
Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood
Circle Time Squabble/It's Not Okay to Hurt Someone
Season 3 Episode 18 | 26m 10sVideo has Audio Description, Closed Captions
Daniel gets mad at Miss Elaina/Daniel learns it's okay to be angry.
Daniel gets so mad at Miss Elaina that he wants to push her. Instead, he remembers the importance of self-control and how to stop himself from hurting a friend./Daniel gets mad when Margaret knocks down his fence. Daniel learns that it's okay to be angry, but it's never okay to hurt someone.
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Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood
Circle Time Squabble/It's Not Okay to Hurt Someone
Season 3 Episode 18 | 26m 10sVideo has Audio Description, Closed Captions
Daniel gets so mad at Miss Elaina that he wants to push her. Instead, he remembers the importance of self-control and how to stop himself from hurting a friend./Daniel gets mad when Margaret knocks down his fence. Daniel learns that it's okay to be angry, but it's never okay to hurt someone.
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♪♪ It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood ♪ ♪ A beautiful day for a neighbor ♪ ♪ Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
♪ ♪ Won't you be my neighbor?
♪ - ♪ It's Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood ♪ ♪ A land of Make-Believe ♪ ♪ Won't you ride along with me?
- Ride along ♪ - ♪ It's Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood ♪ ♪ So much to do, so much to see ♪ ♪ Won't you ride along with me?
- Ride along ♪ - ♪ I've got lots of friends for you to meet ♪ ♪ In this land of Make-Believe A friendly face ♪ ♪ On every street just waiting to greet you ♪ ♪ It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood ♪ ♪ A beautiful day for a neighbor ♪ ♪ In Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood ♪♪ - Hi Neighbor!
- Come play restaurant!
- I'm so excited to play with Chrissie!
Let's go!
- Hi Miss Elaina!
Guess what?
Daniel's playing restaurant with us too!
- OK.
I'm a waiter.
- I'll be a waiter too!
- And I am... Queen Silla Willa, the silliest queen in all the land!
I'm verrrrry hungry!
Who will be my waiter?
- (Miss Elaina): I will!
- (Daniel): Me!
Me!
Me!
- Daniel!
I'm the queen's waiter.
- But...
I wanted to be her waiter too!
Well... OK.
I guess I'll... cook the food!
He he.
- Queen Silla Willa, what would you like to eat?
- Do you have any silly food?
- Ummm... well... Oh!
We have... purple polka dot pancakes!
With a cherry on top!
- (chuckling): That is silly!
I'll take that, please!
- OK!
Hee hee hee!
Coming riiight up!
- I'll give the queen her purple polka dot pancakes!
- No Daniel, I want to give them to the queen!
Here you are!
Silly willy pancakes, Queen Silla Willa.
- HEY!
Miss Elaina!
You didn't let me ask Chrissie what she wanted to eat, or let me bring her the food!
You're... you're not letting me do anything.
Grrrr!
I want to play with Chrissie too!
- ♪ Clean up pick up, put away ♪ Clean up what you're doing, and then come on over to the rug and take a seat... for Circle Time!
- 'Kay, at Circle Time, I wanna sit next to Chrissie.
Let's go!
Ooh, there's Chrissie!
Come on.
- I'll sit next to you, Chrissie.
- Hey!
Daniel!
- I want to sit next to Chrissie!
- But I was here first!
- Miss Elaina, move!
Stop pushing me!
Stop, Daniel.
I'm sitting here.
- I'm SO MAD!
If you don't move, I'm gonna... Grrrrrr!
- Daniel, STOP.
Daniel, I see you're angry, but you can't hurt your friend.
I stopped you this time, but you need to be able to stop yourself.
♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ - ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ - That's right.
Now, let's talk about what happened.
Daniel?
- I wanted to sit next to Chrissie, but Miss Elaina wouldn't let me!
- But I want to sit next to Chrissie too.
And I was there first!
- But I never get to see Chrissie!
- Well I don't either!
- But you got to play with Chrissie so much before.
And I wanted to sit next to her, and you wouldn't let me... and... and...
Uh!
♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ I stopped myself!
I stopped myself from hurting Miss Elaina.
- I saw that!
And how do you feel?
- I feel... proud.
- Good.
Now we can work together to solve this problem of who sits next to Chrissie.
- I have an idea!
- What is it, Miss Elaina?
- Well, maybe we can both sit next to Chrissie!
Can we move this over?
- Yes.
Good plan.
- Now I can sit over here... - And I can sit over here!
- Wonderful.
I'm proud of both of you.
Now let's start circle time.
Ooh, and I have an idea for a game we can play... Today we're going to play a game where we can practice stopping our bodies, just like you do when you're angry.
- What game is it?
- Freeze Dance!
- Grrr-ific!
- Rrrrroyally fun!
- I know that game!
- OK, everyone stand up!
- Have you ever played freeze dance?
You can play with us!
When you hear Teacher Harriet play her guitar, move your body and dance!
And when she stops playing, freeze!
Like this!
Got it?
Let's play!
- OK everyone... Dance!
(music, laughter) - I'm dancing, boop-she-boop-she-booooo!
- Look at me!
- Freeze!
- I'm frozen like a statue!
- Agh!
I'm frozen but my nose is so itchy!
- OK. Dance!
- Phew!
Scratch my itchies!
- I hope she says it soon!
- And a...
Freeze!
- I'm frozen!
Brrr... Get it?
I'm frozen 'cause I'm cold!
- I get it!
Ha ha ha!
Whoa!
- Stay frozen... stay frozen... (Teacher Harriet giggling) Aaand...
Unfreeze!
You did it!
- Hard one!
- That was a long time freezing!
- I like that game.
- Nice job stopping yourselves from dancing.
Try and remember, the next time you get mad... you can stop yourself!
Now everyone, please calmly walk to the door and line up to go outside.
- Rrrrroyally great!
- Come on, let's play outside.
(all exclaiming excitedly) - Wow, this is so cool!
- Hopper balls!
I want to hop hop hop!
Hey!
Do you want to make believe with me?
Let's make believe that... we're playing a hopper ball game!
♪♪ The Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game ♪ ♪ Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game ♪ ♪ Let's bounce to the back And bounce to the side ♪ ♪ Let's bounce in a big circle ♪ ♪ And take a bouncing ride ♪ ♪ The Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game ♪ ♪ The Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game ♪ ♪ Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game ♪ ♪ Bounce really high Playing games is a treat ♪ ♪ Just bounce all around and groove to the beat ♪ ♪ The Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game ♪ ♪ Bouncey Bouncey Bouncey Game whoo ♪♪ Wasn't that grr-ific?
Let's go get a hopper ball!
Uh-oh, there's only one hopper ball left!
Come on!
Let's go get it!
Heeey!
Prince Wednesday!
What are you doing?
- I want to use the hopper ball.
- No, I do!
- No!
Me!
- I got here first!
- What are you doing?
- Why are you pulling?
- No, it's mine!
LET GO, OR I'M GONNA... ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ - Prince Wednesday, you stopped yourself from hurting Daniel.
I'm proud of you.
- I'm proud of me too.
- Good.
Now, how can we solve this problem?
- Well... Maybe we can take turns?
- OK... can it be my turn first?
- Well...
But what if you take a really long turn and then I don't get a turn?
- Why don't we use a timer?
- I like that idea!
- OK Daniel, you can hop until you hear the timer go... - (all) DING!
- Thanks for letting me have the first turn, Prince Wednesday.
- You're welcome, Daniel.
I'll just FREEZE (strained): until the ding.
(Daniel giggling) Still freezing!
Still freezing!
- ♪♪ What can you do when you feel so mad ♪ ♪ So mad that you could hit ♪ ♪ Did you know there's something inside you ♪ ♪ That will help you stop it ♪ ♪ It's good to know that you can stop ♪ ♪ When you're about to do something wrong ♪ ♪ When you find yourself getting so so mad ♪ ♪ Try to remember this song ♪ ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ ♪ You can stop when you want You can stop when you wish ♪ ♪ You can stop stop stop anytime ♪ ♪ And what a good feeling to feel like this ♪ ♪ And know I can stop at anytime ♪ ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪♪ (Ding!)
- Ding!
Did you hear that?
It's Prince Wednesday's turn on the hopper ball.
Prince Wednesday!
Were you freezing that whole time?
- Yes!
No, not really!
(Daniel giggling) A rrroyal thank you, Daniel.
Time to hop!
- Even if you're angry, it's not OK to hurt someone.
But it's a good feeling to know you can stop yourself.
And it's a good feeling to know that you're my friend.
Ugga mugga!
Let's go see some neighbors!
- ♪♪ It's good to know that you can stop when you're ♪ ♪ about to do something wrong ♪ ♪ When you find yourself getting so so mad ♪ ♪ Try to remember this song ♪ ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ But it's not OK to hurt someone ♪ ♪ When you find yourself getting so so mad ♪ ♪ Try to remember this song ♪ ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ But it's not OK to hurt someone ♪ ♪ And what a good feeling to feel like this ♪ ♪ And know I can stop at anytime ♪ ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ But it's not OK to hurt someone ♪ ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ But you can stop anytime ♪♪ - I like these visits with you!
Hi Neighbor!
I mean... Howdy, Neighbor!
I'm Farmer Daniel.
Want to come play on my farm?
- MOO!
MOO!
- Oh!
I hear Margaret.
- Moo.
Moo.
- She's pretending to be a cow!
- Moooo!
(Daniel giggles) - Come on!
Let's go to my farm.
Follow me, Neighbor!
- MOOOOO!
- Howdy, Miss Cow!
- Moo!
Moo!
- Moo to you, too.
Hey, it looks like you got out of the farm!
Come on, let's get you back on the farm so Farmer Daniel can take care of you.
I'm going to build a fence so the cows don't get lost.
- Moo!
- ♪ Daniel Tiger had a farm ♪ ♪ E-I-E-I-O ♪ ♪ And on his farm he had a fence ♪ ♪ E-I-E-I-O ♪ - Oh boy is that looking good, Farmer Daniel!
- Thanks!
Now the animals have a place to stay.
- There you go, little cow.
(Margaret giggles.)
- Hey!
I have an idea.
I can add something special to the fence.
Oh, let's build!
One block here, a piece here... and another tower here... and another block here!
Hmm, you need a roof, and... No, that doesn't look right... but this would look good here.
And oh!
A little peak for the top of this tower!
Yeah!
That's good!
- Look, Margaret!
- Oooooh!
- It's a special tower!
- Ba ba.
- Margaret DON'T!
- Dee dee!
- I just built that!
- Dee dee!
- Margaret!
NO!
- Dee dee!
- YOU'RE KNOCKING DOWN MY FENCE!
I AM SO MAD!
- Daniel.
Stop.
Daniel, (Margaret mewling) I know that you're angry, but you cannot hurt your sister.
♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ - But I worked so hard to make it.
- Yes, I know.
You did work hard.
- And then Margaret knocked it over!
And that makes me so MAD!
Grrr.
- I understand, but it's not OK to hurt Margaret.
♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ - ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ - Let's talk about what happened.
Why do you think Margaret knocked down your fence?
- Hmmm... She wanted to get Pandy?
- Mmm-hmm.
I think that's right.
Margaret didn't mean to ruin your fence.
(Margaret babbling) - No, she didn't mean it.
And she is just a baby.
- Who loves to play with her big brother.
- Come here Margaret.
- Dan Dan.
- Would you like me to help you build your fence again, Daniel?
- And the special towers?
- Yes.
Sure.
- Thanks, Mom.
(Margaret babbling) - Thanks, Margaret.
I'll use this block to fix my fence.
♪ With a block block here ♪ - ♪ And a block block there Here a block, there a block ♪ ♪ Everywhere a block block ♪ - ♪ Farmer Daniel is making a block fence ♪ - ♪ E-I-E-I-O ♪ - What do you think?
- I think it looks good!
- Me, too!
- Oh!
It's almost lunchtime.
(Margaret babbling) I'll take Margaret with me in the kitchen so you can play.
- Thanks, Mom!
- Are you hungry, animals?
Neigh!
Yes I am!
Moo!
I'm hungry, too!
Farmer Daniel has some food for you, animals!
Corn for the cow, and, um... hmmm... a carrot for you, horse!
Neigh!
This carrot is yummy!
(makes munching noises) Mooo!
I want the carrot, too!
No!
It's my carrot!
Neigh!
You can't have it!
Horse, you're making me SO MAD...
I...I...
(disgruntled sigh) But, I'll stop myself.
♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ I'm proud that I stopped myself.
Cow, are you still angry?
Well, yes.
I really wanted that carrot of yours.
- Can we share the carrot?
Neigh?
That would be nice.
Thank moo!
Here you go, cow.
Nom nom nom, nom nom!
(Daniel giggling) Chomp chomp chomp.
Lunch is all done.
Now, Farmer Daniel will give you animals... a bath.
I can carry all of these animals!
Farmer Daniel is going to give you a bath now.
Neigh!
Woo hoo!
Moo moo.
(Daniel giggling) Hey!
Do you want to make believe with me?
Let's make believe... we are giving real animals a great big bubble bath!
♪♪ Wash wash Washing in the tub ♪ ♪ Helping the animals scrub-a-dub dub ♪ ♪ First is the horse ♪ Horse!
♪ A horse says neigh ♪ Neigh!
♪ Next is the cow ♪ Cow!
♪ A cow goes moo ♪ Moo!
Woo hoo!
♪ Last is the pig ♪ Pig!
♪ The pig goes oink oink oink ♪ ♪ Wash wash Washing in the tub ♪ ♪ Helping the animals scrub-a-dub in the tub ♪♪ Wasn't that grr-ific?
Now, let's turn on the water and give my toy animals a nice bubble bath!
- Daniel!
It's time for lunch!
- OK!
Be there soon!
- Now let's add some... soap to make bubbles!
- Daniel, what are you doing?
- I'm giving my animals a bubble bath!
See?
- Yes I do see.
But you know you need to have a grown up with you if you're going to play with water.
- Can I give my animals a bath now?
- Not right now.
It's time for lunch.
- But I want to give my animals a bath!
The cow really needs a bath!
- I'm sorry, Daniel, my answer is no.
- Ugh!
Mom, I'm so mad!
MOM!
♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ - I got so mad, Mom.
But I stopped myself.
- You did stop yourself, and I'm proud of you.
Everyone gets angry sometimes.
- But it's not OK to hurt someone.
(Daniel sighs.)
I stopped my body... and I feel proud!
- I'm proud of you, too.
Now, how about we go have some lunch with Dad and Margaret?
- Yeah.
Um...
Mom?
Can we give my animals a bath together after lunch?
- We sure can.
- ♪♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ No matter how angry you get ♪ ♪ It's never OK to hurt someone ♪ ♪ So when you feel like you're getting mad ♪ ♪ You can find a way ♪ ♪ to get calm ♪ ♪ You could squeeze your stuffy tight ♪ ♪ Or dance with all your might ♪ ♪ You could run really really fast ♪ ♪ Or do some jumping jacks ♪ ♪ If you're mad and you make a fist it's time to stop ♪ ♪ If you feel like you might hit it's time to stop ♪ ♪ So when you feel your anger building up ♪ ♪ Stop, stop, stop ♪ ♪ It's OK to feel angry ♪ ♪ It's not, not, not ♪ ♪ OK to hurt someone ♪ ♪ When anger is building up ♪ ♪ Stop to get calm ♪♪ - I liked playing farm with you today.
But Margaret made me so mad.
It's OK to be angry, but it's not OK to hurt someone.
What do you do when you get angry?
It feels good to stop yourself.
Ugga mugga!
- ♪♪ It's such a good feeling ♪ ♪ To play with family and friends ♪ ♪ It's such a happy feeling ♪ ♪ When they lend you a hand ♪ (Ding!
Ding!)
♪ You wake up ready to say ♪ - Hi!
- ♪ I think I'll make a snappy new day ♪ ♪ It's such a good feeling, a very good feeling ♪ ♪ A feeling you know ♪ - ♪ That I'll be back ♪ ♪ When the day is new ♪ ♪ And I'll have more ideas for you ♪ ♪ And you'll have things ♪ ♪ You'll want to talk about ♪ ♪ I will too ♪♪ Because it's you I like.
- Let's spend some time with one of our neighbors!
(cheerful jazz music) - Hi, my name is Jazmyn and I'm here with my friend Dan!
What are we going to do today?
- We're going to feed the cows.
Would you like to help?
- Yes!
- Let's go!
- These are our cows.
Well, the big cows are the momma cows, Jazmyn.
And the little cows are the calves.
- What do they eat?
- Well, they eat grass in the spring, summer and fall.
But in the wintertime, they eat hay, which is dried grass that we make for them during the summer.
- They sure like that grass!
That baby calf was SO CUTE.
- Would you like to feed one?
- Really, can I?
- Let's go!
This is Billy.
He's a young calf, a young cow.
And we're going to feed him milk from this bottle.
Most of the calves drink with their mothers but Billy is special, so we give him a bottle.
- Yeah, Billy is probably done now.
- Wow, you're a pro.
- That was AMAZING!
I just fed a baby calf!
- C'mon Billy!
- Bye Billy.
- Hup, hup, hup!
- I can't believe I just fed a baby calf with this bottle.
- And you did a really good job, thank you!
- You're welcome.
Thanks for coming, neighbor.
Bye!
♪♪♪ - I like these visits with you!
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(giggle)
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