okay?
-Yeah, he's fine, luckily.
I just brought him home.
Can I see him?
-Hey!
-Hey!
(Rachel) Oh!
Oh, are you okay?
Oh, my phone was off, I'm so sorry.
(Jake) Look, it was just a zap and a bit of a tumble.
(Alex) You're lucky he landed on his head.
(Rachel) Oh!
Oh.
Are you sure they didn't wanna keep you at the hospital?
(Jake) No, no, no, I'm all good.
Look, it's no worse than some of the tackles I've taken on a footy field.
(Grace) And we know how to deal with a concussion, don't we?
-Yeah.
-Rest, don't sleep.
(Alex) And if he starts to vomit?
(Grace) Straight to emergency.
-Are you sure?
-Yeah.
Yeah, I'm good.
I'm feelin' really great!
You know, hey, Mum, do you reckon you could grab me a beer?
(Rachel) Beer with a possible concussion, I don't think so.
(Grace) I'll just get you a glass of water, Jake.
(Rachel) Hey, I'll be back in a second.
(tense music) Mrs. Barton, is there anything I can do?
Oh, I think your family's done enough, thank you.
I'm sorry?
Look, I'm gonna make this real clear.
I'm not trying to be rude, but I know your type.
My type?
What type is that?
Oh, the kind that trades off your looks, gets any boy you want, strings them along until you get bored or it gets too hard.
Okay, um, you don't know me at all.
That's not who I am.
Yeah, and you don't know us, love.
There are three of us in this family, and we stick together through thick and thin.
And when I'm gone, Jake has to be there for Alex.
Well, what has that got to do with me?
(Grace) Exactly, that's exactly what a girl your type would say.
Any girlfriend of Jake's has to be there for him too.
She has to understand that Jake is always gonna have Alex in his life.
Yeah, okay, I've met Alex once.
(Grace) Yes, I mean be there for him.
And the way you were with him the other night, I mean, I don't think you could cope, could ever cope!
So, I'm sorry.
I'm sure you're a really lovely girl, but you need to leave Jake alone.
♪ (Dave) The Bartons were there to catch each other, and Rachel was out in the cold.
(Julie) Oh, darling, it's natural for her to be worried and upset.
Her son was almost killed.
(Rachel) Yeah, but that doesn't make it any less scary!
I mean, I know she's had a really rough life and I understand that she's just trying to protect her boys, but it's still-- it's not right trying to make Jake's emotional decisions for him.
Well, just give her some space.
(Rachel) Oh, don't worry, I'll be doing that.
(Dave) Uh, just so you know, I offered Warney some work -when we have extra.
-Oh, Dave!
(Dave) Well, after what he did, it's the least I could do.
Yeah, as long as it's the least you could do.
(Nathan) Sam, just to make things crystal clear, I was idiotic, and I was weak, and I promise that I will never ever do it again.
Okay, I will call Layla, and I will set some boundaries.
(Sammy) Good.
But just to be crystal clear, if you ever touch that stuff again, I promise it's over.
Layla, it's Nathan.
Look, um, we need to sort some things out, so give me a call back.
Okay?
Bye.
(hopeful music) ♪ Can I help you?
♪ -Hello?
Are you all right?
-Oh, my God.
You look just like him.
Ha, I'm sorry?
You're David's son, aren't you?
-Dad?
-What?
Uh, can you come here?
Why?
-Oh.
-Just come!
Just go!
♪ -Ah!
Oh, my God!
-What?
(Julie) Oh!
I felt a kick!
-Where?
-Just here.
There.
Where?
What's so urgent?
(male singer) ♪ On the day you take the life I keep ♪ ♪ Take me in my sleep ♪ ♪ While I'm counting sheep ♪ ♪ In the deepest dreams of butterflies ♪ ♪ With visions of my day ♪ (Dave) Can I help you?
♪ On that day don't let my lover weep ♪ ♪ Take her in her sleep ♪ ♪ While she's counting sheep ♪ Rachel?
(inaudible) (light guitar music) ♪ Still haven't found what I'm lookin' for ♪ (Dave) We all stumble, but the first thing you have to do is reach out.
(male singer) ♪ Still haven't found what I'm lookin' for ♪ ♪ Still haven't found what I'm searchin' for ♪ Was that her?
I think so.
♪ (easygoing music) ♪ (whooshing) (man) ♪ Seven ♪ (energetic music)
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