
Being kind is a skill that we can practice just like math, science, or reading. It starts by helping our children recognize when a friend or family member is upset or needs help. Then, we can encourage kind behavior by suggesting ways to be kind and compassionate — and make the situation better. (“Miss Whitney next door fell and sprained her wrist. Ouch! Let’s water her flowers for her until she feels better.” “Hmmm, it seems like your little brother might be feeling left out of our game of catch. Let’s ask him to play with us — or find something we all want do!”)
Help your child learn to be kind by reading picture books about compassion, pointing out when someone is kind to you and your family, and encouraging your child to explore all the wonderful ways we can be nice to others using the Daniel Tiger and Arthur activities below!
Questions to Ask Your Child
- How does it make you feel when someone is kind to you? How can you show kindness to your friend, brother or sister/family?
- How can you be a good friend?
- How can you include others?
Play and Learn Together With Children 2 to 5
We can help young children practice being kind by first identifying, naming, talking about, and acting out emotions. What does it look like to be happy? What does it look like to be sad? When children can see how someone else feels and understands why they are feeling how they are feeling (empathy!), they can also begin to understand how their actions (like deciding whether or not to share) can affect others. Try making a paper chain as a family to show your child the importance of working together and listening to the ideas and feelings of others.

Learn Along Bingo for Ages 2-5: Being Kind
Play and learn with this activity packet about being kind!

My Turn! A Simple Game About Taking Turns
Playing this game can help children practice waiting while the other player(s) take their turn.

Make Your Own Thank You Cards
15 min activityMaking a homemade card is one way your child can say thank you to a friend, relative, or teacher.

Make a Paper Chain to Practice Cooperation
Make a paper chain to help your child understand how cooperation and working together can make a big task easier.

Make a Coupon Book to Give As a Gift
20 min activityEncourage your child to perform acts of kindness by creating a coupon book to show they care.

Kindness Sweaters
Celebrate kindness with these 10 grr-ific ideas!

Kindness is Everywhere
Fill in hearts with words or drawings that represent acts of kindness.

Pretend Play: Caring for Baby
30 min activityHelp your child learn more about caring for a younger sibling or baby through pretend play.
Play and Learn Together With Children 6 to 8
With older children, start the week by playing a game of ‘feelings charades’ to explore more complex emotions — how does someone look if they are worried? Frustrated? Jealous? You might build on those conversations later in the week by talking about how we can practice kindness in group settings — like being a good sport or including others on the playground. This is a great opportunity to talk with your child about what to do when their feelings are hurt, or when they hurt someone else’s feelings.

Learn Along Bingo for Ages 6-8: Being Kind
Play and learn with this activity packet all about being kind!

Explore Body Language With Feelings Charades
To a kid, feelings are everything. They’re big, scary, fantastic, amazing and strange. It’s a lot to process!

3 Ways to Practice Being a Good Sport
Help your child learn about being a good sport by talking about the feelings behind winning and losing.

Role-Play: How to “Make Up”
Use role-play and discussion to help children develop conflict resolution skills.

Play Pretend: Practice Including Others
Using imaginary play, you can help your child work through the disappointment of being excluded — and learn to include others!

Create a “Kindness Tree”
30 min activityShow your child how kindness grows by creating a “Kindness Tree” to hang on the wall.

Give Awards to Everyday Heroes
30 min activityHelp your child understand what a makes someone a hero, and encourage them to create awards for the heroes in their life.

Set up a Plant or Pet Caring Schedule
Do you take care of a plant, pet, or stuffed animal? Write down or draw what you observe and create a list or schedule of ways you can take care of it throughout the day.

Taking Care of Others
Write down and draw a time when someone helped take care of you or someone you love.
Play and Learn By Myself

Explore Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood
Encouraging open-ended, imaginative play, this app let's your child explore as they visit familiar places and create stories.

Daniel and His Friends
In this interactive storybook, your child can read along with Daniel Tiger as he thinks about ways that he is different from his friends and ways that he is the same as his friends.

Kindness Bingo
Play this game of Kind Acts Bingo to celebrate kindness this month!

Elmo's School Friends
Elmo wants to play with his friends at school, but discovers that each friend is having trouble with their playtime task. In this game, your child can choose a friend to play with and then decide how to best solve his friends' problems such as stacking a high tower of blocks, cleaning up spilled toys, or deciding who gets a special dress up outfit.

Birthday Buddy
In this game featuring a birthday party for Baby Margaret, you child can explore ways they can help celebrate another child's birthday. They can make a homemade gift, decorate a cupcake, help choose party supplies, take photos, etc.
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How to Be Kind When You Feel So Mad!
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Raising Includers: 5 Tips to Help Your Kids Be Kind and Compassionate
When kids learn to empathize with others and show compassion for their peers, being an “includer” becomes automatic. Here are five ways to help your child learn to include others.

What to Do When Your Child Does Something Mean
If your child is acting mean, teach her how her actions affect others and how to make more caring choices.

How Daniel Tiger Helps Teach Social Skills to Preschoolers
Research shows kids who watch Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood have higher levels of empathy, were better at recognizing emotions, and were more confident in social situations.

Getting Along: How "Arthur" Can Help Your Child Manage Friendships
Watching ARTHUR with your child offers many opportunities to talk about friendship. Here are some great tips for helping your child cope with the ups and downs of friendships.

Empathy-Building Books for Kids
Stories you can share and talk about to help kids discover how listening can show that you care.

13 Children’s Books That Celebrate Different Ways to Show You Care
These children’s books offer a look at special ways to show friends, family members, and the community that you care.

Respectful Hellos: Learning Greetings from “Alma's Way”
When Alma learns that not everyone likes being greeted the same way, she decides that the best thing she can do is ask. Try these tips to help your child learn how to greet others.

Helping Kids Learn to Take Turns and Practice Waiting
Learning how to share and take turns can be a challenge. Here are ways you can help your child practice waiting for their turn.

Help Kids Be More Empathetic By Caring for Others
Empathy is a skill that children can develop through caring interactions with plants, animals and younger siblings. Try some of these ideas to help your child develop this important skill.